i don't want to cheat on her or neglect her or anything, but as sad as it sounds - its a hot idea for me. what can i do, short of telling her take on another man, that would make my wife most likely to cheat on me if she has it in her to do it in the first place?
2006-09-16 07:51:24 · 9 answers · asked by w0t_b0t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Gain an excessive amount of weight.
Cook for her every evening, refuse to let her have a turn, and insist that she eat what you cook. You must either act like a bad cook or naturally be a bad cook. Eventually she will simply say that she already had dinner...with an attractive young man who either took her to a nice dining establishment or who can cook better than you.
Best of luck.
2006-09-16 07:54:38 · answer #1 · answered by aanstalokaniskiodov_nikolai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am confused by your question. Are you looking for persmission to cheat really?? or is it the idea of your wife with another man that makes you hot? You need to just talk to your wife about an open relationship if that is truly what you want. If she is not into that then you either need to let the idea go or let your wife go so nobody gets hurt.
2006-09-16 14:56:40 · answer #2 · answered by tabkat73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Ive read several times, and with my own life experiences I find the saying true...
Women cheat to "FEEL" love and affection....
Men cheat because they can....
Are you sure you don't want to be a voyeur as this takes place? Could you approach her on it, or is your relationship not "like that?"
I cant say I understand the reasoning of why you find it hot... I know some couples do it, for the husband to watch as I said above, but Im not sure what level youre coming from.
2006-09-16 14:58:20 · answer #3 · answered by B_Strong_Speak_Tru 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing that is not wrongful. If you are thinking of having an affair the right thing to do would be to leave your wife first. Don't put her thru the pain of having to find out while she is married to you. Just tell her you want a divorce because you are a dirty rotten man. Don't try and get her to cheat. That is stupid! Where are your morals?
2006-09-16 14:54:01 · answer #4 · answered by Brown_Eyed_Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take vacations and don't ask for sex for days afterwards. She'll get paranoid cause they all do. Also get another e-mail and e-mail sexy messages to yourself. Then when she is sufficiently paranoid leave your account open to her curious eyes by "accident". (Destroy all traces of these maneouvers so she can't allege you actually cheated on her first.) Good Luck bro.!
p.s. Act like a total undesired slob and jackA so she'll think she's getting the high end of the stick
2006-09-16 14:56:34 · answer #5 · answered by Sonnenrad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not clear on your question ? You want to cheat on your wife ? Or you want her to cheat on you ? .. Try looking in your local newspapers or on the internet for "swingers clubs" where you can both live out your fantasies. Good Luck ! :)
2006-09-16 14:54:24 · answer #6 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her out to a club and encourage her to dance with another guy. My boyfriend and I go out and if he sees me looking at a hot guy he will grab him and push him up to me to dance with (one in front and one behind....hot, hot, hot).
My bf likes seeing me with other guys (so far just dancing). I haven't had sex with anyone (yet) but he keeps trying. Once we did bring a guy home and did everything BUT intercourse.
The more she is exposed to other men and the more other men turn her on, the more likely she is to cheat (especially when she sees it doesn't bother you).
2006-09-16 14:58:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her 2 join
2006-09-16 14:54:59 · answer #8 · answered by shariecollins2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you want her to cheat on you?
2006-09-16 14:53:07 · answer #9 · answered by oceanwvs2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋