Family & Relationships - 16 September 2006

My sister just had a baby, James, on Tuesday. My sister and I have never been really close but whatever. Well, she had the baby on Tuesday and never called to tell me. She called my sister-in-law and everyone else except me and my mom. I sent her a card saying congrats but that is it. She called me today screaming at me saying I was a terrible because I didn't call her like everyone else. I didn't even know what hospital she was in. I offered to take her daughter for the day, with the exception of 1 hour cause I had a meeting. Do you think she has a right to be mad? How is it fair that she called everyone else to say she had him but not me or mom. Im just really confused...

2006-09-16 07:51:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i don't want to cheat on her or neglect her or anything, but as sad as it sounds - its a hot idea for me. what can i do, short of telling her take on another man, that would make my wife most likely to cheat on me if she has it in her to do it in the first place?

2006-09-16 07:51:24 · 9 answers · asked by w0t_b0t 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

How do you get rid of your mothers boyfriend without getting your self in trouble and without any of them knowing that you broke them up? Please help me out!

2006-09-16 07:51:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if you go will they give you over the counter birth control for free... and if they do, do you have to be over 18? and if your under 18 do they call your parents? serious answers

2006-09-16 07:50:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she loves me, but is not in love with me, she said I am the perfect husband and father, she just wants to be free, after her dad died 8 years ago, I became her father, we had only been married for 4 wks when he died, we never had time to be husband and wife, life has got in the way. Please advise.

2006-09-16 07:50:26 · 15 answers · asked by saxons_uk 1 in Marriage & Divorce

when i met my husband his mother didnt like me she didnt like even before she met me, telling her son not to mess with me but she needed to be telling me not to mess with her sorry son and now after 3 years of being with him just out of the blue she wants to start being nice to me inviting me into her house and laughing with me i think she got something up her sleeve. what do yall think?

2006-09-16 07:49:35 · 18 answers · asked by mrsp27 2 in Family

2006-09-16 07:49:05 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-16 07:49:00 · 4 answers · asked by .Samantha 1 in Friends

today a boy asked me to go with him for a walk. Because i thought he was joking, i said no! Now i realise that he loves me and i love him(he doesn't know i love him), and that he wasn't joking !! How can i say to him that i am sorry, and that i love him? please remember that i am 17(and so is he)! pls help me!!!!!

2006-09-16 07:48:58 · 27 answers · asked by alina_valy 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy, who's like my best friend. I get jealous whenever he's just friends with other girls.. it's always been a problem. how do i deal with it?

2006-09-16 07:48:58 · 10 answers · asked by katie 1 in Friends

2006-09-16 07:48:22 · 12 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-16 07:47:41 · 12 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3 in Singles & Dating

ok my friend told me about this guy...and she doesn't like him but she told me that she wanted to make him fall in love with her WITHOUT going out with him..i dont get how she's gonna do that, though. but anway, i don't want her getting hurt. what if she falls in love with him in the end?? that's something she doesn't think will happen but im not so sure....
but anyway...is there any way that she might get her way without falling for him too?

2006-09-16 07:46:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is there any way to get them to cut you some slack?

2006-09-16 07:46:22 · 12 answers · asked by East 12th Street 2 in Family

This might sound a little weird or odd question, but how can you talk to your boyfriend who you have been dating for 7 years , how can you get in touch with his ex wife and tell her that we had an affair but i caught him with other woman, now iam not seeing him, but i really want his ex to know, how can i go about reaching her and convince her thagt iam not some nut case I want her to know i found out about him, and stuff, And i want to be friends with her , soo how can i do that , when she caught me 7 years ago, and she is mad at me,

2006-09-16 07:46:20 · 12 answers · asked by trudycaulfield 5 in Marriage & Divorce

is it too earliy to ask someone to a school dance when you've only known them for about a month... I am not sure if she likes me... I stare at her all the time, and if she sees me stare at her, she smiles a shy looking smile. Does she like me, or is she being friendly? Should I ask her to the dance? How would you like to be asked if you where to be asked?

2006-09-16 07:45:15 · 22 answers · asked by steve 4 in Singles & Dating

An hour after you met him? A day after you met him? A month?

2006-09-16 07:43:34 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband had a huge porn addiction. It was really rediculous. He has the stuff everywhere. He would spend hours looking at it on the net and magazines everywhere and movies.. ect. He puts down anyone who does not look like those girls. He calls people fat, skinny ect ect.. if they look like a magazine girl they were hot. I was constantly trying to loose weight and keep- fit but I am in my late 30's. I dont think I look bad but it was never good enough. I got tired of trying to compete with air brushed implanted women with wigs. How does this happen? How do guys get so immersed and addic ted to this stuff?

2006-09-16 07:43:26 · 37 answers · asked by Lynnette G 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-16 07:43:16 · 3 answers · asked by redhead 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-16 07:42:52 · 10 answers · asked by a 3 in Singles & Dating

ii have this girl that i like alot and i want to be wit her but i m the kind of guy that would look at other girls and mess around with the i need to calm down. i really dnt ant to hurt her.... i like her alot what kan i do???????

2006-09-16 07:42:47 · 10 answers · asked by Pete C 1 in Singles & Dating

This question is for girls please... I like this guy and I also like his best friend I also like his enemy and I also like this other guy... I don't know who to choose! I love them all but I can't decide! Please give actual answers PLEASE!

2006-09-16 07:42:35 · 18 answers · asked by Someone 2 good 3 in Friends

Am i the only person i this world that thinks parental control has got way out if hand. first tv stations now computers, & cell phones? what happened to trusting you kids? seriously. if my parents had done that i would have been pissed and/or gone crazy.kids should have freedom and you should trust them. Whats with all this stuff?

2006-09-16 07:41:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I do fully understand it takes two people to have an affiar. But why is it the women will continue to have a realtionship with a married man? Again I do fully understand my husband in responsible as well. What would you do? Contact the other woman and ask her why she acted in the affair? Or should I just suck it up and move on? Problem is I WANT ANSWERS! and HE is not giving them to me.

2006-09-16 07:41:01 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-16 07:40:56 · 3 answers · asked by Barbi_girl 2 in Friends

ok,this girl is the best friend in the whole entirety of the world.we have been best friends since 3rd grade.i love her to death.but there is sort of a problem.she likes my bf and im just afraid that he is gonna want her more and i really dont want that to happen.she told me that she,"wont steal him" fomr me.and i believe her.but there is so much temptation.this is really hard.should i just blow it off?or what?i love her,and im not just gonna let something small ruin or relationship,but im still afraid.please give me advice!
thanks-ashleigh

2006-09-16 07:40:30 · 5 answers · asked by Ashleigh(: 4 in Friends

like you been dating he/she for 2 years and you found out that he/she was cheating on you and you still love he/she.

2006-09-16 07:40:12 · 24 answers · asked by Stephanie B 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I have been asking this question a lot, but things have been occuring everyday. There is this attractive girl in one of my classes. I walked past her in the room and I heard someone call my name. It was this kid and he pointed to this girl. She smiled at me and said hi. The next day she kept smiling at me and then I heard my name again. This time the girl called me and said quietly, "Do you want to go out out with me?" I did not say yes or no, because I wasn't sure if she was joking or not. The next day I told some of my friends and one kid said she asked someone else out and he says she did not mean it, although I don't know if this is true. Today, I was walking up a staircase with a buch of people around and that girl said hi to me again. She was with a two of her friends and they were not smirking or anything. I did not see anybody laugh when she asked me out and she is not going out with anybody right now. I am not ugly or stupid or a geek or anything.

2006-09-16 07:40:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i fell in love, genuinely for the first time and i can honestly say i had no idea it would end like this. my question is if you've ever been in love and how did it end up. is the word love tossed around like it doesn't have a meaning these days, or do people out there cherish the power of this four letter word.

2006-09-16 07:39:17 · 19 answers · asked by kenney d 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been going out for 7 months today exactly.. He's called and we argued, I asked him if he wanted to see me today, and he replied with a no.. does that mean that he doesn't wanna be with me anymore? and how can i tell if hes cheating or doing something behind my back? He bought me a gift yesterday and because I was supposedly being a *****, he brought it back? is that true?

2006-09-16 07:39:05 · 4 answers · asked by kay_c 1 in Singles & Dating