Lets say ur family member was cheating. U like the gf and u all spend alot of time teogther. If she started to find clues would u tell her or cover for him.
2006-09-08 05:46:39 · 4 answers · asked by raynemarie03 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If it where you, would you rather look STUPID b/c everyone around you knew and lied to your face. or would you rather go on looking stupid????????? b/c no one thought you where important enough to tell you.
2006-09-08 05:50:23 · answer #1 · answered by BABYWHITE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt tell her or cover for him.. cause when u cover for him then it's like ur lying right along w/him and encouraging him to cheat..
ur priority is to ur family not the gf.. if the gf has any clues or finds any then let her deal w/that alone.. if she questions u then u need to let her know that's not ur business or ur place to volunteer any info, she needs to check her man...
2006-09-08 12:55:31 · answer #2 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let him know that cheating would hurt not only thier relationship with eachother but our relationship to him as well. Families and friends stick together that includes the significant other. To cheat would be disgraceful in our family and we would definitly let him know where he stands.
Also I would let the girlfriend know that in our family it is customary for the males in our family to do as we please with any woman or as many women as we sit fit to fullfill our needs. That is just the way it has been for many generations and we can not break tradition.
2006-09-08 13:37:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would probably tell a story about someone else that foudn out her man was cheatin'. MNaybe throw in a few similarities between this fictional person and your friend. Let her connect the dots and go from there.
2006-09-08 13:20:47 · answer #4 · answered by limgrn_maria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋