This question is for girls please... I like this guy and I also like his best friend I also like his enemy and I also like this other guy... I don't know who to choose! I love them all but I can't decide! Please give actual answers PLEASE!
2006-09-16 07:42:35 · 18 answers · asked by Someone 2 good 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just get to know them better. If they have the type of personality that u like, the i guess they would be good for you. Like somebody who has the same interest nat the one that doesn't even have a single thing same with you
2006-09-16 08:01:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't take offense to this, but I don't believe you or anyone can love more than one person. You probably just like certain characteristics about each one. Like your guy might have some of the qualities that you like in a potential long term partner, while at the same time the enemy may have a sexy butt or his best friend has a nice set of abs and even the other guy could have a cute smile. Thats not love that is just mini crushes on other guys while you are with your bf.
2006-09-16 15:29:09 · answer #2 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol! I miss these days! So.. one of the rules I kinda have ( and this is just basically so you don't go pissing anyone off) If you end up dating one of the best friends, don't get with the other if things don't work out.. at least not right away. I would determine which one I liked the most and ask him out on a date.. if he's not interested I'd flirt it up with the others until just one stood out. Relationships kind of just happen at that age. You flirt with him, he flirts with you.. and before you know it you've completely "fallen" for just one. Then you guys end up breaking up and you check out the other ones.. by that time there are three more that you've got your sights on. That's what junior and high school is all about. Playing the field a little. "Keep your options open" as my mom liked to say. Just make sure that you don't get too physically involved with anyone right away.. Give it some time to realize if you truly like the guy.. that way people won't look at you like a slut or anything.
2006-09-16 14:58:04 · answer #3 · answered by moonshadow385 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you have puppy love. I am not sure how old you are, but maybe you should focus on school and hanging out with the girls more that thinking about boys. When the time is right, you will know what guy to start dating.
Puppy love – romantic affection that is not "mature" or not "true." The term is often used with negative connotations, insinuating that love between youngsters is less genuine or valuable
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2006-09-16 14:51:25 · answer #4 · answered by stephaniea 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you really LOVE them all. Step back and reflect. If a list will help you, make a list of pros and cons for each guy and then decide. While you're doing that, you might reach a decision before you finish the lists though, let's hope.
No way do you love four guys. Have feelings for, maybe.
2006-09-16 14:52:23 · answer #5 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It does not sound weird. How old are you? I remember that I was in love with 3 guys when I was going to college and at the end lost all. It is a normaÅ feeling but be careful they will not understand it if they find out. Good Luck
2006-09-16 14:45:13 · answer #6 · answered by Pinar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You crush on 3. Love 1. It is impossible for a person to love more than one person. You have to like one better than the others.
2006-09-16 14:45:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl!! You are spreading the love around to thin!
If you really think that you love all four guys.....I'm glad that I'm not one of them...because that just wouldnt be enough for me.
I want one person to love me with everything they have...and not have anything left over for anyone else.
2006-09-16 14:45:26 · answer #8 · answered by sent_from_heaven2me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i now this might sound dorky but it totally helps:
1.make a list of all the guys with their phsyical and personality features.
2.pick the one that you think you would get along the best with
yeah it is weid. your just confused. seeing a lot of cute guys can do that to a girl!
i do this when i think that i like two different guys and it toally hepls!
2006-09-16 14:46:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they will decide for you. Have you concidered wich of them likes you? My advice: choose the one with the best sence of humor! You won`t fail!
2006-09-16 14:48:36 · answer #10 · answered by stephan rs 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋