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i met this man at work,we ride motorcycles. we had our first date, rode for a couple hours,stopped, had dinner, sat and talked for 4 1/2hrs, i felt badfor talking so much, he talked alot also, he said he enjoyed every minute, and could sit there the rest of the night...he was smiling..seemed real sincere,back at my house,he got a goodnight hug, we had talked on the phone a few times since the date(once for 2 1/2hrs,next 2 phone conversations a little over an hour, then when i see him at work, he is very polite,,comes over to my area,sits and talks and talks..i really like him..would like to see him...but he never calls,,,so i have decided he is just not that into me & he is living as a roommate with his soon to be exwife..they share bills..he said he wanted a divorce...that he plans to divorce her but is afraid she will take his son away...they have been separated for about 3yrs,,,they tried to work things out..took 5 days to decide he had made a mistake...what do ya think

2006-09-04 15:51:58 · 19 answers · asked by lilredruby67 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

19 answers

Just be cool. Don't try to rush into a relationship wit a married man. Separated or not HE IS MARRIED!!! Just be cool and be friends. Out of respect for you he may be tryin to keep things cool as to not get you in the middle of things. Let him resolve his issues and just keep things friendly for now.

2006-09-04 15:56:39 · answer #1 · answered by Lady G 3 · 0 0

Not a good situation...STOP now before you get more involved...it's never a good idea to start something with someone that's not divorced..EVEN if they say otherwise...Im sure he likes you and you like him...So why not wait till everything is settled on his side first....( but if Im wrong, I would say you pretty much gonna do it your way, but correct me if Im wrong)...If he really means what he meant those times your together...He will do it the right way...And you seem like you have a good head over your shoulder...Wait it off and DO IT RIGHT! for YOU!....Good_Luck! let me know how things go.

2006-09-04 22:59:47 · answer #2 · answered by nAiSa 2 · 0 0

BACK OFF! He isn't divorced yet! Just cool it until the ink dries on the paperwork. He might not be ABLE to call you if he is still living with her and they are going through divorce proceedings.

Or find another man who is emotionally available and NOT in the middle of a break up!

2006-09-04 22:55:51 · answer #3 · answered by KB 6 · 0 0

You said he is "living as a roommate w/his ex-wife...and that they've been separated for about 3 yrs??? How can they be living together and separated at the same time? That's not a legal separation if their still living under the same roof. I think you are setting yourself up for a heartbreak if you have any illusions about you and him living happily ever after. Find someone who is free and available.

2006-09-04 23:02:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

hate to say it but the problem is he is still hung up over his ex wife. He may like you alot but he can't devote any time to you because of his relationship and involvement with her. Don't get involved with this guys until he is walking the walk and not just talking the talk. Maybe I'm wrong, but I don't know many ex husbands and wives that are roomates.

2006-09-04 22:55:09 · answer #5 · answered by southern-belle 1 · 0 0

Oh, please........will you just Stop!!!! He is MARRIED, sweetie......what part of this don't you understand???? Stay away from him.......he is feeding you a line!! Right, they are living as "roommates"......sure they are! There is no "soon to be ex-wife".....DUH!!!! You are asking, no......Begging for problems! Be on your way and look for someone who is not married! You are making a fool out of yourself!

2006-09-04 22:58:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I THINK YOU NEED TO GO ON WITH YOUR LIFE,MAYBE WHAT HE ONLY WANTED FROM YOU IS FRIENDSHIP...LOOK AT IT THIS WAY AT LEAST HE DID NOT OPEN UP THOSE CANS OF WORMS,(MEANING) HE DID NOT WANT TO LEAD YOU ON...SO GOOD LUCK! AND TAKE THINGS A LITTLE SLOWER, I CAN ASSURE YOU YOUR PRINCE CHARMING WILL COME...

2006-09-04 22:56:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Run! Wait until he commits to divorcing his wife.

2006-09-04 22:54:47 · answer #8 · answered by noneofyourbizwax 3 · 0 0

Sounds like he likes you but is torn between you and what's best for his son...hope everything works out for you.

2006-09-04 22:53:49 · answer #9 · answered by bernie2u4 6 · 0 0

im sure he will call you,mayb there are issues that came up ???and why doesnt he fight for custody his child and yous both take care of the child?!

2006-09-04 22:55:31 · answer #10 · answered by ~$#xyMammA~ 1 · 0 0

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