My spouse state that a particular woman where he works continues to do vulgar things including standing on the balcony to show him her breast I personally feel something or words were done or said to provoke that oh!he is very aware of personal realtionships prior to knowing him
2006-09-08 05:46:44 · 30 answers · asked by sexysummer34 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If they work for the same company he needs to have a word with the person in charge of Human Resources. If it is a small company and they don't have a human resources office, he should speak to the manager or owner.
If she does not work for the same company he needs to take a camera to work, take a picture next time she does this and mail it to her boss, this he can do anonymously. Just say "hey, this is how your employee acts at work".
I personally think any woman that does that has mental problems and needs mental health help, however, I'm in a really crabby mood today, and I'm tired of being surrounded by people that act like spoiled rotten children and get away with it....so....let her get help for herself.
He needs to protect his marriage, 'cause honey, if he refuses to put a stop to it....I'd do it for him.
2006-09-08 05:52:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can look but not touch. I understand this saying & your husband looking isn't cheating but it still doesn't change the fact that if this happened to my husband, it would piss me off to no end! If this co-working ho is married then I would say that she is cheating because she is trying to provoke an affair. If I were you, I would find out if the ho is married & let her husband know what she's been up to. I would also invest in a spy camera to place in my husbands office to catch this activity & send to the Human Resource Dep. of the company. Good Luck!
(Personally, I go beyound getting even!)
2006-09-08 05:50:39 · answer #2 · answered by Ash Anne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't have sexual harrassment laws where your husband works? It sounds as though someone is provoking some woman to do those things. I would not call it cheating unless your husband is the one provoking the women to expose herself, then you might have some concerns. Is it cheating when you watch a movie and you see breasts?
2006-09-08 06:15:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are making a bigger deal about it than is actually going on. Some people don't need to be provoked to do these things. Just because she feels the need to show him her boobs does not mean he said something to her, she might have personal problems that make her do that. My wife & I were on a bus once in orlando, Florida when this girl got on and they ( her boobs) were just about to fall out of her tank top and no she was not wearing a bra. And I guess she noticed everybody's reaction because when she got off the bus we all got a view nobody did anything to provoke this it just happened.
2006-09-08 05:56:54 · answer #4 · answered by miracle man 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he looks on and treats it as an everyday phenomen, then there seems something wrong. If he walks away and ignores her, then at least he shows her that he doesnt think she's worth looking at and he doesnt find her antics entertaining.
If he treats the whole thing passively then I suppose he either enjoys the entertainment secretively and the fool who acts up to get his attention is trying to lure him with aggressive display tactics to help instill the idea of her naked bits in his memory. if he looks on, he's clearly indicating that she's got his attention. She is out of order, but then, you get females like that all over the world. Jordan flashes her plastic boobs all over the media, she craves attention and if it means she has to flash her pubic hairs, i dont think she'll be averse to that.
What would worry me is if your husband doesnt lodge a complaint about her or tell her sternly she's harassing him. (demi moore in that movie with michael douglas...fatal attraction?? oh cant remember).
out of respect to you his wife, if he cares about u, he'd not just sit by idly and take no action. if he does, he's certainly a sort of candidate which i would classify as "lurable". i wouldnt trust him.
2006-09-08 05:58:10 · answer #5 · answered by Wisdom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you people who write these questions not learn how to write a complete thought as a sentence when you are in elementary school? If the situation is as your spouse, which is a rather neutral term, presents it, then no, he isn't cheating. If you suspect something, though, you are probably right. The women in either instance, is a s l u t.
2006-09-08 05:50:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is sexual harrassment, not to mention exceedingly inappropriate for a workplace, unless its a strip club. I wouldn't trust her-she's trying to get your man-and has access to him all day long. Good luck to you. I don't think the display is cheating, but it appears the woman sure wants it to lead there.
2006-09-08 05:55:14 · answer #7 · answered by melouofs 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he looks then I would consider it cheating!! But if she is the only one doing it and he has told her to stop, then she is the one that is cheating!!
Has your husband tried to do anything about it? Does he feel comfortable with it? If not, then it means he likes it and might have something to do with it!!! You should start worrying.....
2006-09-08 06:01:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your husband to report this b*itch to the boss....it sounds like a form of sexual harassment and there are laws to protect workers from any form of sexual display on the job......now on the other hand if you feel he has done something to encourage this behaviour from her....then you need to have a talk with him and set him straight and let him know you will not tolerate this behaviour ANY longer and if it dosent stop he wont be seeing your boobs anymore and some new man will because you will divorce his a*ss!
2006-09-08 05:50:53 · answer #9 · answered by kimbersweet 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is considered sexual harassment at work. He must of provoked her to do it unless she is easy and does this all the time.
2006-09-08 05:50:03 · answer #10 · answered by red1967 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋