An hour after you met him? A day after you met him? A month?
2006-09-16 07:43:34 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That does not have a set time. Whenever you feel that you want it and you will not regret afterwards.
2006-09-16 07:46:11 · answer #1 · answered by Pinar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the guy. I gave up my virginity to a guy after dating him for 3 days and we stayed together for 9 months. The next guy I made him wait a month because I knew he was a player and I wasn't about the sleep with him and then have him run off to the next chick (which ended out happening-at least I had him play my games for a month instead of the other way around). Third guy I made him wait 2 weeks after knowing him for 2 years, and the guy I'm with now... I think it was a month too (he was the type who couldn't settle down with any girl - we've been together for almost 10 months) It all depends on how comfortable the girl feels with the guy, and her sexual history - a virgin will wait a lot longer than someone who's had a few sexual partners (I am obviously not an example of that)
2006-09-16 07:56:51 · answer #2 · answered by Mystery_Woman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can totally depend on the guy and how comfortable you feel around him. If you aren't very comfortable, then obviously you aren't about to have sex. Guys are just easier when it comes to that kind of thing I guess.... probably because you all are just horny and don't care who it is as long as you get some.... sry if you aren't like that.... but all the guys I know are. When it comes to women, we think that sex is a sort of thing that you need to respect. It's not a right, it's a privilege, and it is something that you don't do with someone unless you really really love them.... so the nest time a woman (prostitutes don't count) sleeps with you, you should really think about it, she's not just doing it to do it, she loves you, and you should totally respect that.
2006-09-16 07:51:31 · answer #3 · answered by x-e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I first met my ex wife, she wanted sex four hours after we first met. I reframed from it because I did not want to start our relationship like that. By the end of our 11 years of marriage she said that most women don't need sex, that they can do without. So, in my opinion I think it's a load of bull! Just softly stroke her hair, kiss her neck and pull down those pants. She'll give in.
2006-09-16 07:58:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the guy. I am normally one for waiting until there is a decent relationship established but if it is someone really special and the timing feels right, then why wait.
2006-09-16 07:51:09 · answer #5 · answered by Chloe M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would love to tell you to save yourself for your husband because one day you will wish you had. However, I will answer the question at hand......My mother always told me to give a relationship 30 days! Never sleep with a guy until you have been dating him 3 months. It works. If a guy is willing to wait for you for 3 months than he is into YOU and not just wanting to get IN YOU!
2006-09-16 07:48:59 · answer #6 · answered by Stiletto ♥ 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There's no set time. I do it when it feels right. It's been 3 hours, 3 weeks and 3 months with me.
2006-09-16 07:47:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't a matter of time first of all.sometimes it may take an hour,a day,a month or an year.but in my opinion i think the best time is when ur emotions take over.if u feel the heat from ur partner don waste another sec u shud have seex otherwise after some time it will happen as usual
2006-09-16 07:47:24 · answer #8 · answered by Rebecca Jonathan 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Until I am married to him. I am still a virgin and I am finishing up my second year of college. I haven't missed a thing either. I don't have any STD's, emotional luggage, worries, and who knows what else. And my future hubbie doesn't have to worry about asking me if he is going to catch anything from me. Whcih could be an uncomfortable sitch for people. But I don't have to worry about it! True Love Waits all the way!
2006-09-16 07:47:55 · answer #9 · answered by Charis 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The girl I am dating now was naked in my hot tub on the second date - but no sex. She waited until the third date.
2006-09-16 07:47:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you feel the time is right. an hour an day is way too soon he might think you are a hoe but if u don't want to be in a relationship go for it a.s.a.p
2006-09-16 07:48:24 · answer #11 · answered by shariecollins2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋