Family & Relationships - 8 September 2006

How do you know if you've found a true friend?

2006-09-08 05:22:23 · 2 answers · asked by none 5 in Friends

2006-09-08 05:21:51 · 28 answers · asked by carolina3415 2 in Marriage & Divorce

life ,love, chils, house, cottage, bikes,boats,sport cars etc..........out in the restaurants, travel etc........I gave respect, honesty, compassion. What I dont get is why would a woman want to **** up a life like this to have an affair with a bad boy... Ladies please try and explain this to me. I dont get it and 1----I never abused her 2-treated her like a queen WHY WHY WHY
and now shes always depressed because she screwed up big time


BUT WHY

2006-09-08 05:21:24 · 15 answers · asked by Funny 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How did you get over it if you’re still with that person?

I have been with my mate for about 3 years. The first year was great. I loved him so much and I thought he loved me. I broke the promise I made to myself that I wouldn’t have sex before marriage and lost my virginity to him. During the last two months of our first year together everything changed. He became distant, he verbally abused me, and stop coming around as much. I discovered that he was cheating with a female that he said was just a friend. We broke up for a year and a half. We reconciled because I thought that he changed. I thought that I could forgive him and move on but I'm still resentful. I don't trust him. Every time he is away from me I think he is cheating. I’m jealous of his female friends. I don’t want him to have any female friend’s period. There are times when I think he loves me and there are times when I think that he hates me. My jealousy and lack of trust causes us to fight most of the time. I'm just being insecure or should I kick him to the curb again and move on.

Please give serious answers and no insults. I can't talk to anyone that I'm close to about this because they hate him. No matter what they will tell me to leave. I need honest opinions from people who have been through this sort of thing. Thanks.

2006-09-08 05:21:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-08 05:20:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Don't you think it is strange after many many years, and then suddenly there are there?

2006-09-08 05:19:20 · 20 answers · asked by sunshine 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it true that guys about 6,6 have big c$%ks? especially if they have big feet and hands aswell?

2006-09-08 05:19:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

at schools and colleges....recently, he took his poems out....poems he'd written about his ex gf who cheated on him and shared them with the college students....he did not mention this to me b4 hand....and it has really upset me....am I wrong to be upset? He does have lots of other things he could have bored the students with...but he chose these sexy poems....is he still interested in this tart? I told him if he was he should leave....am I being unfair?

2006-09-08 05:18:47 · 12 answers · asked by ♥♥♥GODDESS♥♥♥ 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't want to smack him, I usually ground him and send him to his room,but now that dosen't seem to work, as he swears at me, pushes me about, and answers me back all the time. This only happens when my husband isn't about.

2006-09-08 05:17:49 · 41 answers · asked by samleigh40@btinternet.com 2 in Family

any suggestions???

2006-09-08 05:17:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sister in law has recently let me know that she thinks I am not a good mother. I sat there and listened to everything she had to tell me without over reacting because I wanted to know why she felt that way. After giving it some thought and writing down all the things I do for my daughter and all the nice things we do together I realized I'm really not that bad of a mom. I don't know everything, I'm not the best mom in the whole wide world but I DO MY BEST. The thing is she spends a lot of time comparing her parent skills to mine. Example: I say "my girl has been a picky eater these past 2 days " she'll say "oh I nneeveeer have trouble with my son eating because I make sure blah blah blah." It seems like I'm the one with the child that sometimes doesn't want to take a bath or wants to wear pijamas to the grocery store. Its these little things that my sister in law uses to label me a bad mom because she nneever has to deal with this situation or that tantrum.

2006-09-08 05:16:44 · 23 answers · asked by Belanova 3 in Family

where or what should I do for him,,something affordable please? Also what do I ever get him for a present?

2006-09-08 05:15:49 · 11 answers · asked by bobsdidi 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-08 05:15:38 · 18 answers · asked by The Please Help Me Bimbo 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-08 05:14:43 · 21 answers · asked by senorita 1 in Marriage & Divorce

after 17 years of mariage, she decides to hit the bar seen with her friends. Hey I made nothing of it but as time progressed shed come in at 3 in the morning and I know what time the bars closed at. All drunk and I know my wife and for some reason shes wasnt as tight as she would normally be plus she had all these new crazy moves. Then it hit me time to look into this. What a surprise, caught her in another mans arms, sex chatting online, listed in lavalife. While Im out busting my balls working and putting the pay check on the table, taking care of my son, massaging her feet making super, cleaning you know all the nice things I was just pulling my weight. Her response after doing all this is you like a statue nice to have when you want to see it you bring it out....... Or I dont want to talk about it. Now things are different I dont see life the same, its been tarnished. Yes we stayed together after all of her several escapades. Now i want to go out but she wont let me. What do I do?

2006-09-08 05:14:33 · 19 answers · asked by Funny 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband told me he hates me...that he doesn't even like me. I asked then why do you remain married to me. His response "I don't know". I'm so hurt by him stating he hates me. Those are such strong words. I don't know how to handle this situation.

2006-09-08 05:14:18 · 25 answers · asked by 2cute4u 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I havent been in a relationship for over 5 years. I have been busy with school and other things. Now that my career is going, I want to find someone special to share my life with. I have not been having ery much success. I have become very depressed, and I overeat and sit in my apartment and have suicidal thoughts. I try to approach women, but I just cant do it. I feel so powerless. Tell me what to do.

2006-09-08 05:14:16 · 13 answers · asked by Brad 4 in Singles & Dating

jus the other day me and my boyfriend was having sex then all of a sudden i go dry, what can be the problem? am i washing tooo much? or im done for the rest of my life? HELP PLAESE!!!

2006-09-08 05:14:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok this what going on and i dont know what i should do u see my hole family is falling apart and i cant do anything.

u see it all started when my nan died last month and my mother got so upset and all the time she was fighting with my older bro and also my older sister and they now dont talk to her and she dont talk to them but now i wanna see my bro & sister but mother say's they dont wanna know us but that a lie as i know they wanna see me because i talk to them on the phone all the time, but see they live in perth and mother siad i cant see them due to there fight! can u give me some help as i dont know what to do? i have not seen them for 1 month that is such a long time! should i go or not?

2006-09-08 05:12:54 · 12 answers · asked by NAUGHTY GURL 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

There is a new guy my age who recently moved to town and he doesn't know anybody. I think we have a lot in common and could be good friends but I've found it hard to get to know him. He is really good looking and is always surrounded by a lot of giggly girls which he finds annoying. But I can’t talk to him when they are around. I can tell he is lonely and needs a friends but I don't know how to let him know I can be his friend with out seeming forward like the other girls. What can I do?

2006-09-08 05:11:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My in-laws have a second home about an hour away from where we live. My husband is their only son and they constantly rely on him to take care of anything in both homes that requires physical labor since both of them have some physically-limiting conditions. This weekend there are things that need immediate attention in our own home (we just discovered a snake den) yet my in-laws insist that my hubby go to home #2 this weekend and remove the dock from the water. I've talked to my husband before about putting his foot down and figuring out some alternative ways to get them some help (hiring someone, etc.) but he feels guilty saying no to them. By the way, we also have a 1-year-old who loves his daddy time on the weekends. My husband is stretched and I don't know what to do.

2006-09-08 05:10:40 · 8 answers · asked by wonderwoman 3 in Family

I was with my boyfriend for so long that I am not sure that I am with him for the security... but I still love him to peices however I understand now that love is NOT enough...

I'm 23 and he is 32. I met him when I was 17. I have never been single. I am at a point in my life where I am viewing my life and how I have changed as a person. I don't feel that he has changed at all and that scares me. I don't know if he is the one.

I told him I needed a break & he asked me if I wanted to see other people I told him not right now i am not interested in anybody else but that is not the case. I want to see if there is anybody else out there for me but I dont have the guts to tell him he is already crying to me and that alone makes me feel so bad and it's clouding my judgement. Please give me your input on how I should handle this because I feel like I am going to break.

2006-09-08 05:10:29 · 34 answers · asked by akiastatz 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I can honestly say I'm tired of counselor swtching: I've had 7 counsellors in the last 3 years. I am serious, I have to start from the beginning again. You know that feeling when ur a new kid in town or in class and ur soe nervous about meeting new kids? That's how I feel.

The one I have now, I seem to trust her somewhat and I've been with her for over a year now. I talk about myself...just not really about my personal problems as much. What i do learned in social worker that the last thing the client talks about are her problems. That's the level where I'm at. She took a while to get to know me and my academic concerns...and asked me a few questions about my personal life and relationships...and yes, i don't mind talking about other people....but she says that there's still more that I'm not willing to talk about.....

I want to but I can't. She knows I feel depressed sometimes but she doesn't know i have suicidal thoughts......

2006-09-08 05:10:02 · 6 answers · asked by Angel_Kitten 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-08 05:09:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

From one fellow actor to another...she's hot and i love her work...

2006-09-08 05:09:38 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'd like to ask out a woman who works as a cashier/customer service desk at a local grocery store. Unfortunately, I haven't seen her any place except where she works.

Any advice on asking her out?
Is it intrusive to ask someone out while they're working?

2006-09-08 05:08:41 · 19 answers · asked by Canonball 1 in Singles & Dating

my family is strict born agen christians but the thing is they wont let me go out with boys be arund boys or even know any they are really nosy to and i dont really tell them a lot i am a completly diff person wiv my m8s but my problem is i want to meets some boys as i go to an all girls school and get a bit tired of only girls how can i sort out this problem thx for any answers.

2006-09-08 05:08:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I want to have a formal wedding and reception only for close family members. We also want to celebrate with our friends though, so would an informal picnic or "potluck" type dinner about a week later be inappropriate? And could both friends and family be invited to the shower?

2006-09-08 05:08:08 · 16 answers · asked by sour_apple 4 in Weddings

2006-09-08 05:07:58 · 10 answers · asked by doubletoehold 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-08 05:07:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating