I feel that people jugde us when they know nothing about us . I am a college student but because I work in a fast food places,so right of the bat people assume that I am a high school drop when in fact I finished high school with a 3.0 . I think people that should stop judging us all until they know us as a whole person insteed just a loser with a crapy job
2006-09-16 21:04:03 · 8 answers · asked by dvd_altena 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
basicly there is nothing elsa work with me I am in good shape I have decent car I have had girlfriends ,but know that I SINGLES AGIAN I FEEL THAT I WILL NOT HAVE ANOTHER GIRL THAT DOES NOT WORK THERE. I WANT START DATING AGIAN ,BUT I FEEL THAT BECAUSE HAVE LITTLE MONEY AND I AM NOT ALLOWED TO BRING GIRL TO MY APRTMENT BECAUSE MY ROOMMATES HAS SMALL CHILDREN THAT CAN BE FREE WELL A TO DO ANY SEXUAL IN NATURE THAT I AM OUT OF LUCK SO TO SPEAK
2006-09-16 21:41:48 · update #1
I don't think that for a minute - you're earning an honest living!
Waitress work paid my way thru college - I never worried about what people thought of my work at that time. I knew I had goals and objectives - those who mattered to me knew that - the rest, with their judgmental attitudes I never let rain on my parade.
2006-09-16 21:16:30 · answer #1 · answered by Annie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you don't need ANY qualifications to work in fast food. In fact, the standard at fast food restaurants is typically very very low, and is also looked at as an easy job. It may be just a matter of convenience, but it may also show other people that having a quality job is not important to you.
You are right though, people are quick to judge someone based on thier occupation. When people ask what you do for a living, tell them you're a college student with a part time job.
2006-09-17 04:08:42 · answer #2 · answered by gen_ex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree that people shouldn't automatically judge immediately, regardless of what kind of car you drive, where you work and the clothes you wear. Just remember when people pass you up on those basis, they are the ones that are really losing in the end. They missed amazing person who is pursuing their dreams! Keep it up..
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brilliant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-17 04:08:19 · answer #3 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tolerate them. If you graduate and get a decent job you will have the last laugh. Look at the parking lot of a Mcdonalds or Burger King.....not exactly a group of big spenders. It might be their only chance to look down on someone.
2006-09-17 04:10:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
at least you have a job those who are judging may not have a job, on welfare ,or are looser them self and find it easier to to talk down to others just to make them self's feel good, keep up the good work. i thank all of the hard working people in the fast food places they are doing a job i could never do . GOOD JOB........
2006-09-17 08:21:54 · answer #5 · answered by leanngreek@sbcglobal.net 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are a big fat loser if you are working at a fast food place. It is an honest buck. Sitting on your *** and collecting a welfare check; those are the fat dumb losers.
2006-09-17 04:15:33 · answer #6 · answered by davester1970 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i know what you mean, I live in wyoming, am kind of a big guy and do maintenance work. I like my job, but because of the way i look, where i live and the work i do they assume i am dumb.
2006-09-17 04:09:29 · answer #7 · answered by Tater 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they assume that because people are stupid and they think bad about a person without knowing him....people in our times are selfish
2006-09-17 04:09:07 · answer #8 · answered by nice_kitty45 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋