Family & Relationships - 2 September 2006

Hi!..I have a serious problem, I like a girl very much, and she likes mee too. But the problem is she is already engaged. However, she is also confused whether she should marry that guy. But the fact is she cares a lot for him, than she cares about for me. In brief she does like me and i have told her i am ready to back off whenever she tells me to. but she then says no, she wants to be wth me blah blah...I really care for her, and dont want to break her heart, or put in a serious dilemma. Should i back off, or wait for a lil while and see where this leads to?. Please advice me?

2006-09-02 00:36:12 · 16 answers · asked by rm99999 1 in Singles & Dating

she has a Hapro studio

2006-09-02 00:34:28 · 19 answers · asked by joliecandy 1 in Singles & Dating

We've been together a couple of years, but that part of things is dwindling fast. Tried to talk to him about it. Am getting really sad about it. Any advice?

2006-09-02 00:34:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Mum will be 76 on wednesday and I have not got a clue what to get her. she has enough ornemants to set up a shop, the same with clothes and jewelrey and has no hobbies as such, she likes a bit of gardening BUT would be mortified if I got her anything to do with the garden...Something unusual would be good....But for those funny Guys out there formula 1 racing, parachute jumping and that sort of thing is OUT

2006-09-02 00:33:28 · 27 answers · asked by Denise W 4 in Family

debts that should be settled he insists he needs his own laptop. is he being reasonable or i'm i being too controlling by insisting that we both continue to share the one we currently have and hold off on the laptop for now?

p.s - we are both students and we are supporting our daughter.

2006-09-02 00:32:57 · 9 answers · asked by arewa247 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i know i have i feel about 10 lbs lighter! so who else?

2006-09-02 00:32:21 · 8 answers · asked by Mystery Guest 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-02 00:31:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

different things to do both nonsexual and sexual. seriously

2006-09-02 00:30:56 · 9 answers · asked by phooh 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-02 00:29:06 · 20 answers · asked by lazydazy 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

If not, r they atleast kinda interested...as in would they watch if given a chance?

2006-09-02 00:28:35 · 12 answers · asked by rachitkhaitan 1 in Singles & Dating

I just ended things with my boyfriend a few days ago because i didn't love him, and he was hardly talking to me. He claimed that he loved me but was going through something, yet he didn't know what it was. He said he had a mind block whenever we talked, and when i was breaking up with him, he said he was so in love with me and hated himself for ruining things. So i said we should just take a long while for space and can get back together is things get back to normal. But my ex from years ago says he loves me. Before you say things never work with an ex, i'm still a teenager, and years ago we were both much more immature. I know i'm completely in love with him too, but i don't know what's going to happen with my boyfriend! You see, we all hang about together in the same friend group, it was like all us couples/best friends together, but i miss them and now i'm not with my boyfriend it's harder to hang out. Everything's a mess and i feel i may be leading someone on.Please help!!

2006-09-02 00:25:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-02 00:24:50 · 32 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family

I have grown up in a Christian family. I have been in the worship leading ministry playing keyboard and guitar sometimes since I was 10. When we moved to the city, I still got involved with the ministry where i met my first boyfriend. not that there is a second. he is the bass guitarist of the band. i admit we were fools who rushed in. we were both immature and selfish, insecure and really young and it didn't work out. It ended bitterly. He broke up with me. Said all the words that would make any human being feel unworthy of love. But i know that i have my mistakes also. After he broke up with me, he left the church without notice. It was hard to deal with but with God's help I was able to make it through but I still love him and I was unprepared for his coming back after a year (NOW). He came back at church and months later in the worship ministry and slowly had been trying to get back to me.

2006-09-02 00:24:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-02 00:24:08 · 2 answers · asked by flyinghorse66662000 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Mine was ( and this is the truth ) , Gherkinfernakapus bomphry van der valk dibble...

I kid you not I was once called this at school ( xx years ago !!!! ) , by a lad who was the school clown , and what a clown he was ....but the damned name stuck even into my working life ....any of you lot have a particularly weird nick name ??

2006-09-02 00:23:35 · 12 answers · asked by ec_sincity 4 in Friends

my ex bf moved to other country a few month ago and he promised me that he will be with me because he love me so much. I believed him that he loves me but I wasn’t sure that our relationship will work out. I also love him so much he is my every thing I would never though he wanted to break up with me. Unfortunatly he wanted so he told me that he wanted to break up with me. I thought he was joking but he wasn’t. I asked him why he wanted to break up with me. He told me that it is hard for him far way relationship. I don’t think so that is the reason. I mean if u loves someone u has to fight for no matter what. I assumed that his parents don’t like me and they told him that to break up with me. I really love him so much even though we are not together. I want to stop loving him. I try to hate him but it doesn’t work. I have never loved anyone like this before. it is hard for me. I don’t know what to do. I need help. How do I stop loving him or hate him. I know that we never be together after this so no point loving him and thinking him. It just makes my life hard. Plz help me?

2006-09-02 00:22:43 · 9 answers · asked by lujufe 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife shows no interest in me anymore. She works late more, goes out of town with men co-workers on business trips, hides the fact from me, and says i don't trust her is why she didn't tell me she was with a man. Should I trust her? She dresses off the scale nice for work, but is totally the opposite with me. She don't seem to care where I go, or when I come back, and won't go anywhere with me socially. Outside of this she is good as gold to me. She has admitted to cheating on me but says that was when we were split up and thats the only time. The problem I can't ever get around is i have saw her with my own eyes all over another man and she will never admit it. This tears at my heart but I stay with her anyway. Should I stay? Should I leave? Financially I can't afford to leave. I feel trapped and want to believe in her, but I don't know what to do. She claims she will go to counseling with me, but never makes an effort to do it, I just hurt all over, and don't know what to do?

2006-09-02 00:21:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My friend has a job that requires him to carpool, that's a good thing... Now that this person is carpooling one of the other persons in the car has decided to smoke pot on their way home from work every night... The owner of the car doesn't think it's such a big deal even though he knows my friend is on probation and if they were to get stopped by police and drugs were found might send my friend to prison by violating his probation. There is no other means of transportation for him to take and he asked me what he should do. He's also required to maintain a job. I need input as to should he confront the carpool operator, quit the job, take a chance and go on riding or ???

2006-09-02 00:19:41 · 8 answers · asked by Allen 3 in Friends

I have been married for 10 months, and we do not believe in premarital sex. My husband is very well endowed, so sex always hurts, and I cannot enjoy any aspect of it. It makes me really sad, but I don't want to do it at all because of this, and it is really straining our relationship since I never initiate anything. Because I can never hide that I am in pain, it takes him really long to climax. He thinks we should try to do it more often so it won't hurt so much (since now it's infrequent), but the thought of this scares me. I don't want to be scared of my husband whenever he wants me. It is also hard to change mentally to being 'allowed' to have sex when I haven't before. I still kind of feel like it's wrong and dirty. Please help.

2006-09-02 00:18:19 · 17 answers · asked by TDG 1 in Marriage & Divorce

tell me about it.

2006-09-02 00:18:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My younger cousin as been seeing a guy for about 3 weeks and she'll be 16 next week so is planning to have sex with her boyfriend. I know this is the age that your allowed to have sex at but don't you think its a bit young ? I'm trying to persuade her not to have sex with him yet and wait for a couple of years but shes just ignoring me. Please help, I don't want her to do something she'll regreat later on

2006-09-02 00:18:04 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-02 00:16:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When my son gets older, I want him to have two sets of grandparents. My boyfriend has his real parents so of course my son will call them grandma and grandpa. However, I have foster parents ( I've only been with them since I was 16) and I don't refer to them as Mom and Dad when I am around them, because it is just weird to me. They are both fairly young to be grandparents but they are the only grandparents on my side that my son will know, so do you think when he gets older, I should start calling them Mom and Dad instead of by name so that I don't confuse my son?

2006-09-02 00:16:02 · 7 answers · asked by dawn27 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

lets here it romantic guys...

2006-09-02 00:11:55 · 15 answers · asked by Maria N 2 in Singles & Dating

Well my friend has become disturbing he took over his fathers company that makes millions and millions every year. For the past year he hired 5 girls at 33,000 a piece and pays there health insurance gives them one payed vacation a year. There jobs is to screw him around the clock when he is up. Ok so hes sexually active but here is the problem he never quits and he does nothing for instence he might be playing madden 06 with me and while he is playing hes getting a hummer or when he invites his parents over for dinner one of the girls is getting a hummer to make things worse when he has guest such as me which is often just me he tells one of his girls to go over there and then she strips pulls over her thong unzips me then screws me. I dont know what to say i never had sex like this man he could be drinking a coke and playing playstation while he is getting some and he doesnt react its all the female. Thanksgiving was horrable he invited me then after words we went out to grab

2006-09-02 00:11:53 · 5 answers · asked by Thomas L 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-02 00:11:46 · 1 answers · asked by sharmaine m 1 in Friends

This guy is always looking at me whenever I pass. Whenever I'm not there he'll ask about me to my friends.He's very sweet and kind to me.His friends tease him a lot by my name.Does this mean that this guy like me?If yes I have no problem because I like him too.

2006-09-02 00:09:46 · 18 answers · asked by ketki 1 in Singles & Dating

Its like you dont want to live anymore...

2006-09-02 00:08:59 · 21 answers · asked by Lonez 2 in Friends

SHE DNT LIKE THE PHYSICAL RELATION BETWEEN US BUT WE BOTH LOVE EACH OTHER A LOT AND ITS NOT THAT SHE HATES ME SHE LOVES ME A LOT AND WE BOTH ARE INTO A VERY LONG RELATION BUT EVERY TIME I WANT HER SHE JUST REGRETS AS IF AM SOME ONE NOT REALLLY CONCIDERED AND SHEHAVE STARTED HIDING FEW THINGS FROM ME AS I AM VERY POSSESSIVE ABOUT HER AND SHE IS NOT READY TO ACCEPT WHAT SHE HAS DONE SO I WANT TO KNOW WHY IS SHE DOING THIS AND HOW SHOULD I OME OVER IT ?

2006-09-02 00:08:38 · 4 answers · asked by awsome_anan 1 in Friends

2006-09-02 00:08:18 · 4 answers · asked by nikesh s 1 in Friends