I went out with this guy I met online 2 months ago. We went out 3 times in the past 2 and half months. It is 4 weeks today since we went out. I don't think he is dating anyone else, he is an regular guy , nice but not very exciting, and is always home after work. we talk for hours every evening. Every time I mention that i have the day off , he will say "hope you enjoy your day off" but doesn't suggest we go out. Our last date was 3 weeks after the second one. He says he is tired when he comes home from work (he teaches school) but he still seems to have time to excercise for a couple hours. I
Is it that this guy is not serious about wanting to go out, is he that tired, or is he afrain he will have to spend another 4 dollars on dinner? His attitude just doesn't seem to match the fun loving person he says he is in his profile.
2006-09-08 05:53:42 · 10 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe he doesn't like the long drive to see you? I recall you said it's an hour each way. That's a drag. (Or maybe he finds being with you is too exciting and needs a couple weeks off to rest up from that?) Have you asked him flat out to come over and do something with you?
2006-09-08 07:42:56 · answer #1 · answered by AnOrdinaryGuy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are so sure you like him so much why don't you ask HIM out? You should know since the 1st time you saw him if you like him or not, let alone 3 TIMES!!! and if it is about money, he is not "supposed" to spend any money on another mature adult he'd just met.
If you really like him SHOW him that you are NOT worried about money at all and invite him yourself to a non-expensive or even better a costless date...and enjoy his company 1-more time....if you Do worry about money...let me know who this guy is so I can congratulate him on moving on as fast as he did!!
GOOD LUCK!
2006-09-08 13:06:45 · answer #2 · answered by Jr Thompson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have now waisted 2 1/2 months of your life thinking about this loser. He's just not that into you. He's keeping you around till something better comes along. If a guy wants to see you tired or no tired he will see you.
And you have to know that lots of guys put up personals just to meet a lot of girls.
2006-09-08 12:58:13 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why are you waiting on him to ask you?? I think you should ask him out and be prepared to pay for it. Men shouldn't have to pay for everything all the time. If you like this guy and want to go out again, you should be willing to ask him and willing to pay. Good luck.
2006-09-08 12:58:44 · answer #4 · answered by wjoz13 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He may not be the guy he says he wants to be. So spin him around and take charge,, for sure then you will know!
2006-09-08 13:20:06 · answer #5 · answered by Dan W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you didnt go far enough on date 3.
2006-09-08 12:57:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like he's a homebody. Why don't you suggest making dinner for him at his place?
2006-09-08 12:57:44 · answer #7 · answered by wordnerd27x 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your not very good looking, u were doing online dating.
2006-09-08 13:15:03 · answer #8 · answered by ACE25 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
After reading your other questions....I think he's just not intrested in you, and I'm not sure I blame him.
2006-09-08 13:15:11 · answer #9 · answered by SillyQuestion 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, he's just not that into you. Move on and find someone who appreciates you.
2006-09-08 12:58:13 · answer #10 · answered by ej 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋