Family & Relationships - 7 September 2006

how do u make a relationship go back to the way it is after u have had a huge problem and the way u have started treating eachother is with some distrespect and somewhat discust?how can u make that love u felt come back and make everything that was there and happend and make it all good again??how can u relive the promises u made and trust u had for someone and well now what was originally ur misktake is now something u question about the other person u really miss this person and now it feels like he is touching u the same and or treating u the same how do u get back to that great weak loving feeling??plz help!do i give it time do i stay and fight do i give up and show him that i dont care to make him realize

2006-09-07 18:05:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

He's a great guy, tells me I'm beautiful and that he loves me everyday & is a hard-worker. I love him but I'm just not physically attracted to him anymore. His hair is receding, gained 40 pounds and doesn't care to dress nicely anymore. I feel bad but i don't even want him to come up to my work to see me. I know looks aren't everything but can't help it if I'm no longer physically attracted to him. I'm in college and there are times when I wish I wasn't married because sometimes I miss dating and hanging out with my girl friends. They are all single & it s not fun to go to a club if you are married. I feel like i was too young to get married, especially since my husband is 9 years older than I am. He's really just a homebody now and no longer any fun. Doesn't want to vacation, or do anything different! I wish i could have him, just in a younger body & more fun & outgoing. What can i do to not feel this way anymore & just accept him the way he is and not compare him to others?

2006-09-07 18:04:44 · 12 answers · asked by kara m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It's sad how it all ended and in the end i'm the one who is still thinking about her. This girl had my heart and we were so close. Damn near like brother n sister but I couldn't help but to catch feelings for her. I know ladies when a girl calls u like a brother she isn't intrested but damn i can't help these feelings i had. I mean I known her for a like 3 years and i'm just standing here like WTF it's just going to end like this? Ever since she fell in love with some guy she started to change little by little. The only time I would get a call was when he did something stupid and I have to sit there and listen to her BS about her boyfriend. I wish I hadn't caught feelings but that only made the situation worse. She started calling me jealous ( i was just a lil bit) BUT that was only because she was playing some minds games with saying i like and i love u and I wanted to be with you can **** up a guys mind especially since i like the girl. How do I get over this girl and move on?

2006-09-07 18:04:14 · 20 answers · asked by Biggz 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-07 18:04:14 · 21 answers · asked by mobs8970 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I recently had this happen to me. My husabnd just started taking meds for his HIP C. And one night went on a rampage. He wouldn't stop yelling at my children and I so I told him I was going to cal the police I handed the phone to our 11 year o. Right then he said fine you call the police when they get here I will shoot them. Well my 11 year old heard that and instead of calling her grandma like I thought she would she called 911. They arrested her father and he since has been released. He won't come home he wants to stay married but live seperate lives. Blames the mom for giving her 11 year old the phone. For the past year has been waiting a divorce now that I have filed he doesn't want the divorce anymore. We have been married 19 years but says he can no longer live with me. He doesn't trust me or our 11 year old. I got the case defferred for a year. He is very lucky. I have been putting up with the mental abuse. Now that I have filed he is very angry.

2006-09-07 18:03:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-07 18:03:32 · 2 answers · asked by Little Hulk 1 in Singles & Dating

There's a girl that I have known for almost a year now. I didn't really get a good chance to get to know her well until January of this year... we went out to lunch one day, and she SAYS she's interested in going out with me again. However, every time I try to set something up, it always seems to fall apart. I'm trying to be fair to her here without being overly-optimistic. My line of thinking is that if it was important to her that we go out again, she'd be doing more to make that happen. BUT, at the same time, I've always heard about how girls like to feel like a guy is "fighting for them" which makes me wonder if she's not seeing how much I want to go out with her.... so I was wondering what your thoughts are as to why she's behaving like this.

2006-09-07 18:03:20 · 14 answers · asked by Matt B 4 in Singles & Dating

ppl in my class think that im gay, but im not, its mainly the guys that spread sh*t. i act just a LITTLE fem sometimes but nowhere as near as gay acting as other guys and i get the blame for it!!ppl say that a hot and nice guy are gay(which honestly i am(top 3 hottest guys in class voted by girls)). im great in athletics and music, and i can usually turn a girls head while walking down the street. so would they just be jealous of me? or what, im jsut really sick of it, can anyone give me soem advice on what to do or some comebacks to them that will shut them up for good?!?! ive already tried changing my personality but that only made things worse!!

2006-09-07 18:02:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

should i lie to my ex and make him beleive i have a boyfriend to get him madd ? now that he seen a guy type to me and tellin me i love you and i told him it back as a a joke now he thinkz he is my man lol and he keeps askin me who he is but he sayz he supposely don't care so now he saying that another gurl took him away from me bnutz it weird because he told me he didn't have nonone and he swear and he tell me the thruth when he does that he t ellin the thruth what up with him i need o know and i still love him

2006-09-07 18:00:18 · 25 answers · asked by La Dime 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i have been best friends for 2 years. recently we started a serious relationship(5 months ag).... he is the most wonderful guy i've ever met. i moved in with him about a month ago. but i don't want him sexually(well maybe a tadbit every once in a while). . is it because we have been friends so long??? i really don't understand. i just told him about it. but he didn't respond with nothing more than okay. i don't understand- what should i do?

2006-09-07 18:00:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-07 17:59:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-07 17:59:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Two couples in a houseshare.
Two computers, one for each couple. Both couples pay half toward the Internet bill.

My girlfriend is leaving for her studies soon, leaving the three of us in the house - myself and the couple. We have agreed that all bills will be split 3 ways but the couple say that the Internet bill should stay as it is.

They argue that they use one computer between the two of them, and I use one computer, so the bill should stay half and half.

My argument is that the Internet is a service like the gas or electric and these are all shared equally, so we should all pay a third.

They have unlimited access to the internet, like they do with the gas, water, electric etc.
It is not my fault they have one computer between them.

What do you think?

2006-09-07 17:59:08 · 21 answers · asked by faithless 2 in Friends

Are there signs I should look out for?

2006-09-07 17:59:06 · 13 answers · asked by Mizukai 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance wants to hire a DJ she had a past history with. she did not cheated on me with him or anything. it was before we met. but it is awckward and she didnt find anything wrong with him. she has already contacted him twice and met him once personally. should i be concern? i feel this is pathetic. is this acceptable?

2006-09-07 17:58:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-07 17:58:45 · 9 answers · asked by wifey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-07 17:58:07 · 15 answers · asked by Krissy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my sister has been dating a guy over the internet,i mean they E-mail date, and the guy's friend saw me on my sisters messenger display pic, and my sister gave her my e-mail address and this is what she e-mailed me:

hi my name is celesia and I am a friend Mitchell's the one that your
sister is going out with!!!and I saw your picture and you are pretty Hot
um do you gave a girl friend?

and i told her i dont have a girlfriend and she wrote back:

does that mean we are going out!!
love you! :) and i hope to hear from you soon!

what do i do now? what should i say? should i ask how old she is?

2006-09-07 17:57:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

confused help?

This is probably going to sound stupid but i just want some advice. A friend of mine and myself lost some contact over the past year we started talking again about two weeks ago. She is going through a rough time right now she was just seperated from her husband. She called me cause she needed some help with watching her children. She suggested we catch up and have movie night at her house. Two weeks has passed and i have not heard from her. I phoned her yesterday and left a message just telling her i was just saying hello and if she needed help with anything to call and also if she still wanted a movie night. I have not heard back from her about that yet and im wondering if i should call again in a few days or just let it go and wait to see if she calls me. It almost seems like she just calls if she needs something. any advice appreciated

2006-09-07 17:57:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

brother. I need to find his e-mail. Can you help me?

2006-09-07 17:57:18 · 3 answers · asked by North High Viking 1 in Family

I was in a very long relationship (+3). I really saw the future with this person...until I felt that I was getting more hurt than happiness. It's easier said than done...that's for sure. Even though I still love this person with all my heart, I was the one that had to break it off. But I can't seem to put this person behind me even though 2 months since the break up have already passed. What can I do to finally forget about him and move on? How much time does it actually take? He didn't fight for the relationship, so could it be that he never truly loved me enough to make it work?
WHAT TO DO???

2006-09-07 17:56:35 · 13 answers · asked by Lina 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

a few nights ago i finnally told this girl i been talking to 4 bout 5 or 6 mounths, exactly how i feel bout her (all but I LOVE U) i see her 4 the 1st time sence i told her.
WHAT TO EXPECT HOW CAN I TELL HER FEELINGS

2006-09-07 17:55:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-07 17:55:13 · 19 answers · asked by desidude 1 in Friends

Go here for the mural:

http://www.spiritoftruth.org/911mural.htm

2006-09-07 17:54:49 · 16 answers · asked by Ned B 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-07 17:52:47 · 28 answers · asked by sarah 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm going to go with a group of friends to an erotic hypnotism show at a comedy club and am thinking about volunteering. I've seen the shows on stage, like at school and fairs but never an "X-rated" one. So I'm curious as to what its like and about. I'm thinking about volunteering and won't mind being embarassed by like thinking im a chicken or a cat...but I don't want to strip or anything..so...anyone who has been to one of these shows let me know...should I volunteer? Also.....whatt is stage hypnosis like...Thanks.

2006-09-07 17:51:54 · 7 answers · asked by Betsy J 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-07 17:51:51 · 17 answers · asked by pam 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-07 17:51:33 · 5 answers · asked by Angel 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Have you ever been Kissed, How old were you?

2006-09-07 17:51:21 · 19 answers · asked by Shanny 3 in Singles & Dating

My ex called me every night since Aug., I returned his call tonight and told him I totally moved on after so many tears and pains in the last one year. He cried eventually saying he loves and this time he means it and begs me to believe him, he said, when he was with me, he expected me to be like his ex-fiance but she was bad in lots of ways he does not want right now, but he was addicted to bad girls for some reasons, and I am too good for him(can not believe he said this to me tonight!) He cried "I was the supid man all the time, you always forgave me and let me come back,gave me another chance, then another chance but I ruined all of them, now I know I made the worst mistake forever ever."

I am not that good as he said, but my culture nutures me not be that girl who likes dramas and plays the game all the time. I heard about guys complianted all the time why do girls like bad guys, that is not true for lots of cases even though I have to admit that is true for many younger girls

2006-09-07 17:51:16 · 12 answers · asked by wolf 1 in Singles & Dating