me and this dude that i met like a week ago have fallen head over hills for each other ! And like i love him and all but we have only beeen together for a lil while and he asked me to marry him last night ! What do i say ? Do you think this dude is crazy ?
2006-09-16 12:58:24 · 21 answers · asked by u_juss_wish_2006 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if you really love him say yes, but be engaged for a while and see how that would work out. If being engaged don't feel right then you both should wait a little while!
2006-09-16 14:04:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is an important step in life and should be undertaken after a thoughtful preparation and discussion.
The divorce rate of married couple is about 45 percent. A divorce rate for someone who you know one week is probably 100%. So if you marry him start saving for the divorce lawyer.
You indeed have BIG problem if you do not have working brain. Otherwise wait for a year and you will see what will happen.
2006-09-16 13:24:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love doesn't know time. If you love him and want to marry him, do it, but what happened to engagement. What is wrong with being engaged to someone a while before you actually get married. Everything in today's society moves so fast. Being engaged is much more romantic. If your love is true for each other. You will enjoy the long walk to the alter. Don't ruin it with a short run.
2006-09-16 13:10:20 · answer #3 · answered by lil bit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww how sweet, date him and tell him u need to get to know each other better, u gotta get to know his bad side too, like when he gets angry and reactions to very different situations, then u will see if this is the guy u wanna spend the rest of ur life with, its not an easy decision and only time will tell, so dont rush it, if its meant to be it will happen if not then u know he wasnt right, so give ur selves time, date, travel do a lot of things together, be so confortable with him like uve never been.
2006-09-16 13:02:02 · answer #4 · answered by sourgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it's way to soon, this guy is looking for a quick Fix to his problems! what i'm saying is this, you two just met each other, a couple of weeks, hell he doesent even know what kinda thongs or panties you wear, let alone how your heart works, it's all lust at this point, you two need to take your Time,and (really) get to know one another befor you Take that Giant step.give it at least 6 months, then go with your heart
2006-09-16 13:06:24 · answer #5 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you better have a really like long engagement to get to know each other to be sure you want to marry this person you barely know.
2006-09-16 13:00:22 · answer #6 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say yes but set the date for like a year from now to give yourself some time to make sure that this is what you want
2006-09-16 13:03:30 · answer #7 · answered by bolandalbaby@verizon.net 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like my grandma did turn him down. Wait awhile he is rushing into things. Wait at least a year and if he says will you marry me?, then you will be ready to answer his question.
2006-09-16 13:04:15 · answer #8 · answered by Aycilla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, let me ask u a question, do u think that u really know that much about him in a week? i say give it time, don't rush into things. Good luck!
2006-09-16 13:04:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
R u ready for dat type of commitment do u really love him as much as u think dat iz really ur decision but I say take it slow cuz u have alot to think boutz.
-LaLa
p.s tell me wen this works
2006-09-16 13:01:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋