im married and i have two friends that i love.i been with my wife for 25 years. i been with one of my friend off and on for 25 years.i just meet one a year ago.
2006-09-16 13:03:11 · 10 answers · asked by spades c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you need that many people to make you feel complete. I feel sorry for you. What is so wrong with you that you cant spend a little time with yourself?
2006-09-16 13:46:50 · answer #1 · answered by lil bit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm all for anything that is honest but I am assuming because your asking strangers for advice that your wife doesn't know about the other women and the other women, if they know about your wife, surely don't know about each other. Anything that is dishonest will eventually bite you in the butt.
Is any of the other women worth losing 25 years of marriage over, not to mention the financial loss when she takes you through divorce court? Your wife is bound to eventually find out. If she doesn't know already.
Do you have children at home? If so you may want to think about how your sexual appitite is going to affect them and ask yourself if it is worth it..
Look around at all the people your affairs are going to affect and ask yourself, is it really worth it?
And then ask yourself, what kind of woman has an affair with a married man and then ask yourself is that kind of woman really worth losing my marriage and the respect of my children over?
If you ask yourself all these questions and can honestly say you don't care then go right ahead because you will deserve to lose it all.
Another question would be what do these women hope to gain from this? Do they want a permanant relationship with you, are they willing to continue sharing you with your wife, if not, what lengths will they go to to end your marriage if they want you to themselves?
Seriously, ask yourself what's the worse that can happen and then ask yourself, is this something I can live with? Just because it seems as if you have gotten away with an affair for two years doesn't mean you will continue to get away with it.
2006-09-16 20:21:13 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly buddy you got issues you need to give up the secret life it ain't no good somebody is going to get hurt and i hope your other Lady's no about your wife honey cause if you have to get a divorce you going down for all you got that **** ain't healthy boop pick and choose its like a board game you cant play what peoples feelings for the rest of your life sometimes you have to grow up and i don't think you love three tour just caught in a trap that you may not get out of for a long time so make a choice pretty soon its eather one or none.
2006-09-16 20:12:40 · answer #3 · answered by ebony 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay with your wife why leave after 25 years
2006-09-16 20:06:24 · answer #4 · answered by Lil low down 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose 1 -preferably your wife.You will otherwise end up hurting everyone--especially yourself!
2006-09-16 20:06:02 · answer #5 · answered by MaryBeth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Giggolo wanna-be.
2006-09-16 20:10:07 · answer #6 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever makes you happy.
Don't forget the condoms.
2006-09-16 20:05:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you are only banging the wife, what's the problem?
2006-09-16 20:07:04 · answer #8 · answered by xknyghtmayre 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does ur wife know? this isnt lover its lust
2006-09-16 20:06:32 · answer #9 · answered by sourgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can we say..........Player!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-16 20:05:48 · answer #10 · answered by butterflygirl790 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋