like you been dating he/she for 2 years and you found out that he/she was cheating on you and you still love he/she.
2006-09-16 07:40:12 · 24 answers · asked by Stephanie B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd have to move on. Betrayal is a hard thing to get over. You can try to work it out, but it's always easier to forgive than forget. Love hurts, but the pain eventually goes away after you've moved on.
2006-09-16 08:15:22 · answer #1 · answered by -J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the person cheated on you once they will do it again. If you are willing to be done that way then stay. Unless it is extenuating circumstances. I cheated but heck he was in prison and I was trying to get divorced (it took me 6 YEARS to get the divorce)
People cheat for different reasons. If both of you want it to work then figure out what the real problem is. My first ex cheated because we were just too young to be married. The last one said it was because I was always working and never there for him. ( he did not work and I had children to support. I even had to pay a sitter sometimes because he was UNABLE to watch them)
2006-09-16 07:49:29 · answer #2 · answered by anita_reel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in july of last year my ex cheated me and i didnt get to understand why he did that, I always did all the right things and it happened, I gave a big shoot in his butt. After it I noticed I didnt like he, i never missed he it was because i didnt want to stay alone, more later I found a special and wonderfull person (actually my lovely and loved husband) and now all the things have mean. All the time we are being tested for good things in the future.
2006-09-16 07:51:31 · answer #3 · answered by nonono 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if someone cheats on you it means they have no respect for you how can you love someone who does give a s*it about you? show him the door, if he can do it once he can do it again and it will always be in the back of your mind wondering where he is when your not with him, have some respect for yourself why should you settle for second best? let him be someone elses problem! ive been there before!
2006-09-16 07:46:01 · answer #4 · answered by bigsteve 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you have to try to accept the fact that someone "worthy" of your love wouldn't cheat on you. Why would you want to be with someone you couldn't trust? Like the very old song says...."pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again."
2006-09-16 07:41:38 · answer #5 · answered by worldhq101 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes love really sucks. Let her/him go. He/she has cheated on you which means something is bad with your relationship. It doesn't matter how hard you try they have lost the desire to be only with you for whatever reason.
When someone is honestly in love with another someone they will never look at another person and think " I'd like to get it on with her/him" they will think very attractive her/him but I have my one and only I'm staying right where I am.
2006-09-16 07:45:45 · answer #6 · answered by oldmomma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its good that you can still love/trust someone after they cheated on you. That means you are forgiving.
Keep in mind they might do it again though. If they do, then you should leave.
2006-09-16 07:45:07 · answer #7 · answered by sweety 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to love yourself and care for yourself and your own happiness being with someone who hurts you alot and does not really care if they hurt you will make you miserable. I am sorry to hear you have had this bad time. Tell the person to buzz off cheap person you. Don,t think of yourself as worthless you can do better, respect yourself.
2006-09-16 07:44:52 · answer #8 · answered by guysmithdenise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him/her anyway. They will cheat again, and the heartache over breaking up will go away faster than constant heartache, worrying, wondering etc. To the curb!
2006-09-16 07:53:51 · answer #9 · answered by smallweed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. thats hard. I would be heartbroken because they dont love me like they use to. they care about someone else. even though I would still love him, I would dump him. Because I deserve a man that doesnt walk all over me. And so do you.
2006-09-17 01:05:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋