Family & Relationships - 12 September 2006

MY BOYFRIENDS EX IS SAYING BAD THINGS ABOUT ME TO THEIR 9 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER AND SHE REPEATED THIS TO ME TONIGHT. WHEN I TOLD HIM HE DIDNT SEEM TO CARE MUCH AND JUST PRETTY MUCH SAID DONT WORRY ABOUT IT. NOW WHY WOULD A GUY LET ANYONE TALK BAD ABOUT HIS GIRLFRIEND THAT HE CLAIMS TO LOVE? HE DIDNT CALL HER AND TELL HER TO STOP SAYING BAD THINGS AND HONESTLY HE DIDNT EVEN SEEM UPSET. I WAS UPSET AND CRYING AND HE JUST WALKED DOWNSTAIRS AND LEFT ME UPSET ALONE WITH OUR 5 WEEK OLD DAUGHTER WHAT DO YOU GUYS THINK

2006-09-12 13:19:39 · 17 answers · asked by sad lately 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-12 13:19:23 · 10 answers · asked by Kevin K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well about a year a go i met a guy at work and he started to like me. Then I started to like him and he eventually gave me my first kiss. Well I always wondered why he woulnt call me that much cuz he always says that he does "like" me. But then I found out today that he is in LOVE with his ex. I feel terrible. After he told me that i told him it was funny cuz they wa he feels about her is the way i feel .Ive always loved him and he is my 1st love. I feel like an idiot now but I feel like now that he knows i have to avoid him. I really dont want nothing to do with him because seeing him will only bring back the feelings. So what should i do to make myself feel better? I cant stop crying :(

2006-09-12 13:18:34 · 15 answers · asked by deanda 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Everyone's got them, and I'm just wondering what and how varied they are. I have one of my own...and will post it soon but I'm just curious about everyone elses...so...yeah..Alright, everyone name your fetish and what is your fantasy. If you want I'll tell you mine. :) So..yeah...what's yours....If you please. :) Thanks.

2006-09-12 13:18:22 · 10 answers · asked by Betsy J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a crush on someone....I feel like I am 14 or something, (i'm 21) and I don't know how to go about it. I was in a long term relationship that ended about 2 months ago. I really think this guy is attractive and nice, and I know he's single. (myspace) But, I don't know him, he just works at this video store I go to all the time. I don't even know how to go about starting a convo with him, that seems akward! And, I am too shy-ish to just ask him straight out! Does anyone have any unique ideas? Thanks!

2006-09-12 13:18:15 · 20 answers · asked by parachute 2 in Singles & Dating

I have told him, but he refuses to accept it. We have had a very rocky 6 years, so it is not surprising, I think. I do love and care about him and it hurts me to be this way toward him, but it is how I feel. I have gone out of my way, in my opinion, to try and save our marraige and only began to give up late last year when he decided he didn't love me anymore, thought I was disgusting and would not touch me for about 2 months...I think it just hurt too bad. The times that I have told him I was leaving, he has threatened blackmail. He has been abusive on and off and is very immature, but seems to be making a huge effort now. I don't know what to do anymore - I do not feel comfortable acting as his wife. I am so confused.

2006-09-12 13:16:44 · 28 answers · asked by angelina b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-12 13:16:42 · 2 answers · asked by Tenten 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

how do i convince her it's sensational?

2006-09-12 13:16:41 · 21 answers · asked by benhur 3 in Singles & Dating

My step-brother died of an overdose 3 years ago... I never really cried or anything... but now I'm feeling depressed and sad and I'm crying...this is SOOO weird.... what's wrong?? why did it take so long??

2006-09-12 13:15:58 · 14 answers · asked by Debbie 2 in Family

i asked him if there is pretty gurls at his school and he said yah but than he was like not prettier than u so is it ok to get mad and im not insecure and i trust him but that was kinda Fuc**d up

2006-09-12 13:15:46 · 11 answers · asked by &b a r b i e 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-12 13:15:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

a guy from my wife job has been riding home with her and her sister from work and i was not told but had to find out by her sister saying it by mistake so i called my wife on break and was upset about it do you think she was wrong for not telling me that a guy from her work rides home with them

2006-09-12 13:15:16 · 15 answers · asked by kimbriang 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I wanna ask this girl to the school dance on the 29th but i can't find her on campus!!!!!!!!

Help PLZ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-09-12 13:14:40 · 6 answers · asked by Durnalicious 2 in Singles & Dating

My question? There is a super religous girl at my school. I'm pretty sure everyone has one. I respect her beliefs, just as I do everyone elses, but I hate that she pushes them onto everyone she meets. I feel that she has a right to believe in whatever she wants, but she's so hateful towards certain groups, I want to ask her to stop.

So does anyone know how I can break it to her that I respect her and what she says, but I don't feel the same way? I've tried before, but she keeps pushing. I don't want to start ignoring her, because she seems like an okay person, but her conversion techniques are driving me nuts!

2006-09-12 13:14:35 · 10 answers · asked by ivioonbeams 1 in Friends

how to start a conversation? is it better to talk about urself or ask about the person u r talking to?

2006-09-12 13:13:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a junior and there is a girl i like and think she's hot but the problem is she is a senior. So she is one grade ahead of me and possibly a year older but it's also possible she is less than a year older than me. Is it even possible for a slightly younger guy to date a slightly older girl?

2006-09-12 13:13:18 · 21 answers · asked by TT M 1 in Singles & Dating

How do you survive when you lose someone close to you? What things help you to overcome the incredible sadness?

2006-09-12 13:13:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

there is this one boy who likes me but i dont like him... i like some boys and they dont like me! what can i do to get them to like me!

2006-09-12 13:12:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

cheating on them is ok? Don't ask, Don't tell........doesn't anyone else think this is just rather messed up? If someone gets turned on not knowing whether or not you cheated on them, if the fact that you could and not be caught turns them on, is that any kind of a relationship? Doesn't seem like you could really care about them. What do you think?

2006-09-12 13:12:05 · 5 answers · asked by WitchTwo 6 in Singles & Dating

I've told her calm down What did i do but she just responds shut up ***** So i leave, then she says woose what should i do for a comeback that isnt as mean

2006-09-12 13:11:56 · 12 answers · asked by CHANNING TAUM HOTTIE<3 2 in Family

if your "kind of" a virgin what does that mean..one of my friends responded to the question "are you a virgin" like that...so whats it mean?

2006-09-12 13:11:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am getting married in June and my fiance's father has passed. I would like to have a setting at the parents table for him and am looking for some ideas. I have seen lots of photo memorial candles, and I do like them but just wanted to check to see if anyone had any better ideas. Thanks!!

2006-09-12 13:11:03 · 12 answers · asked by r_u_kidding 3 in Weddings

2006-09-12 13:10:23 · 7 answers · asked by brian w 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-12 13:10:22 · 5 answers · asked by T B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am currently talking to a guy who lives about 2 hours away from me so as a result we don't get to see each other very much..we dated 3 years ago for four months..but my love for him has grown deeply over the years..I just want him to know that long distance relationships are possible.If anyone has any suggestions on how to make this relationship work..please let me know..Thank u very much.

2006-09-12 13:08:50 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

assuming that its not tasteless, such as if his clothes are tight in a stylish way or you can tell by the way his clothes hang AND he is otherwise generally decent looking.

2006-09-12 13:08:48 · 29 answers · asked by w0t_b0t 1 in Singles & Dating

ok two days ago i met the most beautiful gurl of my like.. shes mexican and she's only been her for 1 year... i've been seeing her in my class for the past week and yesterday i finally talk to her and we did goooddddd.... after class i walked her out and we were talking and then when we came to go seperately... i said.. I was gonna ask you for your number but but uhhh tomorrow... i dont know how it came out like that but it did... and she smiled and said yes tommorow... then i see her today she comes sits next to me in class.... and when class is over we agree to meet at the eng lab... I showed up an hour late and she was not there... so i sit and im doing my work and about a half hour later she shows up.. theres a seat by me and she does not sit next to me... she sits where its really crowded.... and does not say hi or nothing... so i stay there i do my work made sure she saw me when i got up but i didnt say nothing and when i was donw i left.. what should i do tommrow when i see her?

2006-09-12 13:08:37 · 16 answers · asked by Shaboobalaboopie 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-12 13:07:39 · 24 answers · asked by Chain-Gang Diva 6 in Singles & Dating

you see, there's this one tenor in my choir class who's complimented me on my singing and done some crazy things to cheer me up/get my attention. He also acts really sexy when ever he's dancing by me in choir. does he like me? or is he just being weird?

2006-09-12 13:07:12 · 10 answers · asked by horsecrazyinky 2 in Singles & Dating

wants to go on a date i told him i have a problem with the age my daughters are 24,21,18 i told him he can hook upwith one of them he says its something about me i live pay to pay he has own place, car, and starting own business what to do he been after me for 8 months now help

2006-09-12 13:07:01 · 12 answers · asked by Judy D 3 in Singles & Dating