me and my girl broke up she moved out she wanted to try to work things out. She came by a week after she moved out to talk she said maybe we both need time to see if this is what we want. we would talk and she would cry saying she needed time. now she does not want to talk she cant do this. I have some of her things still should I tell her to pick them up or let her call me.
2006-09-04 16:07:14 · 13 answers · asked by mvc873 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Not always, but nothing in your question suggests she has started seeing anyone else. Drop her stuff off at her place, and be done with it. Don't hold her stuff "hostage" in order to make her call you. It's done, so wipe the slate clean.
2006-09-04 16:09:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's done. If you want to give her, her stuff back you need to know before that phone call if you are calling really just to give the stuff back, or if you're hoping her coming by will give you a chance to try to talk her into something you want, but has CLEARLY let you know that she doesn't. I've been where you are, so I know everything that's going thru your mind right now. For now, just put the stuff to the side, and give yourself and her a chance to see where you really are with this. The space will allow both parties to get the time and perspective needed to resolve this in a way where it's in each person's best interest. Good Luck!
2006-09-04 16:15:29 · answer #2 · answered by dct1218 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Face it, it is over between the two of you. Call her to pick up the rest of her stuff and end it completely. And no, it is not possible for a woman to jump into another relationship. Why? We need time heal and get over the pain of the first break up.
2006-09-04 16:10:50 · answer #3 · answered by Miss J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lots of people jump from the fire into the frying pan or vice versa. But if your girl is giving you hints that she wants space and time then give it to her. If you two are truly meant to be then all will resolve itself, if not then you'll both learn to get over it and get on with your lifes.
2006-09-04 16:11:27 · answer #4 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend and I are in this situation right now.....I love him but I feel we are both prolonging the inevitable...I hate hurting his feelings. I think after four years if we have not moved forward...its time to move on. Drop off her stuff.
2006-09-04 17:35:53 · answer #5 · answered by gilmoregirl396 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look...it is over. Period. Everything else is drama to soften the hurt. Can I be honest? Ain't (is that a word?) no cryin' or time gonna fix this. She can pick up the stuff later...but she won't.
2006-09-04 16:16:14 · answer #6 · answered by angleheart20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks like the relationship is over...so you need to move on. What she does is her business and not up to you to be judgemental. Mail her things back to her and take the high road and don't look back.
2006-09-04 16:11:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time to move on,she was just using you till she found someone else.I know it sounds harsh but she was hanging on to you in case she couldn't find someone.Sorry,but it's best you know now.Don't let her hurt you anymore than she already has.Keeping you on her string until something else came along.She should be ashamed of herself.
2006-09-04 16:10:44 · answer #8 · answered by countrykarebare 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
drop off her things at a mutual friend's house, or at her parent's house. if she has a change of heart, she will come back. meanwhile, move on with your life. life is too short to wait for something that may never happen.
2006-09-04 16:11:27 · answer #9 · answered by bad guppy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a rebound, he mandatory to try this to get you off his ideas, im particular he nonetheless has emotions for you. men re pround n their ego hurts actually, so he could experience strongly to sleep around to get his ego decrease back n to guarantee himself hes nonetheless able to attrcting. he will experience depressing in a week or 2 because you will pop decrease back in his head. besides the indisputable fact that attempt to circulate on n overlook him, dont waste ur time irritating abt what he did or dint do, somewhat channel that potential in direction of your friends n rebuilding your existence n hav ing exciting
2016-09-30 08:39:10 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋