She wants to know if the guy she likes, likes her as well, this is the man she wants to leave her husband for. I already know that he does like her. Should I tell her??? Her husband is not bad and they have a daughter together. She does not love her husband, but she cares for him a lot. The other guy is more handsome than her husband and more suscessfull. Her husband loves her a lot, so what should I tell her, What would you do? She is unhappy, but I don't want to be responsible for breaking up her marriage?
2006-09-16 21:53:41 · 15 answers · asked by adrian p 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Looks should not come into it - its how nice the other guy is and what he wants from her - its how you feel for that person. She may leave her husband for this other guy and in turn this other guy might not like her as much or take the child on and do a runner on her what then?? The grass is not always greener
2006-09-16 21:58:50 · answer #1 · answered by flowerpower 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it whether or not your the guy your talking about. Leave her well enough a lone. She has a child with her husband. Don't be a part of breaking off her marriage. If it's you that likes her stay away from her and if not don't give any information about the other guy! Never be involved with an others problem!
2006-09-17 05:16:17 · answer #2 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is dangerous territory. Make it your business to stay completely out of it. Do not help in any way. Her choice must be entirely her own because she is the one who will have to live with the consequences. There is a child involved and giving her any advice in this matter is not your duty as a friend.
My personal opinion is that your friend is selfish and is only thinking of herself.
2006-09-17 05:02:55 · answer #3 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it .Getting involved in SOMEONE ELSE'S marriage is like touching a starved stray dogs food. Your friend is bored and is looking to soap opera her life. The perfect answer to boredom is a problem.
2006-09-17 05:04:46 · answer #4 · answered by TYRONE S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is unhappy with her marriage she have to work it out with her husband. And is not fair for her daughter. they don't need anyone help for their relationship. And she not a kid any more.
if you are her best friend you can't help her in this way.
2006-09-17 05:13:47 · answer #5 · answered by Night Life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her do what she feels is right by her and of course her daughter. You be a friend and be there for her however take care not to influence her decisions in any way.
2006-09-17 04:57:44 · answer #6 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hi Adrian, You said it in your own words,you don't want to be responsible for their break-up.And if she was your friend,she wouldn't ask you to get involved with this mess.Get your hat and stay out of this.
Clowmy
2006-09-17 05:00:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just do not do anything. Let things happen. If anything goes wrong, then you will feel guilty about it. So it is best to be with her as a friend and not a guide at this stage.
2006-09-17 04:56:50 · answer #8 · answered by Mooch 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell ur frnd tht the other guy dosent seem to love her as much as her husband . remind her of their daughter. tell her wealth can be earned but not love .
2006-09-17 05:01:10 · answer #9 · answered by kiran 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the first poster, it's best not to get involved, never know, not only her husband will be mad at you, but your friend, too.
2006-09-17 04:57:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋