i fell in love, genuinely for the first time and i can honestly say i had no idea it would end like this. my question is if you've ever been in love and how did it end up. is the word love tossed around like it doesn't have a meaning these days, or do people out there cherish the power of this four letter word.
2006-09-16 07:39:17 · 19 answers · asked by kenney d 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when i fell in love, it was completely by accident. i had just gotten out of a long term rlationship and he was a friend that helped me deal with it. when we hooked up once, i was positive it was just me being on the rebound. what took me by surprise was the fact that we really connected, and we really found that place of true love and undertsanding for each other. true love is hard to come by, and when it happens its usually not planned at all...but if you find it hold on! my love and i are no longer together, and i finally see what i had with him in earnest.
hope this helped.
2006-09-16 07:43:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have found true love without the "". No word in the english language can truly describe this magical word. All I can say is once you find it, you alone will recognise it and feel it in every fibre of your being. And yes, love has been used quite cheaply nowadays it disgusts me because the real meaning is distorted. Unfortunately I am not with the love of my life due to personal reasons beyond our control. But I can honestly say that despite what may keep us apart, the power of love reaches beyond these obstacles and unites us on a much greater level not understood by our mere minds
2006-09-16 14:47:39 · answer #2 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are still in high school, then expect it to end at some point. It most likely will even though you want to be with thsi person and you are experiencing new emotions with them and yadda yadda yadda. This is practice. It is not the real game, it is getting you ready for later on when you are mature enough to actually choose a mate right for you. I have found too many times that ppl that met in high school and stay with that person are usually miserable and questioning "I never knew what it was like with anyone else, is this the best for me?"
You can also love someone that is bad for you. You can love someone that loves you and love is great, but wont get a job. Or you love everything about them,, but they yell at you. Since you love them you have to stay with them, right? WRONG. Love is soley not enough to base a relationship on, sad enough. You have to have love AND respect AND responsibility AND understanding AND communication. It is kinda complicated but when the right one comes, usually you know it.
2006-09-16 14:45:32 · answer #3 · answered by adrixia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree i think ppl don't understand what real love is these day's and they just use it whenever they feel like it then usually go and cheat on that person but it's ridiculous b/c if you were truely inlove you would not do ANYTHING to jeopardise what you have with that person. I'm inlove with a guy and have been for 4years, i'm not with him and never was b/c he was a friend and i didn't want to ruin our friendship and i haven't seen him for two and a half years and i think about him all the time and have been trying so hard to move on but the other day i saw him on my birthday and all my feelings for him came back and so i'm back where i started. Sometimes i wish i had never fallen inlove with him. I don't think i will ever love anyone the way i love him.
2006-09-16 14:54:25 · answer #4 · answered by missy minx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i've been in real true love before. it lasted for 4 years.
what i can say about love is only that it can not be described in words, the best poet can never desribe it.
it ended in a bad way. she is married and i'm married to other spouses.
but still i cherish this love and it's enough to recall some moments
really really really real true love is such an amazing thing that can change u completely to another person.
hope u try it one day.
wish u the best
2006-09-16 14:47:34 · answer #5 · answered by chessexpert1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was, and still am in love with the love of my life. She's my wife, Venus, and we married on March 28,2003. She's my lover, my soul mate, my best friend, my heart, soul, and joy. She's my touchstone in a world gone insane. All she has to do to make my day better is smile, and her laughter fills my soul. When i hold her i don't want to let go. In her arms, the world is at peace, and whatever hurt i have is calmed, and my universe is made right again. I've never felt more loved, safer, and more complete than i do every day waking up next to her.
2006-09-16 14:45:08 · answer #6 · answered by kelleygaither2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people associate true love with the butterfly feeling they get with new love. I've been in more than one "true" love. The first was with my high-school sweetheart, we were together for over 7 years and he broke my heart. The second is my husband... Together for 7 years now and a more serious love than the high-school one. The third is with my son. I believe you don't really experience true love until you are holding your first-born in your arms for the first time. Love is love, and your feelings are what they are. Just know that just like life, love changes... it has its ups and it has its downs. True love is probably the love that sticks by you through it all.
2006-09-16 14:45:31 · answer #7 · answered by Mommy2Liam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I have never been in true love. I had an ex-husband who'd do th4e most horrid things tom e and I ended u in a battered woman's shelpter for over 5 years in NJ. My greatest wish in the world is to know what it is like to be loved by a man who equally loves me. I await for that one day to experience genuine love.
J
2006-09-16 14:44:34 · answer #8 · answered by jill_starr2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was crazy in love once before and we never ended up together. It was one of the hardest lessons I have ever learned. The lesson being : No matter how much you love someone you cant make them love you back! Ugh !
It ended up for the best because I later met the man that I married! He loves me unconditionally, treats me like a queen and buys me anything I want. He is on-fire for God and my best Friend. He taught me the difference between being in love and loving someone.
2006-09-16 14:45:07 · answer #9 · answered by Stiletto ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i have had true love for someone......and am still love with someone right now.....i would say i would of never thought this was goin to happen but i wouldnt trade it for anything in the world....its the best feeling anyone could ever get....its amazing.....but also very painful all at the same time.....
2006-09-16 15:11:09 · answer #10 · answered by lilnaychulita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋