Most men would perfer that women dont fake an orgams for "their sake". But do they know that only 1/3 of woman orgasm during intercourse? So i dont understand...arn't men really self conscience about whether they are good in bed? Doesnt it make men feel good to be a sex god to your lady? So would you rather a woman be honest and say "hey, i just dont work that way, but i love doing it for you." Cuz for most women it feels great but they are in it for the physical closness and emotional connection. Am i wrong?
2006-09-02 20:09:19 · 14 answers · asked by missbrunett419 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Most men would perfer that women dont fake an orgams for "their sake". But do they know that only 1/3 of woman orgasm during intercourse? So i dont understand...arn't men really self conscience about whether they are good in bed? Doesnt it make men feel good to be a sex god to your lady? So would you rather a woman be honest and say "hey, i just dont work that way, but i love doing it for you." Cuz for most women it feels great but they are in it for the physical closness and emotional connection. Am i wrong?
Source:
Myth: "Normal" women reach orgasm through intercourse.
Fact: Only about a third of women experience orgasm regularly during intercourse. A third can reach orgasm with intercourse but need extra stimulation. A third never achieve orgasm during intercourse but can by manual and oral stimulation.
If you dont believe me look for yourself....http://www.sogc.org/health/health-myths_e.asp
2006-09-02 20:21:30 · update #1
To be honest, I believe everyone would agree that as long as both are happy, before, during and after.
2006-09-02 20:15:39 · answer #1 · answered by ♪♫♪Isaac♪♫ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why build a dam if there is no water?
A man wants to know, and honestly, if the act pleases you, and not out of helping satisfy them, but actually pleasurable to you. If you're not orgasming during intercourse, he's not reaching his personal goal. He might not be hitting the home run, but if its close he can settle most of the time. If he's your partner, and not some kid hitting a one night stand who won't be there in the morning, he just wants the truth.
Sure, it may get frustrating if he can't meet his goal. But it's far more injust to decieve the guy. I mean, if nothing else, think about if he found out. Quite the foundation for an honest and lasting relationship, eh?
The best thing that ever happened to me as a man was, in college, I met a girl. She wasn't satisfied, but showed me what did satisfy her. She became my best friend, my partner. It was her honesty that I admired more than anything else.
2006-09-03 03:27:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so right. Any man that does not know the difference you should not sleep with. If he says not to fake it... he should double down on the oral and foreplay so it's of no consequence later in the moment. A man that truly cares about you as a person would never have this conversation with you.
2006-09-03 03:16:16 · answer #3 · answered by in_TIM_idation 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you aren't wrong in my opinion. My husband says that does like to make love when I am not interested. But I like the closeness and enjoy the act without an orgasim. So I fake it on occassion just so I can have sex! Sad but true. At first I didn't believe this but our sex lives got strained so screw it! (litterally) I started faking it.
2006-09-03 03:13:35 · answer #4 · answered by flemm88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy should never bother about that fact. Women enjoy it as long as they are in a relationship irrespective of whether they are faking or not. And men enjoy it all the time anyways.
So, just have fun and never mind
2006-09-03 03:12:02 · answer #5 · answered by Juggernaut B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not just women, sometimes men fake it too
course it's better when the payoff isn't so much the "bang" as the honesty in the intimacy
the woman above who says she has to fake it to get sex is being very honest. Too bad her husband isn't able to handle his stuff as honestly --so she wouldn't need to "fake it" to him
(the sex god thing is mostly crap & can get way over-rated... become stifling)
you're not "wrong"... but it would be nicer not to have to "fake" it.... nicer to be seen as you really are as you really are feeling... be understood, accepted...
...loved.. really.
No one really enjoys a lot of pretending.. neither the pretender, nor the one who is deluded really gets very far, nor gets as deeply loved
am I wrong?
2006-09-03 03:27:23 · answer #6 · answered by warm_funny_man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are wrong.
If only 1/3rd of women orgasm during sex, then there is something wrong with those other 2/3rds of women, not the least of which is their ability to lie without guilt. And I'd rather not be with a woman who has something wrong with her, so this would be sparing us both the trouble of her being unfulfilled and of my wasting my time with her.
2006-09-03 03:11:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
LOVE IT! DOES IT RUNG TO YOUR BELL, YOUR RIGHT! CONTENTMENT... FULFILMENT... JUST BE EXPRESSIVED IN DOING THINGS. Most men actually dont bother if your in cloud nine as long as were finished its done.. but sometimes men do have concern about what you really feel it makes as more hot... whether its fake or not..
2006-09-03 03:27:57 · answer #8 · answered by BOB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First it is so much better to give her multiple REAL orgasms...secondly there is the old joke
Why do women fake orgasms.
answer..because they think we care
2006-09-03 06:52:03 · answer #9 · answered by chiefof nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think most women just want a good dlckin evry once in awhile thats why theyre in it not 4 emotional closeness
2006-09-03 03:14:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋