Family & Relationships - 2 September 2006

Most men would perfer that women dont fake an orgams for "their sake". But do they know that only 1/3 of woman orgasm during intercourse? So i dont understand...arn't men really self conscience about whether they are good in bed? Doesnt it make men feel good to be a sex god to your lady? So would you rather a woman be honest and say "hey, i just dont work that way, but i love doing it for you." Cuz for most women it feels great but they are in it for the physical closness and emotional connection. Am i wrong?

2006-09-02 20:09:19 · 14 answers · asked by missbrunett419 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-02 20:07:48 · 22 answers · asked by simplycomplicated 3 in Singles & Dating

what do you think of me?

2006-09-02 20:05:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hi i come from a strict family. They are constantly trying to take control of my life and use emotional blackmail if i don;t do what they want or say. for example, i am not muslim or hindu, so don't have to have an arranged marriage. but last year they forced me to meet up with a girl they want me to get to know and eventually marry. and said if i didn't do it, they will disown me from the family. also said that if a particular elderly family member dies and i don't get married before then, they will have nothing to do with me. what do u think i should do? i am a grown adult and live at home, work and also don't have freedom to do things. if i defy them, they then get very controlling and aggressive (not violent tho). i feel trapped, no one understands what i'm going through. it makes me stressed.

2006-09-02 20:04:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I absolutely am sick of the way I live my life, mainly were I live is the problem. I have been saving and preparing myself to move out of my parents house once I turn 18 in a few months. I am so ready to move out and begin learning for myself and such, but I do have a small part of me that i believe will dearly miss my parents, and my brother. I will be at the other side of the U.S, about an 8 hour flight away. I just love them so much, and feel that im going to miss something when i leave, and one day i will see them, and they will be much older, then after that, i will be at their funerals, wishing with all the world that i would have spent more time with them. I don't spend much time with them now because they are both working and when their not working, i am working. So are these feelings normal for a guy, and will they go away. Should i stay with them or move out and begin the process of growing up? i feel so depressed about it... and btw, the distance isnt much of an option

2006-09-02 20:04:23 · 13 answers · asked by help! 1 in Family

I need to know what it is like after leaving an abusive(verbally/emotionally) relationship. I have been married 8 years with 2 young children and I can't take this abuse anymore. The hollering in my face, the name calling from fat *****, worthless ************, lazy, free loading deadweight, stupid, etc.Or even the silent treatment that lasts for weeks sometimes. I feel like I am dying when he does this. Even in front of my kids. I just need to go but I need a push because I feel so helpless and worthless.

2006-09-02 20:01:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i dont think so. if you say you loved me, why the hell did you do dat for? what do you guys think?

2006-09-02 20:01:45 · 11 answers · asked by Niki 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-02 19:59:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I had an abusive relationship and I know other women who have had boyfriends hit them. I'm just shocked at how common this is. I'm not talking just slapping. I'm talking very severe actions. I've had bruises, a broken finger, a busted nose and I know others who have suffered likewise. What is WRONG with people today?

2006-09-02 19:59:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

over a simple harmless question.
I normally am not prone to snittiness, but had a nerve wrenching day, and just snapped.
I can't make an excuse for the incident being as I don't feel it can be justified.
This person always treats me like platinum and I feel about as low as the soles of a snail's shoes.

2006-09-02 19:59:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Honestly Is 6.5 in. Small to you? You know what i mean

2006-09-02 19:57:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-02 19:55:29 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

If a person makes you feel unhappy about yourself and life but you can't imagine living without them, what do you call this? Can you love someone and not actually like them, after living together several years?

2006-09-02 19:55:11 · 9 answers · asked by south_lido 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Anything goes on this one...

2006-09-02 19:54:18 · 17 answers · asked by Lana 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-02 19:52:39 · 21 answers · asked by nans77 1 in Singles & Dating

Having a surprise party for mybfriend. Dont get along with his bro and wife. Not a question of being polite they have really abused us financially and been down right rude most of the time. Mother in law would be upset if they did not come. What do I do?

2006-09-02 19:51:33 · 9 answers · asked by unknown 1 in Family

my boyfriend just moved and i still love him wat am i suppose to do? i rele love him and hes the best relationship i have ever been in but he moved 3000 miles away and wat if he finds someone else?

2006-09-02 19:50:59 · 8 answers · asked by lola 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

is a cell fone good 2 use as a vibrator cuz i need 1 rite now if u no wat i mean

2006-09-02 19:49:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-02 19:49:32 · 10 answers · asked by Happy 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I dated the wrong guy for a year and a half. But I didn't marry him. I can't imagine what it would be like to marry the wrong guy. What's it like being divorced? Dudes can answer, too.

2006-09-02 19:49:04 · 16 answers · asked by Brackalicious 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i think that we should just be friends

2006-09-02 19:49:01 · 8 answers · asked by WODDA 1 in Singles & Dating

Im 17 years old and a senior at a different school than my boyfriend ( who is also the same age). we have been going out for about 5 month and our schools are starting in less than a week. the other night i got in a fight with my parents dealing somewhat with him and they grounded me for 2 weeks no t.v. computer, or telephone. me and my boyfriend have been up and down for our 5 months together and recently its been perfect but im just worried he will loose interest in me for not seeing me for a while and talking to other girls at his school. am i over reacting? please give advice i would really appreciate it thanks!

2006-09-02 19:46:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband suffers from depression and panic attacks. he has had one everynight this week. he cries and gets shakey and cant stop. he is on anti-depressants called citalopram, and even using adivent during panic attacks to try to calm down, lately nothing works. i told him to talk to the doctor when he took our 6mth old in for his needle. he didnt tell him, but i found out from my mom who went with him that he was asking the doctors how to fix his balding that has begone. i dont know is it a self esteem issue is that why he cries. i have tried to help but have been not trying as much anymore, i just leave him alone when he has one, now he thinks i dont care. how do i get my husband back, this isnt how he was when we started out, he doesnt work, and sleeps alot i feel he has giving up and thinks he future is crap. he is only 25 what do i do...has anyone had to deal with this b4....HELP ME PLEASE!

please dont give rude answers this is my life i am dealing with...

thank you!

2006-09-02 19:46:11 · 13 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

So i have been dating this guy for almost two years, and lately his ex has been coming around alot. She has been causing alot of probs with me, i already had her arrested for harassment, but the girl doesnt back off, just recently another of his exes started coming around doing the same thing, my hunny told them to back off, but i guess they thought that he meant to leave just him alone or they were being bitches, because they still harass me, now they come to my work place, anyone have any advise on how to deal with these little witches?? i would appreciate it

2006-09-02 19:46:06 · 13 answers · asked by Lynny S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

when it is considered by church goers?

2006-09-02 19:45:20 · 8 answers · asked by THE BEST 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-02 19:42:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

AM TRYING TO MAKE FRIENDS FOR MY YAHOO, AM NEW HERE, AM DEAF NEED HELP WITH COMPUTERS.. E.G YAHOO 360 AM LEARNING ALL BY MYSELF

2006-09-02 19:42:25 · 12 answers · asked by ? 3 in Friends

i just endind my friendship with my best friend but i dont know if i'm right for doing that or not. we've been on and off for months. and now im so heartbroken i want to go back and ask for forgiveness but ive been doing that to much and ill just repeat the steps all over again. we have grown mature and changed alot. and that started to make our friendship end. what should i do?

2006-09-02 19:40:16 · 9 answers · asked by lost and confused 1 in Friends

Ok my son is ten entering the fifth grade last year at elementary. He like the color pink I have no problem with that because guys are starting to wear it more. But my husband keeps putting him down for it and makes fun of him. So my son is scared to wear the color. I am letting my son developed his own indivisuality now with hair styles and clothing because he is getting to that age. I have talked with my husband and tried to explain things to him but he just doesn't listen. Any advice on how to get my huband to listen and be more supportive twords our son.

2006-09-02 19:40:00 · 11 answers · asked by I wish I wish 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend has been in a bad mood for months now, I've become completely passive to avoid fighting with him.

Literally, anything I say causes him to argue or feel aggresive!
Even mentioning a color paint that looks nice on a car or noticing a tree with a broken branch while driving will cause him to go on and on about his opinions!

He's been acting this way for months! I'm tired of saying I'm sorry and telling him he's right when he's not just to diffuse the anger as soon as it starts!

How long is long enough? It's getting worse every day! I'm sick of it! I don't want to be the one to give up right before it gets better!

HELP1

2006-09-02 19:38:45 · 21 answers · asked by me 4 in Marriage & Divorce