Call me crazy but I actually plan on getting my ex a birthday present in October. She and I are still close friends and I care about her very much. I've narrowed it to two possibilities. One is a gold locket shaped like a heart with a cross on it. My other idea is to get her earrings with her birthstone, which is tourmaline. Ladies, what do you think??
2006-09-04 16:01:02 · 13 answers · asked by Nemo 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Definitely the ear-rings. If you're not together as a couple, it would be inappropriate for you to give her anything with a heart. That would only make her uncomfortable & it would strain the friendship that you are trying to salvage after being intimate. The ear-rings let her know that you still care about her as a friend but you aren't pressuring her for anything else. To give her a heart locket would be perceived as an unspoken attempt to win her favor again as a boyfriend, or lover.
2006-09-04 16:05:29 · answer #1 · answered by Shadow 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-06 10:23:01 · answer #2 · answered by latourette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT BUY AN EX GIRLFRIEND JEWELRY.
SHE DOESN"T WANT PRESENTS LIKE THIS FROM YOU.
Save your freaking money, you are exes for a reason. You can be friends, but if you are still calling her your EX and buying her romantic gifts, then you are NOT over her, and you are NOT truly friends yet. You are still holding out hope and that is EXACTLY what those gifts would tell her, and it will PUT her off from wanting to even be your friend.
2006-09-04 16:11:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both to much for an ex GF. Just get her flowers. You will look like a lovesick ex if you get her those gifts.
2006-09-04 16:03:16 · answer #4 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A birthday card... And if you are currently with someone, the ex gets nothing.
2006-09-04 16:11:06 · answer #5 · answered by YourAnswer... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you still love her. That's sweet. Check your feelings a thousand first. :-) complications happen with exes.
anyway just to answer your question: earrings with her birthstone. :-)
2006-09-04 16:12:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be careful with personal gifts . they can send the wrong message try something cute or something that will make her laughbut if you had to choose go with the earrings
2006-09-04 16:06:07 · answer #7 · answered by abgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is your "ex"....remember? Those are very inappropriate gifts and you are making a fool out of yourself! Leave her alone, pal, and, if you have to, just send her a friendly card and leave it at that!
2006-09-04 16:06:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
neither.. both sound like gift from a current boyfriend
or do you want to get back together
if you buy either of these.. she will think just that
play it save and buy her a pretty photo frame
2006-09-04 16:04:16 · answer #9 · answered by Mopar Muscle Gal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THE EARRINGS. IF YOU HAVE BROKEN UP--DONT GET THE HEART.
2006-09-04 16:02:52 · answer #10 · answered by horsysue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋