Family & Relationships - 16 September 2006

2006-09-16 22:24:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 19 and have been with my bf james for 4 years. Recently it has been pretty hard - we go to different unis bout 3 1/2 hours apart and our timetables mean we rarely get to see each other. The problem is that i've started to get feelings for my best friend at uni (chris) and have acted on them (we live together and spend most of our time together). We've never had sex but have done pretty much everything else and it's always when we are drunk (an excuse for my conscious i suppose!). I want to stop this (james is a great guy and he deserves a lot better) but I don't know how because I don't want to loose chris as a friend (but I also know if I carry on i'll probably loose him anyway as he'll realise what a slag i've been). Just not sure what to say to him..??!! I'm not being the kind of person I want to be right now and this is going to be the first step to sorting my mess out.

2006-09-16 22:23:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why is it so hard for all of you guys to lay next to your girl and hold her ????

2006-09-16 22:21:52 · 14 answers · asked by amandalove2283 2 in Singles & Dating

I've meet this guy at work that i have a slight crush on. But i didnt do anything about it or show any signs. We haven't communicate much since, just the usual hi-bye and some casual conversation. Recently i noticed he seems to be showing signs that i think he might be interested in me as well.

I didn't want to be over sensitive about it but this is driving me crazy! What should i do? Am i being over sensitive? Should i make the 1st move? Please please advice...

2006-09-16 22:20:12 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-16 22:19:41 · 11 answers · asked by Chuck Dhue 4 in Marriage & Divorce

it is because of what happened 10 mins ago that i decided to open up. i had a fight with my dad. Because i heard him yelling at my mom again and i just really want to help my mom and also standup for myself. but this time it's serious. he usually just slap me or cuss at me but today besides hitting me, he threatened to kill me if i piss him off and then he grabbed a knife from the kitchen and pointed it at me. and then said,"don't think i'm scared, i would do anything". He then started to hit the table with the knife and i was so scared but glad that he didn't hit me with the knife. and then he crashed some plates and continue to cuss at me. i just went back to my room and then he said to me,"i could let everything go but if you make me do that, you know what's gonna happen." i said what? he said he would kill me. i ended the conversation by just being quiet and letting him cuss and spit on me. i want to know what to do and also not give my mom any trouble.i just can't stop my tears

2006-09-16 22:19:22 · 17 answers · asked by i love food 1 in Family

2006-09-16 22:18:07 · 44 answers · asked by priya 3 in Friends

2006-09-16 22:16:35 · 18 answers · asked by priya 3 in Friends

my girl friend wanted a broke offo with me since july . But i really loved her so much . I am serious to her in this relationship . But she just treating me so cool and heartless since july untill now . She keep going out on all the weekens and come home late . I really dont know where she go and who she with . we still staying together at my house . But she dont talk much to me since july . Every things seem so different as before . I really loved her so deep in my heart . Can anyone tell me what should i do now ?

2006-09-16 22:16:33 · 11 answers · asked by low_thomas2000 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-16 22:16:26 · 5 answers · asked by drop_it_likeithot 1 in Singles & Dating

i mean like she is pretending to like you but realy does not.

2006-09-16 22:15:07 · 5 answers · asked by garnes d 2 in Singles & Dating

what are the signs? please.

2006-09-16 22:14:17 · 9 answers · asked by garnes d 2 in Singles & Dating

Grandfather called his grandson a morran and idiot for locking his keys inside his apt today. Mother is in another state and wont be back until tomorrow. She Has been gone for 2 days for a tournament. The grandfather warned him before hand not to forget his keys on this such day. The spare keys were the grandfathers and there are no others. Inside the apt are 2 kittes with enought food for 2 nights and big water bowl. So I guess they are ok for 1 day. Is it ok to react this way or a different approach? If so who is wrong and what do we say to make both happy? Only serious replies and please no name calling. We had enough for one night. Thank you

2006-09-16 22:14:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-09-16 22:13:08 · 30 answers · asked by priya 3 in Friends

2006-09-16 22:11:56 · 15 answers · asked by priya 3 in Friends

2006-09-16 22:10:35 · 55 answers · asked by priya 3 in Friends

only way ! Ive tried to be a good husband and think of just her but a couple of times I could not get an erection and it was embarassing . I know its all mental but we are both satisfied after if I think of women so maybe I should just continue like that so there is no trouble!

2006-09-16 22:10:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-16 22:08:47 · 2 answers · asked by priya 3 in Friends

I simply ran out of options, I lost my wife of 5 years and I need some help to get her back to the person she was before and to me eventually. I am not a creep but I just want to know if there is a love spell powerfull enough to do this asap since a have a concert to go to and this is supposed to be something very special to us. She turned her back on me and her family for this new lifestyle and she only listens to this new crowd. I am afraid for her.... please help....

2006-09-16 22:06:31 · 14 answers · asked by corberasd 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my boyfriend of over a year are really open but he is always on the computer or playing video games, and when i get off work he always wants to play with his brother or watch movies, and all i want is to spend time with him or go to sleep. it seems like all we do lately is argue over little things. and i think maybe i am over reacting to his not wanting to spend time with me is this my fault or am i right he should be considerate of me and spend some time with me and not worship the ps2 or comp.!!???

2006-09-16 22:05:32 · 15 answers · asked by tayler_07 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-16 22:05:09 · 18 answers · asked by priya 3 in Friends

2006-09-16 22:04:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-16 22:03:43 · 2 answers · asked by priya 3 in Friends

2006-09-16 22:02:04 · 8 answers · asked by priya 3 in Friends

I had a brief fling with this guy but i decided to call it off cos i felt like we were more friends than lovers and we'd never be anything else. I didnt have any feelings for him apart from friendship. We agreed to stay friends and see each other regularly, go to local once a week and speak regularly.
I've moved on and now in a very happy relationship.
I was out with my mates last night and he was there and as i'm friends with his mates, i sat and had laugh with them all.
He's just text me and told me that he cried when he got home last night cos he still loves me!!!
He's tried making me jealous by saying he's had sex with an ex last week and then says he has a crush on someone else but it dont work cos i'm no longer interested in him that way!
What do i do???????

2006-09-16 22:01:36 · 18 answers · asked by Mizz Julie 3 in Friends

2006-09-16 22:01:21 · 23 answers · asked by jack260477 1 in Weddings

my next door girl like me,but i don't.
she knows i have girlfriend
what i have to do with that ?

by the way i told my girlfriend

2006-09-16 22:00:22 · 5 answers · asked by A.J 2 in Singles & Dating

Omg... this is making me mad! My boyfriend and i go to the same high school... so does his ex-girlfriend....and it seems like everytime i turn my back she is trying to mess me n my boyfriend up b/c she is jealous! I don't like this! See he dated her for a long time... but she did him wrong... bad!!!! And now he says he don't like her no more blahblahblah! Okay I get that he dont like her! But i was telling him that she is trying to mess us up! And then he told me not to worry about. But still one day she is gonna take it too far! So ppls... how should i deal with this B*t*c?!?!?!?

2006-09-16 21:57:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a partner that doesnt listen to my advice,she got a baby she still breast feeding she got tiny cold ,we also planning of having a second child she decided to tdrink full lime and lemon .is that a good prescription drug to take?

2006-09-16 21:57:18 · 1 answers · asked by pete 1 in Singles & Dating

She wants to know if the guy she likes, likes her as well, this is the man she wants to leave her husband for. I already know that he does like her. Should I tell her??? Her husband is not bad and they have a daughter together. She does not love her husband, but she cares for him a lot. The other guy is more handsome than her husband and more suscessfull. Her husband loves her a lot, so what should I tell her, What would you do? She is unhappy, but I don't want to be responsible for breaking up her marriage?

2006-09-16 21:53:41 · 15 answers · asked by adrian p 2 in Singles & Dating