well i have a crush on this girl. i know she thinks im cute and everything of that sort but right now we are just friends for some reason... i dont see her much though. i guess she just isnt interested in me as boyfriend right now because who knows but anyways i met her in summer class we had. i was thinking about asking her out ON THE PHONE because thats the only choice i have.
Even though one of her friends said she had a crush on this other guy i dont really know if thats true. her friend kinda likes me too... (im not interested in her friend) by the way we go different schools but i was wondering if a girl isnt interested in a guy will she change her mind later on?
oh and when i call what should i say? im just thinking of a fun to ask her to go. somewhere besides the movies.... because i want someplace fun with lots of talking!
2006-09-16 12:48:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't ask her out on the phone. That just isn't what you do. If you do get a chance, hang out with her one evening, and take her on a nice evening walk. Talk with her, ask her out then. If she likes you, she'll say yes. If there is more than slight hesitation, and she says yes, than she probobally doesn't like you that much. I a good way to start it is:
"Who do you like?"
If she says you, then good.
If she is astounded, or confused, then say:
"Well, I like you and wanted to know if you want to go out sometime".
It always works, and this can be used on the phone too :)
Just some advice that I hope can help you out!
Nate
2006-09-16 12:53:16 · answer #1 · answered by ~~0o0~~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her straight up if she likes you. If she already knows you like her then ask her if she likes anyone else. You see her friend could be saying that she likes some other guy just to get you! It really helps if you two went to the same school. But you can't always find love at a School.
2006-09-16 19:55:15 · answer #2 · answered by Aycilla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can try, be persistent, charm her, take her somewhere romantic, give her flowers. Youll be able to tell by the way she acts if she might be interested later. Persistence says alot. This guy had a crush on me but I was interested in someone else, but he charmed me and persued me and I really started to like him. I ended up dating him. Now hes my husband........Go for it, just dont let her dog you out.
2006-09-16 19:56:53 · answer #3 · answered by mphsgal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes!! i have always changed my mind about guys after awhile!! the movies is also a really great orignal place for beginner but if u want something DIFFERENT try taking her to your house and MAKE her dinner. ITs soooo fun and cute. If you show a girl you love her by touching, hugging, and verbally in any way--NO GIRL CAN RESIST THAT!! They ALWAYS love guys who treat them sweet and like them too!!!
2006-09-16 19:54:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can always ask her to a fair or out door activity. Yes some girls do change their minds once they get to know a person. Good luck!
2006-09-16 19:54:16 · answer #5 · answered by tas-okay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give her some time go see a movie but take a few more friends with you guys make it confortable cuz if she is uncomfortable she will not say yes and mean it ut if she is comfotable and she likes u she wont say yes unless there is a buuunnncch of stresss trust me that is how i got together with my husband
2006-09-16 19:52:54 · answer #6 · answered by Alana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-16 19:55:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im kinda in tha same situation also just tha otha way around.and it mite be cuz she thinks that u may not like her but on tha inside she really really likes u and just scared to say it.yeah there is a possible way that she mite like u in tha future.maybe in ur bedroom would be an okay way to talk to her.if not there then hell on tha dang on phone.and no freaky deaky stuff.
2006-09-16 19:54:13 · answer #8 · answered by spongebob71492 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have a chance, but be very patient and don't push it. How about roller skating? Or out for pizza.
good luck
2006-09-16 19:51:56 · answer #9 · answered by lorgurus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try calling her up and asking her out. You never know what can happen if you don't try
2006-09-16 19:50:49 · answer #10 · answered by Branded with the Dark Mark 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋