This might sound a little weird or odd question, but how can you talk to your boyfriend who you have been dating for 7 years , how can you get in touch with his ex wife and tell her that we had an affair but i caught him with other woman, now iam not seeing him, but i really want his ex to know, how can i go about reaching her and convince her thagt iam not some nut case I want her to know i found out about him, and stuff, And i want to be friends with her , soo how can i do that , when she caught me 7 years ago, and she is mad at me,
2006-09-16 07:46:20 · 12 answers · asked by trudycaulfield 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
just let it go
2006-09-16 08:12:13 · answer #1 · answered by wanda h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do that. You will hurt his ex wife even more. And she might even become very violent with you. She probably went through a period of not feeling good enough when they divorced. And that is very very hard for women to get through. So don't come into her life and be the reason that they got the divorce in the first place. Cuz that will only harm her more. Just get on with your life and don't mess with hers anymore, it won't be best for any of you.
2006-09-16 08:21:26 · answer #2 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What good can come from talking to his ex? Are you needing some support from someone you knowingly betrayed. Now you've been betrayed and you want to start a club for your boyfriends ex's? It didn't bother you when you were with your boyfriend that his ex was mad at you.
This is why you don't steal someone's significant other, cause when they become yours, someone will steal them from you.
Move on and try to get together with someone that actually available.
2006-09-16 08:03:39 · answer #3 · answered by -J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What goes around, comes around.
I belive it is only right to leave the ex alone. Put her through enough and should leave it alone.
As far as yourself, make it a lesson learned. Next time you think twice about being with a married man.
2006-09-16 07:53:43 · answer #4 · answered by Mutchkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay out of it. what is passed is passed. If you have moved on, keep moving, if you have not start moving on. Why should the ex-wife be your friend, what would the point be. She probably does not want to rehash the past so let it go. He does not deserve all the attention.
2006-09-16 08:10:45 · answer #5 · answered by SYLVIA G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to do anything...let alone try to be friends with the ex...she probably won't give you the time of day anyway considering.....let him go, let her have him if that is what she wants, and get on with your life and leave the drama to other people, life is way to short for all that crap!
2006-09-16 08:00:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you do that knowing he was with her in the 1st place? you are just as bad as him and i'm not trying to be mean but pretend you were her would you speak to you even though the same thing happen to you? Honestly if she finds out she probably will laugh her *** off, and not try to be your friend.
2006-09-16 07:58:25 · answer #7 · answered by chemicalbrothers13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want her to know? once a cheater always a cheater just leave it alone cause it sounds like she already knows how he is...if she's an ex why would she care what he does now
2006-09-16 07:57:40 · answer #8 · answered by garfld_2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just want to do this to make YOU feel better. Grow up, and drop it.
2006-09-16 08:30:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont,let sleeping dogs lie so to speak,wont make her any better shes done
2006-09-16 08:06:08 · answer #10 · answered by updnmn2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would be the point?
2006-09-16 08:17:03 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋