Family & Relationships - 8 September 2006

The 9 yr. old physically abuses and sexually molests his 7 yr. old brother. Neither my husband nor the children's mother seem to find this abnormal. I have pleaded with both to get the children counselling. My husband is afraid to confront his ex, due to she has money for legal battles and we don't. I have spoken with the older boy who says he does it because he's angry with his brother. Their mother says the behavior does not happen when they are at their house, only at mine/my husband's, and that the children are fine, although she has admitted in the past she's aware that the older one "wails" on his younger brother. There are other behaviors which cause me great concern (for instance, the younger one demonstrated to me how his mother cleans herself while showering with them; the older one asks questions about how his father and I sleep together!). I don't know what to do ... I want to help the boys desperately, and don't know where to turn.

2006-09-08 05:54:44 · 12 answers · asked by Concerned Step 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

This is what Im saying there was nothing missing, the love of love,,,,screw the assets....toys whatever........i know all this is unimportant it has nothing to do with love,,,,,,, im talking and saying she to this day still says shes doent know why she cheated...............so everybody thats saying everything about this doesnt bring love etc......... I was just giving you some backround of what kind of life we had plus missing excitment man I could make your eyes curl so its not because our life was boring thats why I ask Why?????????????

2006-09-08 05:54:25 · 9 answers · asked by Funny 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Don't they have certain toys that can be worn under clothing?

2006-09-08 05:54:12 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it possible that after months u discover that the one who u trusted on your intimate problems is not who he pretended is?

2006-09-08 05:53:46 · 13 answers · asked by lilly 1 in Friends

I went out with this guy I met online 2 months ago. We went out 3 times in the past 2 and half months. It is 4 weeks today since we went out. I don't think he is dating anyone else, he is an regular guy , nice but not very exciting, and is always home after work. we talk for hours every evening. Every time I mention that i have the day off , he will say "hope you enjoy your day off" but doesn't suggest we go out. Our last date was 3 weeks after the second one. He says he is tired when he comes home from work (he teaches school) but he still seems to have time to excercise for a couple hours. I

Is it that this guy is not serious about wanting to go out, is he that tired, or is he afrain he will have to spend another 4 dollars on dinner? His attitude just doesn't seem to match the fun loving person he says he is in his profile.

2006-09-08 05:53:42 · 10 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Singles & Dating

and if it's happend to you.. what did you do about it.

2006-09-08 05:53:17 · 19 answers · asked by Jen 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

It's getting on my nerves!

2006-09-08 05:53:16 · 18 answers · asked by sup 1 in Singles & Dating

Guys are impossible to shop for my boyfriends birthday i scummin up n asked wat he wanted for his birthday like any other guy replies " oh it doesnt matter havin u hear is enough" okai yeah im not gnna lie i love it when he says that but gosh darn it i wanna get him sumthin so wat should i get him he loves smokin green,skateboardin, n music of course wat shold i get him i might get him a new belt buckle n a new pip thats my ideas what are yours.

<3 Love Always <3
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2006-09-08 05:53:01 · 8 answers · asked by *$* Blondies Lil Playhouse *$* 1 in Singles & Dating

Let's say u knew that one of ur family members was cheating.... And the bf/gf was finding clues would cover for the clues?

2006-09-08 05:52:29 · 7 answers · asked by raynemarie03 2 in Singles & Dating

we've been together for 6 in a half years now and have a 3 year old but he still hurts my feeling alot he thinks hes right all the time and says harsh things sometimes especially if hes buzzed how can i get him to realize this and cherish me like he used to?

2006-09-08 05:51:58 · 25 answers · asked by gigibluce 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i've been with this guy for 1 year and 1 month we keep breakin up and gettin bac together b/c he keeps lyin about sh!t i always say im not goin bac den i end up right bac wit him sunday night he looked me in my eyes and told me he loved me but i part of me didnt believe him. every time we argue instead of talkin bac and forth he gets mad and hangs up den when i call bac he wont pic up den he'll call me da next day and act like everything is cool i dont kno what to do i really wanna be with him but im gettin tired of all the lies den to make matters worse i got like 10 to 15 otha niccas dat wanna talk to me dat i can talk to but i dont wanna start nuttin wit nobody until i finish what me and him got goin on i dont kno im very confused about it please help

2006-09-08 05:50:57 · 19 answers · asked by Jasona j 1 in Singles & Dating

i met a nice lady on 360, within days of just chatting she flew out to meet me, she stayed with me for several days, now she wants to move out here. i feel no connection, she is real needy and kinda scaring me with her comments. I like her alot but i am not ready to like move in with someone right now - i dont even know her - we have been chatting for like a month now -

2006-09-08 05:50:43 · 18 answers · asked by nunofyobiznit 3 in Singles & Dating

Shes an ex girlfriend that he left to be with me. I confronted him about it and he of course denies it. But now iam stuck because I dont know who to believe. Could she be bitter? Or could he really be still sleeping with her?

2006-09-08 05:50:39 · 15 answers · asked by PRETTYGIRL 4 in Singles & Dating

Please don't be mean or rude. thanks

2006-09-08 05:50:36 · 10 answers · asked by the_texas_hammer 3 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend has admitted to me that she slept with another woman (her close friend) I have been in a good strong relationship with her for 5 years and everything was fantastic. At first I thought she just wanted to tick a box as she has always fantasized about it but I beleive she has strong feelings for this girl. Now she has postponed our wedding plans and says she's confused about her sexuality. I ve told her that I do regard it as cheating but I'm willing to totally forgive her as I have always beleived she's the only girl for me & before this happened our relationship was so good. She feels really guilty and keeps beating herself up about it, i ve told her that what has happened is a mistake and we must look to the future. Now she is questioning her sexuality and asking herself whether it would be fair to carry on our relationship, I seem to be suspened in a void and don't know what I can do to sort this mess out. Serious answers only please,

Beamer

2006-09-08 05:49:43 · 25 answers · asked by beamer 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

whrn I was at school i had a friend called matt and his dad had stacks of porno mags in his shed and we used to sit in the shed and read them. One time when we were down there I opened one and there were pics of matts mum in the readers wives section. I tried to hide that mag from matt but he saw it we sat there for a good 20 mins silent before I had to go home for my dinner. Didn't see him for about 5 weeks after that

2006-09-08 05:48:28 · 28 answers · asked by razzledazzle 2 in Friends

we have 4 children and i've notice husband spending all of his time on the computer , he found new love on the internet . told me he wants a divorce. she lives in GA. . she will move to NY and he will live with her and make a new family. she has three kids of her own .he was very angry when i had the last one, now with her he will make a new baby, also she is 11 years than me .

2006-09-08 05:47:47 · 36 answers · asked by VETTEY 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-08 05:47:43 · 16 answers · asked by xcutiejessx 2 in Singles & Dating

well he sometimes acts like a little kid and i really dont know what i feel for him is it that i dont like him because i really dont pay meny attention to him and i prefer to be with my friends than him i think i like him do u have any ideas for what should i do

2006-09-08 05:47:33 · 14 answers · asked by cat eyes 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i cant sleep. i think of her all the time. my wife does not know that i feel like this about my ex. my ex lives a few miles away from me. as far as i know she is still single but i dare not cross her path. we used to argue all the time. police were called many occasions but she would lie that i hit her, then she would drop the charges and want me back. this cycle continued for 4 yrs. each and every time i would promis myself that i will call it a day but failed in my promise and kept returning. i still love her and would go back to her but i know 100% that a few weeks or months and i will be locked up again. is it her or me? i dont know. i never hurt her.. help me.. what shall i do..

2006-09-08 05:47:20 · 33 answers · asked by aladinscaves 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-08 05:47:12 · 20 answers · asked by R.I.P. 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife and I are working on concieving, but last night I had a dream that was so real, "my wife and baby die'd in the delivery room". I was physically shaken and could not even think about going to sleep. Even as the day goes by, I can not get the menories of the dream from haunting me. Any ideas on what to do?

2006-09-08 05:47:08 · 11 answers · asked by loser 4 in Family

My spouse state that a particular woman where he works continues to do vulgar things including standing on the balcony to show him her breast I personally feel something or words were done or said to provoke that oh!he is very aware of personal realtionships prior to knowing him

2006-09-08 05:46:44 · 30 answers · asked by sexysummer34 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Lets say ur family member was cheating. U like the gf and u all spend alot of time teogther. If she started to find clues would u tell her or cover for him.

2006-09-08 05:46:39 · 4 answers · asked by raynemarie03 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do people think that, since they have the anonymity of the internet, it's okay to be rude. I would never think of not responding to someone, even if I was totally disinterested. I learned those manners in elementary school. Yet, the majority of people on personals sites think its just fine.

2006-09-08 05:46:31 · 3 answers · asked by der_bingle 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-08 05:46:17 · 5 answers · asked by alfonso 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-08 05:45:50 · 16 answers · asked by Steph11 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Oh no am screwed well man did those kids on stage and those four colored men really turn me on but not as much as the telitubies! When Lo Lo bent over oh man did I know it was time!

2006-09-08 05:45:46 · 8 answers · asked by sup 1 in Singles & Dating

ok my granmother died and left me money. the estate has been closed they said the checks would be sent out last week. i havnt got the check yet. the only reason im worried cause i have court next week and they want money and that i need the check to pay the court. so would it be rude if i called them to see what happand to the check and when they sent them out to be sure???

2006-09-08 05:44:26 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-09-08 05:44:14 · 28 answers · asked by sunshine 2 in Singles & Dating