ppl in my class think that im gay, but im not, its mainly the guys that spread sh*t. i act just a LITTLE fem sometimes but nowhere as near as gay acting as other guys and i get the blame for it!!ppl say that a hot and nice guy are gay(which honestly i am(top 3 hottest guys in class voted by girls)). im great in athletics and music, and i can usually turn a girls head while walking down the street. so would they just be jealous of me? or what, im jsut really sick of it, can anyone give me soem advice on what to do or some comebacks to them that will shut them up for good?!?! ive already tried changing my personality but that only made things worse!!
2006-09-07 18:02:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell them when they say your gay "You must want me" or " I was with your girlfriend last night and she knows I am more of a man then you" Say it differently though lol I am not good at putting things into words lol. You do not have to act a certain way just to please them. You know your sexuality so let it be.
2006-09-07 18:08:44 · answer #1 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be your mannerism's, if you act feminine then sadly a lesson of life will label you as gay.
Remember in the USA, Boys are Boys and Girls are Girls, Whilst this is not the case in other Countries it is very much the case in the USA.
You see the majority of kids are bought up to be Boys or Girls, if you appear to demonstrate feminine tracts then sadly due to the American single minded mindset, you will be labelled as gay.
Not much you can do about it except move to another country where the mindset of the population is much more liberal, I would recommend when you grow up and if you still have the same problem, move to Europe.
2006-09-07 18:11:28 · answer #2 · answered by froggy010101 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice and hot guys aren't gay! In fact, I wish there were more of those guys at my school.. Anyhow, ignore them. If you say "Shut up" to them, it would sound as if you are denying it. I'm not sure if jealousy is the problem here, but maybe teasing and such is the only way to build their esteem and insecurities.
..Or just get a girlfriend. But if you're only using her to prove you aren't gay, then.. =|
2006-09-07 18:10:14 · answer #3 · answered by FOILED 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to change your personality, you are who you are. If the guys call you gay just tease them back with something like, "if you keep looking at me, I'm gonna think you're gay!" or "Nope! I'm afraid you're still going to have to compete with my good looks and athletic body for the girls, good try though!" I guess it's just become the thing now to tease boys/men who look and dress nice (translated, care about their appearance) and call them gay. Not so. Be yourself, there's no one particular way to act like a boy or a man.
2006-09-07 18:08:37 · answer #4 · answered by karen W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey bro the best comeback is to be seen with a hot date. DOnt let what anyone says about you bring you down. Confidence is about ignoring what other people might think or say about you.
2006-09-07 18:06:56 · answer #5 · answered by david k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure how old you are, but why do you care what people think? It is truly none of their business if you are gay or straight.
Do you date or have a girlfriend? If you're old enough, that would do the trick - trust me - I am gay but always had a girlfriend in high school and nobody ever suspected.
2006-09-07 18:07:54 · answer #6 · answered by Todd W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well then use your looks and get the hottest girl you can find. Then flaunt her aroound all of them. That will make them jealous and feel foolish cuz most likely they cant get a hot girl like that!
2006-09-07 18:06:55 · answer #7 · answered by muuuua 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself,dont try to change for a bunch of would be bullies who are hiding their alternative thoughts.
Act as you normally would go after the girls you like, expect rejection,it comes with the turf.
2006-09-07 18:20:46 · answer #8 · answered by steveshoardhouse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ever let no one get inside your head and rent space. you are what you are and its always best to be yourself and not what people want you to be. you dont have a gay problem they are the ones with the problem. Besides if were gay who are they to judge so all in all, only you know you, so be you and dont chage for no one.
2006-09-07 18:15:52 · answer #9 · answered by babygyrl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing that will shut them up is a fist to the jaw.
2006-09-07 18:06:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋