2006-09-07 17:58:07 · 15 answers · asked by Krissy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No you are not selfish! They are being very rude! HE needs to tell them that he appreciated their visiting more while you were away but now you two need to reconnect and get on with your marriage. A marriage is two and they need to realize that and stay away unless invited. Don't be rude to them ever but discuss this with your husband before a wall gets built up between you and your marriage suffers more. Thank you for serving your country!I designed some greeting cards for the military because a friend couldn't find any for her son and his group of Marines and their families. He signed up a second time because his boys he had trained were being shipped out and he wanted to lead them. And he isn't but 26! Anyway here is what I wrote on the inside of one and on top of the flag that I drew."Thank you for your courage,strength,devotion, and the dignity an honorable soldier must posses. May God be with you during your military service". B.S.C.
Glad you are home and I hope your homelife improves quick!
2006-09-07 18:11:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is selfish to not allow a brief time for your husband to see his "other" family. It is not selfish to expect them to allow the two of you some alone time very soon after he arrives. When you see him, you two will be the only ones in your universe anyway, so don't go out of your way to antagonize his parents. Just let them know ahead of time that your husband has had a long trip and needs his rest so you'll both be retiring early.
2006-09-07 18:03:06 · answer #2 · answered by Kuji 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would gladly let the inlaws come to visit and spend time with their son. They've known him all of his life and their love is the kind most parents have for a child. I think that they would deeply appreciate and respect you if you decide to share the initial period of time when your husband returns. You'll have him every night and hopefully for the rest of your life. They've also missed him for the year.
2006-09-07 18:17:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most definatly not! but of course he needs to spend time with is family but if they are "healthy in-laws" they should understand that he needs to spend time with his family he has developed on his own and that is you:-) There is a time and place for everyone and you are first on the list. Good luck and God Bless!
2006-09-07 18:11:31 · answer #4 · answered by fiesty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope not really selfish! Have your husband tell his parents. Talk to him and see how he feels about it! Your husband is in my prayers!
2006-09-07 17:59:19 · answer #5 · answered by PinkHighHeels 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no. I would want some alone time with the hubby too.
2006-09-07 17:59:29 · answer #6 · answered by C K Platypus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not at all but you need to make time for both.
2006-09-07 17:59:01 · answer #7 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel you on the in law thing. i dont think your being selfish.
2006-09-07 18:00:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not in the least. get to know each other again
2006-09-07 17:59:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope. every wife wants her in-laws out of her home-sweet-home
2006-09-07 18:00:51 · answer #10 · answered by shemaya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋