i've been with this guy for 1 year and 1 month we keep breakin up and gettin bac together b/c he keeps lyin about sh!t i always say im not goin bac den i end up right bac wit him sunday night he looked me in my eyes and told me he loved me but i part of me didnt believe him. every time we argue instead of talkin bac and forth he gets mad and hangs up den when i call bac he wont pic up den he'll call me da next day and act like everything is cool i dont kno what to do i really wanna be with him but im gettin tired of all the lies den to make matters worse i got like 10 to 15 otha niccas dat wanna talk to me dat i can talk to but i dont wanna start nuttin wit nobody until i finish what me and him got goin on i dont kno im very confused about it please help
2006-09-08 05:50:57 · 19 answers · asked by Jasona j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
:) u know when to leave, when u don't trust him. when u don't feel that he will change.
u ONLY stay if you Trust that he will change. u are being a good girlfriend by caring and standing by your man. however, he is not appreciating that, NOR is he being a good boyfriend.
my suggestion to you, is to talk to him, nip it in the bud: if he cannot change his attitude, and treat you well, it's over. that's it. no more. u have way more going for yourself, u are a great girlfriend!!! u are a great person! u seem nice, u will continue to let someone treat you that way, and still u stay??? so find someone who DESERVES that. u dont need to change, he does.
good luck, and be strong. u deserve better
2006-09-08 05:57:57 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as though you were done with this relationship when the lies start parting his lips, Once a liar always a liar. You need to step back analyze what you want and how you want to be RESPECTED, if you are truly happy and want to go through the drama stay but let go your fears of not being with him if he can't treat you right and take some you time then open the door and say as loud as ya can NEXT ARE YOU WORTHY OF ME!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-08 06:02:49 · answer #2 · answered by zawadi20022002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like this relationship has already been flushed down the toilet. Why are you torturing yourself when you could be happy with someone else, especially since you seem to have a lot of options. Get over yourself, be strong and dump him. It seems like you know what to do, but you need a little push to help. So here it is : "go!!"
2006-09-08 05:56:27 · answer #3 · answered by Megan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didnt even read the rest of your story. I stopped at 'part of me didnt believe him'. Go with that feeling. Someone that really loves someone doesnt break up and get back together, and over and over. They stay with that person and work out any problems big or small.
2006-09-08 05:54:03 · answer #4 · answered by Ash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once the trust is broken, its pretty difficult to move on and really have a healthy relationship. i think that if you've broken up this much in the first year, it's probably a good idea for you to get on with getting over him. sorry...but i hate to see a girl waste her romantic energy on a liar with a bad temper who doesnt appreciate her.
2006-09-08 05:55:02 · answer #5 · answered by Eos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't even read the rest of your question/explanation. If you are asking when is it time to leave than the answer is now. If there is andy question in oyur mind about the relationship it's time to move on.
2006-09-08 05:54:06 · answer #6 · answered by ploobis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The relationship sounds VERY childish to me.; you didn't state your ages . but sounds like you both need to GROW and take a school course called Human relationships..It is a very enlightening course and most people benefit by it---Good luck
2006-09-08 06:03:17 · answer #7 · answered by Boomer T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is unhealthy get away and be by yourself for a little. Is he drunk when he fights wit you and when he sobers up he loves you again? He has some issues definitly anyway.
2006-09-08 06:20:48 · answer #8 · answered by 2strongfor2long 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You let go of him when you lay next to him, and can't envision him being old with you anymore. If he's lying on you - he'll keep doing it. Be smart and save yourself the heartache.
2006-09-08 05:54:02 · answer #9 · answered by Mystress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well looks like you need to decide if YOU wanna be happy or let him continue to leed you in this rollercoaster ride .......... whats it gonna be ?
If you ask me ......i been there , ended up i married the man , and now divorcing his a$$ for other things ........so if you see a problem thats bothering you and well i suggest you really need some soul searching and decide were your happiness is .....
2006-09-08 05:55:22 · answer #10 · answered by one_thick_6ft_fine_ass_wht_grl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋