Then stop calling and going to see him. You won't give him enough space or time to miss you.
2006-09-16 13:19:49
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answered by tina m 6
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There is an old saying..."Treat em mean keep em keen". Sounds to me like this is happening with you. You are doing all the work...You are showing him how you feel and he does nothing but lap it up. Why would he need to call you or see you, you are doing it all for him.
The only way you are going to know if he really cares about you is to stop ringing him......stop seeing him. If it is meant to be, and if he trully misses you then he will start calling you.
Maybe instead of just stopping the contact instantly with no explanation, you need to say to him that you are not going to ring him anymore, nor are you going out of your way to see him either until he makes some kind of an effort to show you that he really cares.
Its a one-sided relationship...you are doing all the doing and he is doing nothing. A good strong relationship is two-sided and each side loves/likes the other equally. He may really like/love you, but you are making it too easy for him where he really doesnt have to do anything. Whilever you keep on doing it, he will keep on taking it. The only person you can change is yourself, you cannot change another person....the only thing you can do in this instance is to change your tactics. And that is the only way you are going to get him to change his behaviour.
2006-09-16 13:27:46
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answered by rightio 6
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You can't really make a guy miss you if he doesn't. Either he's just not that into you, or...he's a guy! Guys don't miss their boos every time they're away from each other
2006-09-16 13:21:24
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answered by grenworthshero 3
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Get that book, "He's Just Not That Into You", I am not being a jerk... this is a real book. I think it will help you out though. In my observation, guys don't normally play "hard to get" games. Go ahead and find another hottie! :O) There are lots of 'em out there just waiting for you to look their way!
2006-09-16 13:20:55
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answered by Its Me 2
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Stop calling him and hang with your friends. Guys tend to hate a clingy girl who callls and stops over all the time. But if you suddenly become silent, he may start calling you.
2006-09-16 13:20:27
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answered by smallweed 4
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Don't call him for a week. If he calls you, act like your busy and hang up really quick. It'll drive him crazy!
2006-09-16 13:20:01
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answered by Anonymous
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You cannot MAKE someone miss you or want to call you. He has to WANT to. It sucks I know...I have been there. Hang in there!! Good Luck!! :)
2006-09-16 13:19:30
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answered by Tiffany 4
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hey if u know this guy u better tell him that u r annoying and if he is a unknown person block his number and complain to the police or or say that ur father is a police and ur mom too and send him sms saying that i will surely complain to police if u call me agin even once IF U DON'T WANT TO DO THE ABOVE THINGS JUST CHANGE UR NUMBER i think i may work or tell him if have guts tell him to speak to u on the phone it is better to tell ur parents they may help u then us good day!
2016-03-17 22:00:47
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answered by Anonymous
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i have never been in a situation like that. for some reason, when u treat guys like crap, never call them or never go see them and act like u dont care, they seem to run after u.. maybe u should just tell him that u like him or maybe u should just stop callin him and seeing him until he does. if he doesnt, then hes not worth ur time. move on
2006-09-16 13:20:43
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answered by SweetHeart 2
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ask him 2 call u sometime and make someyhing up like my cell phone isnt working and I cant make calls,so u have 2 call me,then tell him more aboutn urself,then he will want 2 call u and it will all work out,good luck!
2006-09-16 13:19:46
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answered by chocolate tea 3
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