i live with my grandma cause my mom kicked me out the house and everyday im treated unfairly. she has a daughter and she favors her over me all the time. i have no where else to go. what should i do i feel like cinderella?
2006-09-16 13:00:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
damm that sucks
well why did ur mom kick u out??
2006-09-16 13:02:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too bad and it is even worse, when you are not with Mom. First of all , what is causing this ? Are you being a good girl? You need to be on the same page as Grandma. If you can't tolerate Grandma, go to a shelter. But that is not good either. Then the path they make you walk is strict . So what do you feel in your own heart , what is best ? Do you have an Aunt who could take you. How many more years are you a minor? Go to a counselor and tell them what is going on. Hopefully, your Mom and Grandma are not alike. If this is the case, then possibly you need to do a self anylization and see if it is something your doing to cause this. I will hope and pray for you, and that it will soon get better. Take care and may God grant you all the wishes you want and bless you, Always.
2006-09-16 13:11:36 · answer #2 · answered by Norskeyenta 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did your mom kick you out of the house? Sounds like either you were too much for her to handle, or your mom was real mean. Now if it's your grandma's fault, sounds like you know some mean people, but the odds are against that. Odds are, and I'm sorry to say this, but it sounds like you bring some of this on yourself.
Now, you may not be able to help it, in your own way. You may only know this way of being yourself. However, if you really want to get along, you will try harder to get along with other people.
Also, if your grandma favors her own daughter over you, she may just be more worried about her daughter. In fact, it could be that you are more 'world-wise' and they don't worry about you as much that way. It doesn't mean they love you less, they just feel you can handle things better.
2006-09-16 13:04:04 · answer #3 · answered by merlin_steele 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's probably not you that Grams is unhappy with. More likely it is your mother. Be grateful that she has taken you in...better with her than a foster place. Smile, put on your best attitude, and the time will pass soon enough so you can be on your own.
Go out of your way by offering to help, and doing what your are asked. Keep it up, and you will win them all over! Good luck, hon.
2006-09-16 13:05:36 · answer #4 · answered by Nisey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BOO-HOO! why did mama run you off? IFshe is not on drugs--or being a HO-- Just go HOME and tell her that YOU are there to stay!!! SHE had ya, she should raise you....... MAKE THAT VERY CLEAR!! abandonment of a minor child is like WAY against the law... She can do HARD time for that... JUST GO HOME!!! IF she is a Bea-Och about it... TELL HER YOU are going down town and talk to Sgt. Friday and TELL ON HER... Foster care is NOT all that bad.. The school were use to teach was 30% foster kids... and they had wonderful homes.
2006-09-16 13:15:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you mother kick you out? Do you think perhaps you could use a change in your attitude or language towards others?
If not try, to make the best of it I made it through a difficult childhood growing up with my parents and you can too!!!!!
2006-09-16 13:04:18 · answer #6 · answered by Harley Moma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should have listened to your mother cause when you live in someone else home you must show respect and as far as your grandmother she don't have to treat you like you want to be treated cause she did not have to let you live in her house now go out and get your on place and let someone live with you and when they disrespect you, you will know how your family feel.
2006-09-16 13:12:28 · answer #7 · answered by MARY C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU ARE UNDER 18 YOUR MOM COULD GET IN TROUBLE FOR KICKING U OUTIF UR A MINOR, IF OVER 18 FIND SOMEPLACE ELSE TO LIVE. IF UR A MINOR THEN CONTACT YOUR SCHOOL A COUNSELOR OR A PASTOR OF A CHURCH OR SOCIAL SERVICES THEY COULD ALL HELP U.LOL.
2006-09-16 14:14:30 · answer #8 · answered by smiley283 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is two sides to every story,And you didn't say what you did to get kicked out of your moms home
2006-09-16 13:03:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put up it the BS. Make good grades and save money and wait until its time to spread your wings
2006-09-16 13:03:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋