there is this one boy who likes me but i dont like him... i like some boys and they dont like me! what can i do to get them to like me!
2006-09-12 13:12:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all.. arm yourself with CONFIDENCE! its highly attractive to others..not only will guys bemore likely to be attracted to you but you will find yourself with more friends as well! Be confident in who you are JUST THE WAY YOU ARE. If you want to try a new hairstyle or new makeup or fashion.. thats all fun and experimental for most girls anyway.. have fun with it.. try on different looks and see what YOU feel most comfortable with.. The secret is to present yourself in the way you feel about yourself and that will reflect to others and you are sure to attract the perfect match if you be yourself ! also I wouldnt count the dude out that likes you....I think you should get to know him and see if there is something there that you might have missed. Try to see him for who he is and not what he looks like or the friends he has. GOOD LUCK!
2006-09-12 13:17:51 · answer #1 · answered by minx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Positive self image is a turn on first and for most have a good attitude will attract some wanted action! Be nice to the one that likes you ma be he has some nice friends you would be more attracted to. Try going to sporting events with girlfriends ma be there is someone from another school that gets you and would really like to be with you, chin up smile you will get the right guy sometimes you have to be patient.
2006-09-12 20:22:38 · answer #2 · answered by Katie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all stop trying so hard... and concentrate on your studies. when you stop looking..someone will fall right in your lap. in the meantime.. be yourself..enjoy school. as long as you are neat and clean...do not try to fix yourself up...for other people.. if you want to make physical changes ..do it to make you happy and make changes you like...not what you think you should look like. so think about why you do not like this one boy. he is probably on yahoo right now..saying i like this girl..but she keeps looking at other guys. lol. seriously.. would it be so hard to give this guy some attention.? you dont have to marry him....but it just so happens that as soon as you get a guy.. hundreds of other guys start looking at you. think about it. you can be honest and let this guy know you are not interested in getting serious if he asks. and then maybe you will end up liking him.
2006-09-12 20:20:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's the problem, you can't. some people ahve their own feelings to other people. i suggest maybe being a little nicer but do not worry about looks. just wait till you find someone that you like and that he likes you. that the best way to find a boyfriend. trust me it isn't all about sleeping with each other and all that crap, or else you will probably ahve a hard time in life
2006-09-12 20:14:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you need to feel better about yourself and it will show through to the guys, but I always want to smack people who tell me that.
You can look better and feel better by going to the gym. Tone up your figure, build up some thigh and butt muscle, do pec flys to perk up your boobs. You will see some results after a few weeks, and more as you keep going on.
2006-09-12 20:15:46 · answer #5 · answered by A Box of Signs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make over. Learn how to do your make up and hair in a way that compliments your own personal style. A hairdresser can help as can the expensive makeup counter at any dept store.
2006-09-12 20:15:35 · answer #6 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey well see when i was in school no one like me so did a change in my looks and seance of hiumer. i really liked this girls so that's the reason i change but not just for her but for my self too. i wanted to fill good and look good. i also change by working out and doing exercises and running it help me out alot.
2006-09-12 20:46:13 · answer #7 · answered by spanishguy21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. It is much better to be loved for who you are than to be loved for someone you aren't.
Don't change your looks at all. The person who is really worthy of your emotions will care about you for who you are, and love how you look without you having to change for them :)
2006-09-12 20:17:44 · answer #8 · answered by Edward collinderhands 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who says it's your looks? It may be your personality. And you could be too choosy, being that someone likes you and you don't like them. Sometimes you either have to settle or stay single.
2006-09-12 20:17:07 · answer #9 · answered by rach 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Easy find your self a Gay friend at your school and ask him for advice. maybe he can help you to look better and give you great advice.
2006-09-12 20:45:16 · answer #10 · answered by CLEO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋