I like this guy, who's like my best friend. I get jealous whenever he's just friends with other girls.. it's always been a problem. how do i deal with it?
2006-09-16 07:48:58 · 10 answers · asked by katie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
he knows i like him and he likes me.
2006-09-16 07:52:07 · update #1
You are probably inloved with him. It happens. Try telling him how you really feel. It might help.
2006-09-16 07:51:26 · answer #1 · answered by stephan rs 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion,You can never overcome obstacles like that with the worlds way of thinking.It is set up with those pitfalls in mind.All of the majority of the thinking that is in the world today will eventually lead to total devastation sooner or later.Only with a renewing of your mind can you overcome those traps.I spent most of my life crawling out of the ditches that the blind guides of this road led me into.Then after having enough to last me a lifetime I decided enough was more than enough and that something had to change.And I was right it did,it was my thinking that was the root of all my problems.Now I look at things through a totally different perspective and I am able to enjoy everyday life once again.And believe me I never even thought anything but suicide would help.I recommend if you are serious about living an awesome worry free life,Read the Bible and meditate on His Word day and night.You don't have to go to church or start preaching to people,Just go to a room you can be all alone and read just maybe a chapter a day and meditate on it.Believe me He created this whole thing,I think maybe He knows a thing or two.Take Care and May God Bless You.
2006-09-16 15:07:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is a nasty monster that can take over the kindest of hearts. It comes from uncertainty and lack of self-confidence. I'm not saying that you're not confident but that you could be more confident. However, what I suggest is that if you like him tell him so you can know if you can be more than friends and if not then I'm sorry you will just have to let it go and remain his friend. It will take some time to be able to be around him and not be jealous. I hope it works out for you.
2006-09-16 14:51:58 · answer #3 · answered by tabkat73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be more aware of the fact that you are jealous, and ask yourself why you should even be jealous in the first place.
If this helps at all, many people don't like people who are obviously jealous. It's okay to be jealous if you keep it to yourself and don't obsess over things you are jealous of. Jealously is a part of human nature; just don't act on it.
2006-09-16 14:52:16 · answer #4 · answered by aanstalokaniskiodov_nikolai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to keep in mind that you do not own any person. Nor can you control their actions. You have to let go of the feeling that you want to control the situation when he is with other girls. The best way to handle this is to keep in mind that if you are just the way you normally are when you are with him ... and he enjoys your company now .. for who you are .. then he will most likely continue to see you .. and perhaps the relationship will go deeper. No one likes a jealous person.... so do your best to keep it to yourself ... if it is meant to be .. it will happen. Good Luck ! :)
2006-09-16 14:52:41 · answer #5 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is not your boyfriend then you have no right to be jealous. Jealousy is a trust issue. If you do not trust then there is no real relationship.
2006-09-16 14:51:18 · answer #6 · answered by anita_reel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First overcome your insecurities and your jealousy will magically disappear.
2006-09-16 14:50:56 · answer #7 · answered by Emm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Erm... realize he isnt just your friend? are you jealous of your lady friends meeting other girls?
2006-09-16 14:50:34 · answer #8 · answered by leikevy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
make a decision and keep to it good luck I know that you can over come
2006-09-16 14:49:59 · answer #9 · answered by sarell 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Grow up. That's how.
2006-09-16 14:50:17 · answer #10 · answered by Avatar 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋