I got divorced about a year ago...and the reason was very painful to explain.......very much ...now I am scared to guys and I know this is not right.....would I feel good again like the way I was before?
2006-09-04 16:06:23 · 8 answers · asked by Yami 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you'll heal with time... but probably never be the same... you're starting something new, things happen mostly for the best...be strong and life goes on....Good luck!!
2006-09-12 07:09:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so, so sorry. My heart goes out to you. No one deserves this kind of pain, do they?
I am right there with you. I got divorced just about a year ago and I haven't been able to shake the pain at all. My exwife absolutely destroyed me.
I don't think that I am ever going to be 100% comfortable with a woman ever again. Oh, I could go on and on, but I will spare you.
I hope that I can feel the way I did before, but I just don't know if it will ever happen.
I surely wish you the best. I sincerely wish I could help out.
Once again, I am so sorry.
2006-09-05 00:03:50 · answer #2 · answered by Cing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals all wounds you be suprised. Just take your time hun, DONT RUSH INTO ANYTHING!!!!!! It does not help. Heal yourself. Go out have fune meet new people be around people that are gonna make you feel good. Pain is pain and it hurts but if you clear you self from all anger pain hurt believe me you will be able to move on. Right now you just need to deal with you. Dont give up or reject just live and find things that make you happy and feel good, youll be just fine.
Good luck
2006-09-04 23:31:29 · answer #3 · answered by Robyn D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is always someone waiting for the right person to come along.time will heal your pain.there is someone out there that you will love just as much or maybe even more.i have been in the same shoes and it takes a while for you to fall in love again,but when you do it will one of the best things that ever happend to you.you will look back and realize you didn't love the person as much as you thought you did.and i still think back and wonder why i wasted my time,but i learned alot of things about a relationship.so my advice to you is that it will get better it will be times you doin't think you can move on,but you can.SOMEONE IS WAITING.
2006-09-04 23:18:37 · answer #4 · answered by bridget j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some day you will. It took me 2 years and a very caring man that showed me patience and time.
2006-09-04 23:09:54 · answer #5 · answered by tdm1175 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes time. You will get over it.... in time. How much time? No one knows. Maybe therapy would be an option for you to speed you to happiness. Good luck to you
2006-09-04 23:09:04 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your day will come...you already know that some men find you very intelligent and beautiful. Just be patient, lovely one
2006-09-05 22:11:19 · answer #7 · answered by westgaliberty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will take time but you will get over it. Join a health club!
2006-09-10 16:45:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋