my family is strict born agen christians but the thing is they wont let me go out with boys be arund boys or even know any they are really nosy to and i dont really tell them a lot i am a completly diff person wiv my m8s but my problem is i want to meets some boys as i go to an all girls school and get a bit tired of only girls how can i sort out this problem thx for any answers.
2006-09-08 05:08:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im 14 and iv talked to my dad but he will only let me go with christian boys but they arnt fit or have a nice personality the ones i know are a bit bofiny and a bit abssesed with christanity
2006-09-08 05:13:38 · update #1
sounds like you are young & your parents are keeping youaway from boys for a readon ;o)
don't rush it...I did & ended up being a mom at 16.
2006-09-08 05:10:06 · answer #1 · answered by jms_ladybug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I have to say, I know it don't seem like it now but your parents do have your best interest in mind. They my be a bit unreasonable in the way they are going about it, but they mean well. By you attending an all girl school you need some interaction with the opposite sex. The best thing to do is talk to them and let them know exactly how you feel and how important this is to you. But don't try to do anything behind they're back that'll only complicate this and make them not want to trust you. But I am pretty sure they're raising you right remind them of that, and let them know how responsible you are, and that you would like them to let you spend more time with some guys. It can be in a group, it doesn't have to be just you and a guy!
Oh and by the way I am not some old bustard, I am in my 20's!!!
2006-09-08 12:42:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's best that you don't sneak behind their backs and do anything because they will not trust you. Maybe the reason why they are so nosey is because you don't talk to them and they figure the only way they are going to find out is by snooping behind your back. I don't know how old you are but talk to your parents about when you will be able to date and all that, but don't get all wild with it
2006-09-08 12:13:15 · answer #3 · answered by miss_lady6980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is not alot that you can do about it at this point. You can ask to go to things like dances, but your parents have the final say. If you ask to go to a social event and they say "no," don't press the issue. This will show maturity and they will trust you more the next ime you ask.
2006-09-08 12:14:22 · answer #4 · answered by Cas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your family Know that if you go with any boy,the only thing they want to do, is sex (that is parent's thinking).Try to find a really good boy,(friend or boyfriend if you can),then if your parents know the boy;it is possible you will go.Good luck.
2006-09-08 12:15:45 · answer #5 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are young, and it's early for dating, and what's wrong with christian boys, or you want a play boy take you today and dump you next day , wise up, and i think your dad want you to go to school 1st b4 start thinking about boys and sex, , you are under peer pressers, don't let that get to you be strong.
2006-09-08 12:18:46 · answer #6 · answered by ed46324 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, you're still very young; if you don't your parents be in control of your life forever, move out when you're 18. As soon as you're an adult, you can do whatever you want. (Last I checked, freedom of religion is still part of this country's law.)
2006-09-08 12:19:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
could it be? Your parents truly love you!
They want the very best for you! Sometimes we parents love our children too much! Dont think so! Give it time girl! You'll be the richer for it!
2006-09-08 12:16:39 · answer #8 · answered by Tobby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I came from an extremely strict household.. and I feel your pain, because it's not fun at all...I feel so bad for you.. The outcome from my story is that as soon as they let me out, I went crazy....
2006-09-08 12:12:49 · answer #9 · answered by bellita_716 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it's completely wrong to disobey ur parents .
dey r concerned for u n try n understand dem
2006-09-08 12:18:08 · answer #10 · answered by juhi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋