my girl friend wanted a broke offo with me since july . But i really loved her so much . I am serious to her in this relationship . But she just treating me so cool and heartless since july untill now . She keep going out on all the weekens and come home late . I really dont know where she go and who she with . we still staying together at my house . But she dont talk much to me since july . Every things seem so different as before . I really loved her so deep in my heart . Can anyone tell me what should i do now ?
2006-09-16 22:16:33 · 11 answers · asked by low_thomas2000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think you have to give up this relationship whether you liked it or not. I guess she may have found someone better than you and what you should do now is to let go of this relationship.
There is no point for you to grab onto someone who have no feeling for you already. So not to prolonged your agony, you have to made a decision and made it clear to her. it will not do you any good if you let it drags on.
2006-09-17 17:51:00 · answer #1 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your girlfriend wants a break and is going out without you all the time then you should move on she has. Have her get her stuff and move out of your house. I know you love her and you don't want to hear this but you can't force someone to come back unless they want to. Let her get into the real world and see what dating is like. You never know she might come crawling back then again she might not. Don't wait around for her enjoy your life and meet some new people.
2006-09-17 05:25:49 · answer #2 · answered by kittykat78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend may be trying to cool things off slowly. Why don't you have a talk with her? Tell her about your feelings for her and see if she reciprocates. If she doesn't, then there's really nothing left to continue because you can't control a person's emotions.
You mentioned that she stays at your place. Could she be just staying on in the relationship for convenience?
2006-09-17 10:21:28 · answer #3 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's pretty clear that she has gotten you out of her system. Staying together will only deepen your pain. Can you move elsewhere?
It's really too bad that things have changed between you two. But no point trying to salvage things now... she not talking to you means there's no communication and that's not good.
It's time for you to come to a wise decision, for your own happiness' sake
2006-09-17 05:26:24 · answer #4 · answered by Beth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like she's trying to 'fade' away from the relationship. In any case, for me, I believe that loving someone is not about possessing someone, it's about seeing that person truly happy even if those moments are not with me. It's about letting her go, knowing that she'll be better off without me.
Good luck!
2006-09-17 12:18:55 · answer #5 · answered by DumbUglyBoring 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its sounds like she's taking the piss to be honest and I doubt she is being faithful. You might feel like you love her now and can't live without her but the feelings will fade. It sounds like you are only going to get hurt so I personally think you should walk away now.
2006-09-17 05:36:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick her out ! you are not the "Hotel 81" boss. Why you are so generous, since she already broke off with you. So what ! if you love her and she treat you like a bloody fool. There are so many girls out there on earth, go and get another one, please.
2006-09-17 08:57:24 · answer #7 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a point to talk to her.Listen, and judge her in person.If nothing goes smoothly, send her away.No point keeping her in your heart.
For yourself, take it easy.Better love next time.You're been too good giving her accomodation.Blessing you
2006-09-17 10:15:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It si veyr clear that she seems to be moving on, and takign advantage of you, pls ask her to leave the house with her belongings, perhps she is not the one fr you and God knows best , so leave it be and move on.
2006-09-17 05:41:25 · answer #9 · answered by haboba13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lay low be your own private investagator,follow her and make sure have proof before you confront her.
2006-09-17 05:21:29 · answer #10 · answered by lesuiremike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋