Family & Relationships - 16 September 2006

I am 20, and my fiancee is 27. He has a group of friends that he has hung out with for years. Everytime I go to hang out with them they want to drink and go to bars and don't really talk to me so I end up feeling left out. My fiancee is good to me, but when we are around his friends he acts like I pretty much don't exsist and I do not understand this. I try to get along with his friends and make an effort and all they want to do is talk crap about me. They are all out at BW3's tonight....including my fiancee and I went there and they started to do the same thing so I left....am I in the wrong here??

2006-09-16 13:18:32 · 9 answers · asked by Tiffany 4 in Marriage & Divorce

this guy that i like i always call him or go see him and he never calls me. but i want him to think about me and call me?

2006-09-16 13:18:12 · 15 answers · asked by annamariecreed 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay I started to like this best friend of mine a few months ago. I haven't told her anything about this yet, but I think she'll figure it out soon enough. Should I just force myself to end this feeling for her, or just keep moving on and doing what I feel is right? And if I should go on, what signs should I watch out from her that indicates she also likes me? Thanks!

2006-09-16 13:16:58 · 22 answers · asked by kentfeo 1 in Singles & Dating

There is a guy (a), that asks another man (b) (he casually knows) if he can sleep with b´s wife. What would you think of that man. A pervert or really eager to sleep with b´s wife? I am especially interested what a male point of view would be.Thanks

2006-09-16 13:16:49 · 20 answers · asked by gini 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi I have been married 10 years and my wife and I had a reasonably good relationship.Then a year ago my wife left. She had been studying new age courses and declared that she was 'on a different path to me' and had to leave. I was, and still am, devastated. I have recently heard that she has moved in with someone from the course. I have seen a psychologist and she says that it is a grieving process, which I understand but the pain is not lessening. Actually the pain is compoundedby me not having any family. I have one sister who lives in the US and I am in Austrlalia. Also I am now past 40, my wife was a number of years younger and I feel that I am very alone. I have friends but they are all married with families. Ostensibly I have things going for me, I have a very good job and I am fit and healthy but I feel in pain and the past is a drag on the future. I want to be able to look at meeting a new partner without feeling the pain of the loss of my marriage. Drew

2006-09-16 13:16:21 · 4 answers · asked by Drew M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

You could screen potential candidates and find out about nasty habits and bad credit ahead of time.

2006-09-16 13:16:07 · 11 answers · asked by WonderTwit 6 in Singles & Dating

well there is this guy named Tyler he always is huging my friend and i dont know how to get guys to u know....talk,go out,hug,or ect wit me?my friendz they dont even look all that great?but he is like really popular!!!i jus dont get it?

P.S. dont plz give me a stupid answer like DONTWORRY BOUT THE GUYS!!!

2006-09-16 13:15:21 · 4 answers · asked by fez101@sbcglobal.net 1 in Friends

My decision involves letting my child go live with his other parent while I move to another state, and get my life in order

2006-09-16 13:15:15 · 12 answers · asked by Alex 1 in Family

I use to live in Park Ridge and would like to try and locate his email address..It has been about 5 years since I have seen him.

2006-09-16 13:15:12 · 4 answers · asked by donna b 1 in Friends

Okay theres this guy in my school and my classes are always next to his. At break he always talks to me,and also at lunch.He always says something about me or something so i can chase him,he always hangs out in my favorite hall. When we are walking back to class he puts his arm around me. After school yesterday we were walking home together and my friend was with us and i had to tie my shoe and he waited for me then he put his arm around me.But when people ask him if he likes me he says no..but he calls me alot. Do u think he likes me? please help...i really need advice...thank you for your time..

2006-09-16 13:13:59 · 19 answers · asked by Mizz Latina 2 in Friends

I'm just wondering. Tell me if it works too. Um....You can use one on me if you'd like. I'll tell you my opion.

2006-09-16 13:13:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I gave a girl a sonnet and am waiting for her reply on monday. Now i asked a question about giving a sonnet and a user replied that sonnets or other romantic gestures would irritate girls with a resonable social life and also that they may really hate it. Now how many of you think the same way? read my previous question for the answer

2006-09-16 13:12:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My guy travels ALOT. In fact, I have not seen him in over a month. I'm new to text messaging and need some ideas.

2006-09-16 13:11:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well you're probably here because you're flirty right? So- what happens when one of you flirty guys likes a girl? Do you act different? I have this guy at my school who just broke up with his girlfriend and all the sudden he has been super flirty and shy around me. It's weird. Well anyway, please help me! How do you flirty guys act around girls you like? I'm confused haha. Thanks!

2006-09-16 13:08:52 · 14 answers · asked by Secret 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a freshman in high school, and in many of my classes, there is a girl I have my eye on that went to the other Jr. High.

She has no idea who I am. I have never had a serious conversation with her.

I basically have a clean slate.

What are some ideas as to how I could possible get her as a girlfriend?

2006-09-16 13:08:51 · 8 answers · asked by ~~0o0~~ 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-16 13:08:27 · 7 answers · asked by Michael Junior 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My childs father ( were not together) is trying to get back in. He cheated on me and we broke up when our little girl was a few months old. He did not help me for a long time but I preservered and make one hell of a life for myself. He has been helping me financially for about year now ( paying for her private preschool and ballet) and seems to be on track but I am leary and have a hard time letting go of what he did. He cheated with numerous women, lied about paying bills when he didnt and I had to get my credit back on track, spent OUR money on stupid things like cars to fix up but never did. The cheating was the worst. Does a man ever get over that??? Once a cheater always a cheater???

2006-09-16 13:07:13 · 21 answers · asked by mphsgal 1 in Singles & Dating

Your significant other of two years (and live with) went to a cousin's birthday party attended by many family members on his side, even though you weren't invited, because a certain cousin doesn't like you.

2006-09-16 13:06:19 · 15 answers · asked by Gwen 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I asked a question about giving a girl a sonnet a few days ago and one of the female user answered as follows-
Now what I wantto know is how many of you especially girls feel the same way that this person says. You can see my questions for the question I asked.
Thanks

2006-09-16 13:05:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i mean he was amazed, after we were done he was sweating liek GOd knows what, and he started laughing at himself and telling me how he used to think that theres isn't one girl in the world that he thought might make him do sucha work out in one night..is that a good thing or a bad thing..i felt dumb to sk but i was confused ... i think he enjoyed it..but is it better to take shorter time..?..does that say anything about his capablites or mine?..

2006-09-16 13:05:37 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she likes a guy who's alot shorter than her and has red hair and her best friend likes him too?

2006-09-16 13:05:12 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

what should me and my friend do right now? we are teenagers and dont know what to do. any suggestions??

2006-09-16 13:05:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm just not interested in many guys. They come on too strong or they're boring. Am I too picky?

2006-09-16 13:04:42 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For me its broads that smoke, have tatoos or children.

2006-09-16 13:04:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im married and i have two friends that i love.i been with my wife for 25 years. i been with one of my friend off and on for 25 years.i just meet one a year ago.

2006-09-16 13:03:11 · 10 answers · asked by spades c 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-16 13:03:08 · 19 answers · asked by Joseph A 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-16 13:02:38 · 8 answers · asked by ladies man 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-16 13:01:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i live with my grandma cause my mom kicked me out the house and everyday im treated unfairly. she has a daughter and she favors her over me all the time. i have no where else to go. what should i do i feel like cinderella?

2006-09-16 13:00:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My grandmother died when I was 13 and my Great-Grandmom followed her in April of this year before I turned 20. Almost all the people who knew me new them well. When I was aksed what reaction I made when they died, I said "I was calm. I didn't cry or anything". People looked at me like I was crazy. They call me ignorant and cold-hearted because of that. My Mother said "Everybody shows emotions differently so don't worry about it". She didn't cry either. Our's were only dry eyes at both services.

My take is this: If someone lived a full and exciting life, as these two did, and they didn't suffer while dying, what's to cry about? We should be happy God took them, rejoice in their memory and carry out their legacy. Is it wrong to feel that way?

2006-09-16 13:00:43 · 7 answers · asked by D-Wizzle 2 in Other - Family & Relationships