ok the situation is like i really like 1 of my friend..He just went to london for his studies (will be coming back in 4 months) we used to be on message everytime he was here.N now hes not here .. yeah i do miss him and those msgs n moments alot n i cant stop thinking about them...we have often exchanged "love u's" n "jaan" et all. but i dunno if they were just a friendly gesture..The main problem is that im a lil on the heavier side. Hes given me alot of motivation to loose it all.. Ya and i am working on it. But im worried if i tell him about my feelings what will happen.. As a person he likes me.. but just cuz im obese will he turn around? We are very good friends ha... The thing is tht should i tell him about my feelings rite now?? or should i work a lil hard n give him a surprise when he comes back after 4 months and then tell him?? But 4 months is too much n i dont want him to see some1 else in london which is impossible on my side to keep a check on (im in mumbai).
2006-09-16 20:59:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeaaa i lik her answer... i think ill give him a double surpise wen he comes back... n i think talkin to him face to face is better... isnt it?? cool... wht say??
2006-09-16 21:14:34 · update #1
ok as tht guy said .. i dont mind mailing him... but wht if i sin get any reply?? i cant wait forever..... n if i keep mailin n nudging him for not replyin he'll think im not lettin him live in peace and tht im behind his *** all the time.. then surely he wont talk 2 me
2006-09-16 21:39:54 · update #2
Hi Freaksome, Since you were really good friends,I would wait to tell him your feelings.You might lose some weight while he's gone for 4 months.What a double surprise for him.So wait, and it's better to tell him face to face. GOOD LUCK A FRIEND
Clowmy
2006-09-16 21:09:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I learned something. You can lose the weight but the personality you used to have can either change or stay the same. If he liked the other you, then you losing the weight can hurt you.
I think that you should surprise him and not tell him anything. 4 months seem long but really isn't.
It is a good thing that you are using him as a motivation to shape up. Do it because you want to look and feel good. Not because you want him to notice you in a different level. If he didn't notice you before you lost the weight. He may not notice you after you lost it.
What if he found someone in London? What if he returns with his heart filled with thoughts of that girl he ?!
2006-09-17 04:10:22 · answer #2 · answered by misuran 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is really nice to have a friend like this. But ones who go abroad and return generally turn their eyes away. So i hope you do not become a victim. You are are the best judge rather than taking advice. Faith moves mountains and hope your faith moves at least one
2006-09-17 04:30:14 · answer #3 · answered by lkslalit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm going to be straight with you if hes worth your time then he likes you the way you are yeah if you loose weight he'll like it but if he is any kind of man then take the plunge tell him your feelings i'm not perfect and my friend in london is head over heels for me
2006-09-17 04:03:09 · answer #4 · answered by going2md 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u write a mail 2 him. that'd be easy. cos telling it face to face might be very hard. wait for the answer
2006-09-17 04:35:44 · answer #5 · answered by Sromit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dunno what would be a right advice but i think its better to speak up.tell him everything.atleast u'll be at one side after that and this uncertainity will end.good luck !
2006-09-17 04:09:52 · answer #6 · answered by S S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋