Family & Relationships - 16 September 2006

I found out that my partner slept wth someone while we were on a break.
I feel betrayed, and very upset, however I want to try and make it work, because I love him...........Do I keep trying?

2006-09-16 21:06:19 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

but i like it the way it was, it just looked better on her...i dont want to sound mean or rude, but how do i explain that i like it the way it was more without upseting her or something? not i think she looks great either way

2006-09-16 21:05:19 · 12 answers · asked by The Question Man 2 in Singles & Dating

I feel that people jugde us when they know nothing about us . I am a college student but because I work in a fast food places,so right of the bat people assume that I am a high school drop when in fact I finished high school with a 3.0 . I think people that should stop judging us all until they know us as a whole person insteed just a loser with a crapy job

2006-09-16 21:04:03 · 8 answers · asked by dvd_altena 1 in Singles & Dating

My in laws come over every weekend. They trash my home, disrespect my rules, and make funny faces at every meal I make. Last weekend I finally got mad and wouldn't speak to anyone, even my husband. My husband thinks the way the treat me is fine. For example, I have a new dog that I have been training to do basic sit, down, stay. Also because she is a labrador I don't allow her on the couch or allow her to be fed food from the table. I have repeatedly told my sister in law not to feed her, but I know she does behind my back. Every time she comes over and stays (the whole weekend by the way) my dog ends up getting diarrea the next day. Also I tell her not to let my dog jump up on the couch. The minute I leave a room I hear her coaxing my dog up on the couch and when I come back into the room she just laughs. She also overides me when I instruct my kids to do something. I am so frustrated and my husband won't back me up. I don't know what to do. I can't stand it any more!Help!

2006-09-16 21:03:54 · 27 answers · asked by Lynn 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

yellow and pink roses are more toward friends right? what would you do or like? give her what she likes or use red to be the standard romatic, or get one of each and present them together?

2006-09-16 21:01:43 · 11 answers · asked by The Question Man 2 in Singles & Dating

ok the situation is like i really like 1 of my friend..He just went to london for his studies (will be coming back in 4 months) we used to be on message everytime he was here.N now hes not here .. yeah i do miss him and those msgs n moments alot n i cant stop thinking about them...we have often exchanged "love u's" n "jaan" et all. but i dunno if they were just a friendly gesture..The main problem is that im a lil on the heavier side. Hes given me alot of motivation to loose it all.. Ya and i am working on it. But im worried if i tell him about my feelings what will happen.. As a person he likes me.. but just cuz im obese will he turn around? We are very good friends ha... The thing is tht should i tell him about my feelings rite now?? or should i work a lil hard n give him a surprise when he comes back after 4 months and then tell him?? But 4 months is too much n i dont want him to see some1 else in london which is impossible on my side to keep a check on (im in mumbai).

2006-09-16 20:59:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So my friend is trying to hook me up with a guy from her work. And I talked to him for the first time today and he sounded pretty cool but I'm not sure if I want to date a guy that lives in the town next to me! I'd prefer if he live somewhat near me!!! I don't know what to do, we're supposed to go to homecoming together, but I'm not sure if I want it to go further than that. And on top of it all he's BI!!! not that I have anything against that it's just that I don't want him leaving me for like my x or something. What should I do???

2006-09-16 20:58:40 · 10 answers · asked by sexi_angel_15 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-16 20:58:27 · 13 answers · asked by confidential_angel 1 in Singles & Dating

I CAN'T FORGET THE PHYSICAL & MENTAL ABUSE HE HAVE DONE TO ME SINCE I WAS A KID.I'M NOW 30 YRS.OLD I WAS RAISED IN THE PHILIPPINES & WE MIGRATED HERE IN CARSON

2006-09-16 20:58:14 · 23 answers · asked by JOHANN L 3 in Family

2006-09-16 20:57:46 · 2 answers · asked by mypigpin 1 in Family

I don't know If I should get one or not. For me I think it will just add problems. But what?

2006-09-16 20:56:51 · 14 answers · asked by Lonez 2 in Singles & Dating

would u personally go out w/ a girl who is ......

a size 12 and funny and sweet or.......

a size 4 who is a snob and always blows people off ........... ???????

2006-09-16 20:56:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm overseas and i have been talking on the phone and chatting online with the love of my life for about 5 months, but the thing is we never met in person. She just told me like a few days she tattoo my name on her breast, so i'm trying to understand is that some deep love or what?

2006-09-16 20:56:15 · 16 answers · asked by slimgoody 1 in Singles & Dating

for an average looking girl to find a decent guy If we have a good heart. My last boyfriend hit me.

2006-09-16 20:55:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend and i have had sex before but for the last 2 weeks she will not, not even a bj so what is the reason is she breaking up with me or is it something else what could it be

2006-09-16 20:55:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i know this sounds stupid but i heard that women wear certain undergarments for certain moods i heard that like thongs are for when they are " happy" granny panties are for when they dont care or nothing for when, well i dont know what nothing means but i know it means something alright just wanted some opionions

2006-09-16 20:52:41 · 2 answers · asked by heyhey 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-16 20:49:38 · 8 answers · asked by tadz 2 in Singles & Dating

A guy joked about being interested in me twice, and he kept asking me how I look and stuff. When I asked him if he ever joked around with other women in the same way, he said yes and stressed that he was merely joking. I've never joked around with any guy in this way, nor have I heard any other guy joked about being interested in me. I don't know if he was afraid of rejection, so he told me that he had also joked in the same way with other women and that he was merely joking. I mean, would anyone joke about being interested in someone??? That's really werid to me. What do you think? I appreciate it that you will share with me your opinions on this. Thanks a lot.

2006-09-16 20:49:32 · 3 answers · asked by claire d 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband( 40yrs) who I(29yrs) have been married to has betrayed me so many times. I feel i'm overreacting because he is not having an affair (at least I don't think he does) . Well, once I had to check his e-mail to get a friend's number and i saw he is writing to one of our female friends(46yrs) in a odd way. He ends it by writing " luv" and "his name". I was shocked when i saw it and asked him why and then he said he doesn't mean it and she writes it so he write it too and he said he wouldn't write'luv' next time. I thought I would try to forget it but i couldn't and the e-mails he has been writing to her is not ok considering she is married and other stuff.I know she had and always calls him and e-mailed him but I didn't think he would write 'luv' even though she did. We have other issues but i'm not given enough space. he is also secretly creating a 'dating' website with his friend. I love him and he acts like he does too. We have 2 kids too. Am I overreacting?

2006-09-16 20:49:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-16 20:47:55 · 8 answers · asked by asfasdf a 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We've known each other for 7 years, she got married 2 years ago and has a kid now, and never took the effort to meet face to face with me, instead always relies on daily telephone calls which are boring and there usually nothing new to say. I always try to arrange meetings but she never makes it. And she thinks that maintaining daily telephone calls is going to save the relationship. The latest incident, was the last straw, I just stopped liking her, and its killing me!!!

2006-09-16 20:47:53 · 1 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Friends

Do you guys feel that a person can know too much? That it actually turns most people off rather than on and makes it harder to make friends and get dates? I know the classic nerd story, but I don't know how close to reality that is. I'm sure most of you know what I'm talking about. Seriously, let's say that you study all religions and have read almost all religious texts and are therefore moderately to well versed in them, like learning new words and terminology (dictionary or whatever...I've read it), enjoy math and physics and so on. Does this have more of a negative affect on socializing than positive?

2006-09-16 20:46:38 · 9 answers · asked by magicka 1 in Friends

they r a Fab couple

2006-09-16 20:44:43 · 1 answers · asked by dada_baylee 1 in Singles & Dating

do most guys like alot of makeup or a little?
plz tell me ur opinions......

2006-09-16 20:43:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Her father is states away, has seen her only a few times, they know eachother, and they love eachother, he pays child support...but has no real rights and is not involved unless I let him be. So essentially the man who actually goes for long hall would be a father figure. But here's the other thing, I personally want the whole commitment thing and all and unless the man has the $ to really want to take the support away and provide in that way, I don't want marrage. Just the commitment and be as married.... So, knowing that... What are some opinions? (i know, bad spelling... sorry!)

2006-09-16 20:42:32 · 15 answers · asked by SunRise 2 in Singles & Dating

Morning everyone


Ok life has got a little worse since i told everyone my hubby has moved in with his new girlfriend and her kids.

This week alone he took all the money from the bank including the savings for christmas, stopped all the direct debit payments for the house and to crown it all cut of the digital tv whilst the kids were watching it. I am trying to stay strong for the kids and have now had no choice but to cease all contact as the last time on wednesday i let the kids speak to him on the phone he told my little girl aged 9 he wasnt sure who he loved more her and her sister or his new girlfriends kids. Im staying strong by trying to do all the practical things new bank account, getting the sky digital tv reconected etc. I have been to my solicitor who has advised me well and is trying to get the house put in my name etc.

What i want to know is what kind of man would do this to his kids, i dont care what he does to me its what he does to his kids that is really ripping me apart. I cant even leave the house without them as they think im going to leave as well. As for his girlfriend she has stood by and allowed him to this. I asked him for some money towards a school trip this week and i heard her in the background saying "you aint spending any money on her kids" . Im at a loss at what to do i want my kids to have a relationship with there dad as i know in my heart it is important but at the moment i really dont think its safe for them emotionally because of the things he has been saying and how he has been saying them. {he does have mental health problems}

Thanks for listening

H
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2006-09-16 20:40:28 · 30 answers · asked by h 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I lived with my in laws when I got married. We lived there for about a year. My mother in law is very manipulative and controlling, 2 years later and she still isn't over the fact that her son is HAPPILY married! We moved out 7 months ago and are very, very far away from her! Once we moved out I told my husband how I felt about her and he said he preferred I don't talk to her anymore b/c its just not healthy for me. She says things that are hurtful and just plain mean. I have a step son who I always thought she was manipulating and telling him mean things about me but im not one to interrogate a child so I never had proof until now. I found out she told him that she heard through a friend of mine that i was making fun of her other grandchild who was recently diagnosed with autism. I WOULD NEVER! I'm waiting for my husband to come home from work to talk to him about it...he always says well she's crazy but thats not an excuse for her **** and I want it to end today!! HELP!!????

2006-09-16 20:38:25 · 26 answers · asked by JustMe! 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I remember I was very nervous and embarrassed, he told me not to be nervous, that I would love it and I did ... it was beautiful..it was with a boy I liked and it was under a tree at night..umm yummy..

2006-09-16 20:38:04 · 13 answers · asked by Purrk3y 2 in Singles & Dating

ok i have three gay friends(yes there all guys and yea their gay with each other) ok one of the gay guys(cody)was at my house when i came home from school(like he always is) he stayed 4 dinner just like every other friday night but when he was about to get in his car to leave he told me to come over to the other side of his car. i did and he started talking about how good dinner was and told me to tell billy(the guy i live with) thanks 4 letting him stay 4 dinner. he stoped talking so i was about to go back inside,but as i was about to walk back inside cody truned me arond and kissed me on the lips!!(it was a freach kiss with alot of tongue i could bearly breath!!)at first i thought it was just a joke but then he stoped and pull away and said "was that to weird?" i didnt answer him i just staired at him (i was in total shock) then he said bye and just left it was so weird but what do you think?

2006-09-16 20:37:53 · 7 answers · asked by FrozenCyclone Xmen Rule 1 in Friends

I understand that the liscence is $45 dollars but what other costs are required? How much do you have to pay the justice of the peace? I am kinda duh when it comes to this stuff and my man isn't much better please help I don't quite know all that is involved adn neither does he

2006-09-16 20:37:25 · 7 answers · asked by pita8716 1 in Weddings