Okay I started to like this best friend of mine a few months ago. I haven't told her anything about this yet, but I think she'll figure it out soon enough. Should I just force myself to end this feeling for her, or just keep moving on and doing what I feel is right? And if I should go on, what signs should I watch out from her that indicates she also likes me? Thanks!
2006-09-16 13:16:58 · 22 answers · asked by kentfeo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How long have you been best friends? If you haven't seen a signal yet, you probably are not on the same wavelength.
You should ask her if she would ever consider a relationship with you. I have a male best friend that backed away from me when I mentioned it. He said, "Why ruin a good thing?"
I am fine and very thankful for his friendship. It means a lot to me.
Best wishes to you.
2006-09-16 13:21:01 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she have guy friends? enable her are conscious of it is not okay to have a double usual based courting if she does. I unquestionably have jealousy subject concerns so that is confusing while i understand my bf has alot of friends that are ladies. yet I take my time and understand that if there is not something happening between the two and that they have no historical past mutually then what's the challenge? in keeping with risk she merely feels threatened and you should get her and your chum that's a woman mutually so which you would be able to tutor that o her. this form she will see the way you 2 work together and she or he will convey her thoughts to the ladies persons. If each and every physique i question right this is an person, it is going to not be confusing to do. merely understand that jealeousy is a form of flattery. (albiet she dos ought to believe greater) yet while she is jealeous that some lady is geting her guy's time, locate time for her interior the comparable day so she does not sense disregarded...or attempt to incorporate her.
2016-10-15 01:57:33 · answer #2 · answered by scharber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good friends make the best relationships. I can tell you that every single great relationship I have had in my life started out as a friendship. And even though many of those did not work out in the end, I did not lose a single friend in the effort.
Tell her how you feel. Plain and simple. You might be surprised at her answer. And if she doesn't feel the same, no harm done. You've gotten it out in the open, and it's done.
Good luck!
2006-09-16 13:23:17 · answer #3 · answered by MrPink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life's too short to pass this by. The next time you're spending time with her, take her aside someplace where you won't get interrupted, sit down with her, take one of her hands in yours and tell her.
Worst case, she decides it's too weird to consider and she starts pulling back from the friendship. Which means the friendship wasn't all that strong, from her side, to begin with.
Best case... well, I did something very much like this about thirty years ago with MY best friend of the opposite sex, and she just got back from shopping with our oldest daughter. I'd write more but I've got to go help them bring in the groceries...
2006-09-16 13:28:16 · answer #4 · answered by Scott F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've already got the best relationship you could have, with someone you care for. Why complicate things?.If you are best friends, you will probably both figure things out, when the time is right.
2006-09-16 13:37:35 · answer #5 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been good friends, and you know each other well, and she has the same feelings for you, then go for it. Be upfront about it, tell her. If she doesn't like you, then now you know, the world goes on, and she'll most likely still be your friend.
2006-09-16 13:19:14 · answer #6 · answered by ~~0o0~~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok this is the facts "there is no such thing, once you are adult, of having a best friend of the opposite sex" if you are that close then its a relationship and if she is that close to you she will have the same feelings for you. If she is your "best friend" then tell her how you feel, for best friends are there and listen dont they.
2006-09-16 13:20:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a friend that is the opposite sex is very special!!! maybe keeping it this way would be great!!!!
2006-09-16 13:21:08 · answer #8 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as long as your best friend is of the opposite sex it is fine. make sure you have real feelins for her and just let love show you the way. me and my best friend were in a realtionship for a year so it is fine
2006-09-16 13:21:01 · answer #9 · answered by supermodel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothings wrong w/ it besides u know her well and vice versa that makes for a great relationship! go 4 it!
2006-09-16 13:21:03 · answer #10 · answered by ~Niecee~ âË» âË» ♂ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋