my wife who's in the navy just filed for divorce, we have a 3 month old baby, she wants full custody, but she's got pcs orders to a new ship on the east coast thats being built and won't be ready for about a year to go to its homeport on the west coast, could or will this be a promblem for her.
2006-09-04 15:56:52 · 10 answers · asked by james j 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Military divorce...woah, that's a big one.
Let me see now, as I walk into my brain and give you some real good advice here...okay I got it.
So What!!!
So What!!!
You divorce that is the standard procedure article 11-section 54
Your cooked at high temperature and if you don;t cool yourself off, your gonna burn up.
Stop looking at things like the end of the world. You haven't seen next year yet.
Give it time. Breathe and relax and move on, but be a good Man and understading and that will take you to the rainbow and in the long run it is her loss not yours and what I mean by that is very simple to rectify....if you change for the better and become even a better man than you are right now, your going to be great. NOW...if she remains as she is now and two years from now she remains the same..she hasn;t changed a bit and your downfall will follow her to her next divorce where'as you have stepped up one more notch in life.
2006-09-09 03:52:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I deal with military divorces everyday as peer support.
Military divorces are different these days because of the operational tempo US and Canadian military personnel are under. It is complicated. Generally, what is the best interests of the child.
As a fathers-4-justice-canada coordinator, I say strive for equal parenting, not shared. If your spouse does six months sea duty, make up that time later. Are your incomes similar? If they are, there need not be any support at all. Two things that should not enter into the picture: her career and your gender. Protect both while protecting the children's relationship with both parents.
If you need more info about this, please email me. Thanks.
2006-09-04 17:30:37 · answer #2 · answered by Ottawa Father 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a man,, get 50-50 custody of YOUR child, if something happens to her in the navy,, your child will be put in a foster home, regardless, her parents can then try to get the kid,
own up to your responsibilities,
2006-09-10 05:34:47 · answer #3 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a lawyer
2006-09-12 06:28:35 · answer #4 · answered by Gone Rogue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fight to keep the child unless you want to pay child support.
2006-09-04 16:44:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be a problem for her, so she will not regain full custody.
2006-09-04 15:59:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she must least think she know what she's doing, but my advise to you is to talk to her,see what's really going on, and speak to your lawyer as well!!
2006-09-12 07:04:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need a lawyer.
2006-09-04 15:58:56 · answer #8 · answered by Lady G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really, she can ask for shore duty.
2006-09-04 15:58:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
good one.
2006-09-10 08:45:49 · answer #10 · answered by Rusty Shackleford 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋