Marry a man that loves you, provides well for you and is a strong Christian BUT you are not that attracted to him (no butterflies) or continue to be single and struggle here and there and continue to search for a man that has everything (if they exist)?
2006-09-04 16:08:28 · 12 answers · asked by Sarai S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have to ask, he's not right for you!
2006-09-04 16:32:37 · answer #1 · answered by Maple 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I wouldn't marry the man I'm not attracted to. I would stay single until I find someone I am attracted to.
2006-09-04 23:12:39 · answer #2 · answered by Ewww Gross 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its sad but I would have to continue to search for a man that has everything. I'm sure the smart thing is to stay with someone who is safe. But I want it all
2006-09-04 23:12:24 · answer #3 · answered by aly_girl501 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cannot respond to a man I am not attracted, much less marry one. I would hold out. If you settle for a marriage with no passion, you will not be satisfied. Also, it is not fair to the man for you to use him to take care of your financial needs if you cannot love him in return.
2006-09-04 23:47:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By your description of him, how could I not be attracted to him?
There is no choice to be made here, based on my impression of your question and then its qualifications. Struggle? None.
This one already has everything. I just wish he actually existed.
2006-09-04 23:14:46 · answer #5 · answered by honeynubbin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom always says you can learn to love. That if a man treats you well you will grow to love him. But me personally, I still need that physical attraction or I won't be happy. It's all about what's important for you and if you feel you can remain faithful & happy with someone like that.
2006-09-04 23:12:00 · answer #6 · answered by orionsgirl76 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Attraction is very important.
If he is into you, give him a chance to grow the interest in your heart.
Dont marry someone you dont love, you will regret someday.
2006-09-04 23:12:56 · answer #7 · answered by J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would Marry a man that loves me, treats me right, have to have good " looks", and help me around the house , play bills, and help me with stuff and i i'll do the same...
2006-09-04 23:11:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would definitely take the first option. If I waited for the second option, I might wait forever!
2006-09-04 23:12:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's hard, but i think I would rather choose to be single if I don't love him. how about you?
2006-09-04 23:13:07 · answer #10 · answered by Tennis lova 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be selfish. remember its two involved. its easier to know now than later
2006-09-04 23:14:40 · answer #11 · answered by abgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋