Family & Relationships - 16 September 2006

My boyfriend and me are only in 7th grade and he asked me to marry him.I think he's joking but he sounds serious.what should I do?

2006-09-16 13:00:02 · 28 answers · asked by mychemicalbritt 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There's this guy in one of my classes (i see him at lunch too) I think he is really cute, and I am always looking at him during class/smiling at him trying to get him to come and say hi to me. The thing is, I don't know if he even thinks that I like him (I have really short hair, like not even chin length, and maybe he thinks I'm gay?) There were some rumors going around about that last year, but I also had a BF then too. What should I do to get him to come and say something? I always freeze up around the guys I like...I never know what to say? Any tips? How do I know if he likes me back? Somethimes I catch him looking at me at lunch? But is that just for lack of something better to do/look at? HELP please! Homecoming is right around the corner!

2006-09-16 12:59:28 · 7 answers · asked by Megg90 2 in Singles & Dating

Lol, thought I'd just put this up there for comedy value, but think it has some real truth in it as well- are women really bothered about short blokes, because I think I must have a Napoleon complex, am about 5ft 7 (even shorter than that, to be exact, 5ft 6 and a half!), it just seems that most women would pick a tall 6ft man over a shortarse any day, is this true or just a fallacy? Is it genetically inbuilt i.e tall men= better providers? whats up with this? Or is it the opposite with anyone? Does anyone find shortmen cute looking? Tom Cruise seems to do ok, but it always did look a bit odd when he was going out with Nicole Kidman who probably stood a good 3 or 4 inches taller! Any thoughts?

2006-09-16 12:59:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We never said it had to be with a mamber of the opposite sex, and I don't think it's fair this way.

2006-09-16 12:58:39 · 31 answers · asked by Shameless Women's Advocate 3 in Singles & Dating

me and this dude that i met like a week ago have fallen head over hills for each other ! And like i love him and all but we have only beeen together for a lil while and he asked me to marry him last night ! What do i say ? Do you think this dude is crazy ?

2006-09-16 12:58:24 · 21 answers · asked by u_juss_wish_2006 2 in Singles & Dating

My friends are crazy.They are sitting next to me, and are playing with a plastic deer calling it bambi.we are 11 and 12.Is it normal or are my friends just weird?

2006-09-16 12:57:05 · 13 answers · asked by mychemicalbritt 1 in Friends

ok so all my friends hate me so i really dont hang out with them anymore the problem is that they hang out with the guy i like, they both have boyfriends but i really like that guy and they want him to hate me. i dont think he will but you never know what girls can do we always have so much fun with each other b.c its always my two friends with thier boyfriends and me and him always are just like together and we get really close and stuff. but now i dont hang out with him and i realllllly want to again. what do i do?

2006-09-16 12:56:33 · 5 answers · asked by melanie 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband is from Nigeria. He is so distant emotionally and I feel like I'm priority #100, behind money and his birth family, then everything else. Everyone on the outside thinks he is so wonderful, he works hard, is kind to everyone and when we're out he holds my hand, puts his arms around my shoulders, and laughts and jokes, but it is so different at home. He won't sit next to me when we're watching TV or a movie, and when I put my arms around him he moves away after about a minute. There is no passion in our marriage. Even when we sleep in the same bed, if my foot or leg touches him, he moves away as if I'm on fire. Everytime I try to talk to him about it, he acts like it's just my insecurities, but I don't feel it's all me. He says he is just shy about displays of affection, but many times I have tried to initiate and he turns me down or moves away. Are these clear signs that I really have no marriage, or am I reading too much into his distance?

2006-09-16 12:56:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

there is this guy at my school his name is kyle every one of my friends thinks he is a freak but i think he is hot smart hallarious and i want to date him but i am afraid of what my friends will think what should i do someone ppleeeeeezzz help me !!!!!!!!!!

2006-09-16 12:55:54 · 17 answers · asked by Alana 1 in Singles & Dating

I have my own son from a first marriage. I have always promised my fiance - this is the person I will absolutely be with for the rest of my life - that if he wanted a child, we would have one. That is fair. But, at the moment, another child is the last thing I want, to be honest. I am 27 so I guess there is time for me to change my mind. Do you have any experiences that it might help me to hear of? If so I would really like to hear of them. Thank you.

2006-09-16 12:55:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok so all my friends hate me so i really dont hang out with them anymore the problem is that they hang out with the guy i like, they both have boyfriends but i really like that guy and they want him to hate me. i ont think me will we always have so much fun with each other b.c its always my two friends thier boyfriends and me and him always are just like together and we get really close and stuff. but now i dont hang out with him and i realllllly want to again. what do i do?

2006-09-16 12:55:12 · 6 answers · asked by melanie 2 in Singles & Dating

i like my friends a lot - they're friendly and funny, but i've realized that they all like to drink. i've come to realize that drinking isn't something i want to get myself into, but now i feel alienated from my friends. i've tried inviting them to do other things than drinking, but no one will do anything else with me! is it bad that i'm happy to just watch movies every weekend, or go bowling, or do something else? how do i find people with the same beliefs and interests as me?

and how do i tell my friends that drinking isn't something i want to be a part of anymore? i dont want to lose my old friends, i just wish they all didn't go out and drink every weekend.

2006-09-16 12:54:41 · 6 answers · asked by mighty_power7 7 in Friends

My son is in 7th grade...he has made a friend out in our sub divison...but this boy is in 10th grade. My son met him thru our neighbors kid...hes in 4th grade...so originally this 10th grader was hanging out with a 4th grader until my son came along.
This boy could sit on me and damage me...hes a BIG boy....but very slow & backwards.....i dont know if i should be alarmed. This 10th grader definitly doesnt have the 10th grade mentality...very young acting....

what do you think?

2006-09-16 12:54:41 · 15 answers · asked by Sugar_Plumzz 3 in Family

2006-09-16 12:54:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

This girl and me were really close, we would stay up till 12 in the mornin talkin sometime, now that mite not be alot, but it is for her, she is homeschooled, I go to public school. Well I asked her to the movies, and she said Idk maybe , and REALLy backed off, she seemed nervous around me, I thought she just didnt wanna hurt my feelings, but she told her friends, she just wants to see if I can stick with her. Well we got further and further apart, until I couldnt stand it anymore and I emailed her, spilled my guts, and asked her to be brutally honest on how she fealt about me, heres what she said

well first of all, I don't hate you. second, I haven't been avoiding you either becuase its not been just swimming that I've been busy with its been life.I also haven't been beating around the bush because you never asked me if I did or not. But I haven't ever thought of being more than friends with you because we've always been good friends and I think thats how things should stay.I just don't want to ruin a friendship.hope you've had a good day, and i will talk to you later

Now, When I read that two things come to mind. One, that she is just trying to be nice. But on the other hand, she is just scared, because she has never had a bf b4, and weve been friends since age 7.

But now she seems more comfortable around me, like now she talks more, and seems more comfortable, but then she'll seem like she wants me, I can tell by the way she looks, and the way she acts, she just seems really sad, and down,

Oh yeah, and she told her mom , that she is just really really scared, and that she does like me, but she told her friends she just dont want to hurt my feelings, now her and her mom are really close, but so are her and her friends, Do you think she likes me, or is just letting me down easy?

And I am respecting her wishes, I emailed her and told her that I respect her decision, and we havent talked about it since.

But I really really do care for her, I wake up and she's the first thing I think about, I go to sleep and Fall asleep thinking about her. I mean I know I'm only 15, but I really do love her, and would do anything in this world to be with her. I've tried moving on, I've been trying to do that, but I just can't. Even though I am am guy, yes I have cried numerous time for her, and about her. I mean, I'm not ugly, I'm fit, and I'm not a big geek or anything, so what gives? I really do love her, what should I do?

2006-09-16 12:54:17 · 22 answers · asked by how many 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-16 12:53:15 · 2 answers · asked by Daya 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-16 12:52:43 · 2 answers · asked by Michael Junior 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

movies u have ever watched and u felt it was made for gurls only!

2006-09-16 12:51:54 · 12 answers · asked by rosa 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-16 12:51:13 · 8 answers · asked by Tegan P 1 in Singles & Dating

Well my ex and i always used to be aqual and when we went out we would pay half and half, although he liked to pay for most things i didnt feel right, so one time we were in a resturant and when the waiter told us how much it was and i went to take my card out a couple on the next table gave me such a dirty look. obviously she was a gold digger but dont u think its important to be equal in a relationship

2006-09-16 12:51:11 · 12 answers · asked by vicky s 3 in Singles & Dating

Is Seth Smedley here?

2006-09-16 12:50:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-16 12:50:24 · 2 answers · asked by sunshine 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-16 12:50:24 · 13 answers · asked by mom 2 in Family

I am married, relatively unhappliy so, and have met someone online. He lives a half an hour away and I have become truly enamored with him. Should I consider meeting him? He's 15 years older than I am, but we im, email and talk on the phone daily. I have a child and am a bit afraid to take the leap.

2006-09-16 12:50:05 · 15 answers · asked by confused 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-16 12:48:39 · 3 answers · asked by wolf 1 in Family

well i have a crush on this girl. i know she thinks im cute and everything of that sort but right now we are just friends for some reason... i dont see her much though. i guess she just isnt interested in me as boyfriend right now because who knows but anyways i met her in summer class we had. i was thinking about asking her out ON THE PHONE because thats the only choice i have.


Even though one of her friends said she had a crush on this other guy i dont really know if thats true. her friend kinda likes me too... (im not interested in her friend) by the way we go different schools but i was wondering if a girl isnt interested in a guy will she change her mind later on?

oh and when i call what should i say? im just thinking of a fun to ask her to go. somewhere besides the movies.... because i want someplace fun with lots of talking!

2006-09-16 12:48:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this guy and he knows i like him but i am not sure if he likes me, he gives me mixed signals like he told me not to call all the time so i didn't but he calls me at 2 in the morning sometimes and if i call him and he misses my call he will call me 2-3 time before i could call him back and when he says he going to call me back he always does, but he really doesnt like to hang out with me alot he like to hang with guys 24/7 so what should i do does he like me or not?

2006-09-16 12:48:13 · 10 answers · asked by m8m8m8m8 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-16 12:48:05 · 3 answers · asked by Sara 1 in Singles & Dating

ok. i like this boy but i don't know how to deal with it.

2006-09-16 12:47:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiancee went to a bachelor party this past weekend. We have agreed for sometime now that he would not go to a strip club and I wouldn't go to one. So he went out and said all the guys when into the strip club but he didn't....I believed him no big deal. Then about 3 days later he comes into the bathroom and I can tell on his face he has something to tell me. He tells me he went into the strip club JUST to get all the guys to get going to get to the bar. I don't know what to believe and every time he tells the story he keeps adding more. Guys....what do you think really happened...espeically if he was drinking. It makes me feel worthless that he did this and that he lied to me...any advice. Please only NICE answers needed.

2006-09-16 12:47:28 · 19 answers · asked by Tiffany 4 in Marriage & Divorce