Family & Relationships - 4 September 2006

Marry a man that loves you, provides well for you and is a strong Christian BUT you are not that attracted to him (no butterflies) or continue to be single and struggle here and there and continue to search for a man that has everything (if they exist)?

2006-09-04 16:08:28 · 12 answers · asked by Sarai S 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my girl broke up she moved out she wanted to try to work things out. She came by a week after she moved out to talk she said maybe we both need time to see if this is what we want. we would talk and she would cry saying she needed time. now she does not want to talk she cant do this. I have some of her things still should I tell her to pick them up or let her call me.

2006-09-04 16:07:14 · 13 answers · asked by mvc873 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay i know he want it but he already know the deal, I NEVER TOLD HIM I LOVED HIM, makin out or not love is not something you just through around

2006-09-04 16:06:54 · 5 answers · asked by msPerfect 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of almost a year recently revealed to me he still has feelings for his ex-girlfriend, with whom he broke up with two years ago...he got very emotional and cried....i was there for him and i told him that it was natural not to forget your first love....anyway we are still dating, but i'm just not sure what's going on with him....he acts like he still cares about her.....ALOT....i don't know what to do....

2006-09-04 16:06:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I got divorced about a year ago...and the reason was very painful to explain.......very much ...now I am scared to guys and I know this is not right.....would I feel good again like the way I was before?

2006-09-04 16:06:23 · 8 answers · asked by Yami 3 in Marriage & Divorce

does it matter if a guy is circumsized or not...please only answer this if you have been with both

2006-09-04 16:04:56 · 13 answers · asked by help 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-04 16:04:19 · 40 answers · asked by ashley 1 in Singles & Dating

to shave her head? Would you scream and run the other way? Do you think that a woman can be just as sexy with no hair as she is with a head full?

2006-09-04 16:03:23 · 12 answers · asked by WonderTwit 6 in Singles & Dating

I don't want other guys talking with her when i'm not around or her doing things she shouldn't be doing.

2006-09-04 16:02:03 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok, how many have done this. It's not like anyone can see anything. Exceptions are the excalators, the coed dressing rooms (like Mervyns here used to be.) the food court and that's it. I do it all the time and it never turns into an issue. Am I the only one out there who does this.

2006-09-04 16:01:23 · 18 answers · asked by mia_blankenship 1 in Friends

Call me crazy but I actually plan on getting my ex a birthday present in October. She and I are still close friends and I care about her very much. I've narrowed it to two possibilities. One is a gold locket shaped like a heart with a cross on it. My other idea is to get her earrings with her birthstone, which is tourmaline. Ladies, what do you think??

2006-09-04 16:01:02 · 13 answers · asked by Nemo 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-04 16:00:51 · 9 answers · asked by Cavalier 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-04 16:00:16 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been in a relationship with a married man for 2 years. He and his wife have been having problems for several years. But they try to stay together for the kids. They were separated for most of last year, but he went back home because of the kids, even though him and her don't get along at all. She cheated on him before and doesn't trust him. I know in my heart their relationship is over and has been for a long time. I know he loves me, and i can wait until the kids can deal with the divorce. But will him and his wife ever split up for good or is she gonna use the kids to keep him around forever. Will he ever be mine?

2006-09-04 15:59:59 · 26 answers · asked by y_not_do_it_already 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2horny for another woman at age 52

2006-09-04 15:59:40 · 20 answers · asked by ANGELA A 1 in Singles & Dating

I used to be a thug. Braided hair driving a big body sittin on 30's, this was a while ago people, I stayed high and drunk then I hooked up with this hood chick. She got pregnant I straigtened out got a job cut my hair and stopped drinking. I bought a family car and tried to do right by my son and my family. My girl got bored with the new responsible me and basically stepped out on me with a thug who was still living with mom at 28. Meanwhile I had money and resources property and education yet she lost interest in me. What happened?

2006-09-04 15:58:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why is that straight men have to go into Lesbian chat rooms and while they are in there they have to be so rude?????

2006-09-04 15:58:13 · 2 answers · asked by hope_danielle05 1 in Singles & Dating

my wife who's in the navy just filed for divorce, we have a 3 month old baby, she wants full custody, but she's got pcs orders to a new ship on the east coast thats being built and won't be ready for about a year to go to its homeport on the west coast, could or will this be a promblem for her.

2006-09-04 15:56:52 · 10 answers · asked by james j 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Right now I know that he is a bit stressed so things are a bit hightened, but he has always had a problem with being overwhelmed, overly upset when mad, overly sad when upset, overly... you name it, I on the other hand am very relaxed person. I not so relaxed that I am a slob or don't care about things, but I figure worrying or getting upset never helps a situation, moving onward and pushing toward the goal will see you through the hard times. Mind you I can shead a tear or be down, but there is always a solution, you just have to find it. I figure that whatever bad thing comes my way today, then tomorrow, next week, month, year, will be all together different. Never look at the problems look for the clearing. My husband is the opposite. How do I help him? He always feels depressed and down, not the happy go lucky person he was when we dated (we dated for 5 years so it wasn't like I didn't really know him).

2006-09-04 15:56:29 · 12 answers · asked by faith 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How to get a girl to want to make out with you?

2006-09-04 15:56:04 · 14 answers · asked by aSfasgadgds 3 in Singles & Dating

my niece seems jealous and obsessed of my daughter, yet at the same time, seems to depise her. my sister and i are very close and this is causing alot of problems. i decided to disassociate with them, as my daughter has dealt with this since my niece was 2. my daughter can be sarcastic, but i don't think pinching is an age appropriate response. my sister does punish her, but she doesn't stop.

2006-09-04 15:55:34 · 5 answers · asked by shellyp 1 in Family

Just curious. I have dark blonde hair and blue eyes.

2006-09-04 15:54:48 · 17 answers · asked by jh361 5 in Singles & Dating

i'm 39

2006-09-04 15:54:09 · 9 answers · asked by john s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have this guy that i really like and he is supposedly moving to say....Florida. But he hasnt went yet and he is 20 and im 18 and i have to be in love with him if not i really really like him. im just scared ill never see him again and that i will never have that oppurtunity. but the thing is that he is WAAAAYYYY TOO CUTE for me. I am like the witch of the west compared to him. but he is the sweetest person in the world. help plzzz!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-09-04 15:53:59 · 16 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been reading posts here and on several other sites. I have noticed something interesting that seems to be consistant with all the sites. There seem to be a large number of people who prefer to respond to questions in a way that could be characterized as cruel or mean or generally hurtful. My question is why? What is it about us that has us choose to write something that tears people down rather than lifting them up? The spirt of what has been created by these sites is positive, and it seems that the people who post on them have the same desire - to derive something positive from the responses. I am saddend by some peoples' choice to meet those desires with comments designed to hurt rather than help.

2006-09-04 15:53:41 · 11 answers · asked by I'm Princess 3 in Family

what if we lost someone we cared so much but they just dont see it!! and just let go of you from some childish reason? what will you do to let go of you feel for that person!! and for the fact the they say nothing gonna change but everything has change!! will you still trust that person who lied to you?? tell me i need serious advices

2006-09-04 15:53:09 · 4 answers · asked by alan's girlfreind 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-04 15:52:59 · 14 answers · asked by Cavalier 1 in Singles & Dating

like the ones our parents used to have, starting from scratch, buidling a life together from nothing. pooling the resources and slowly buying a house together, and all that?
why is it these days, women deman a man who has everything fro 2 cars to a big house with fancy 3 degree educations before she'll even consider dating him? what has happened to people these days? why are women like this? and then they cheat on the guy afterwards. its just downright unfair!

2006-09-04 15:52:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i met this man at work,we ride motorcycles. we had our first date, rode for a couple hours,stopped, had dinner, sat and talked for 4 1/2hrs, i felt badfor talking so much, he talked alot also, he said he enjoyed every minute, and could sit there the rest of the night...he was smiling..seemed real sincere,back at my house,he got a goodnight hug, we had talked on the phone a few times since the date(once for 2 1/2hrs,next 2 phone conversations a little over an hour, then when i see him at work, he is very polite,,comes over to my area,sits and talks and talks..i really like him..would like to see him...but he never calls,,,so i have decided he is just not that into me & he is living as a roommate with his soon to be exwife..they share bills..he said he wanted a divorce...that he plans to divorce her but is afraid she will take his son away...they have been separated for about 3yrs,,,they tried to work things out..took 5 days to decide he had made a mistake...what do ya think

2006-09-04 15:51:58 · 19 answers · asked by lilredruby67 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been single for two years now, have two small children, and can't seem to meet any nice, single men. Tried different churches, grocery store, online, etc. Now what?

2006-09-04 15:51:51 · 6 answers · asked by kelly l 2 in Singles & Dating