I just ended things with my boyfriend a few days ago because i didn't love him, and he was hardly talking to me. He claimed that he loved me but was going through something, yet he didn't know what it was. He said he had a mind block whenever we talked, and when i was breaking up with him, he said he was so in love with me and hated himself for ruining things. So i said we should just take a long while for space and can get back together is things get back to normal. But my ex from years ago says he loves me. Before you say things never work with an ex, i'm still a teenager, and years ago we were both much more immature. I know i'm completely in love with him too, but i don't know what's going to happen with my boyfriend! You see, we all hang about together in the same friend group, it was like all us couples/best friends together, but i miss them and now i'm not with my boyfriend it's harder to hang out. Everything's a mess and i feel i may be leading someone on.Please help!!
2006-09-02 00:25:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my ex was my first love
2006-09-02 00:27:37 · update #1
From reading your previous questions, it seems pretty obvious that the relationship with the boyfriend isn’t heading anywhere.
Put it behind you.
I don’t know what the relationship with the ex was like, but if you believe there is a future in it, then go for it.
Good luck!!!
2006-09-02 00:32:35 · answer #1 · answered by I_C_Y_U_R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't love your present boyfriend be kind enough to say so to him. Dating a ex never seems to work even in high school. I dated my ex during high school and then after thinking we had grown up and things were different wrong we broke up again and I think we only went together again because he was my first love and I wanted it back. You can try it but I really do not think it will work once there is pain in a relationship and history it is hard to get past it. I will always care for my first love but know there is no going back
2006-09-02 00:35:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Do you or do you not love your current boyfriend? If you love him, work things out...that is what a relationship is all about. Also, don't forget you are young yet. While it is completely possible to find "true" love as a teenager...don't forget that the only way a relationship works out at that age is if you both grow together. From experience...that rarely happens at that age.
2006-09-02 00:33:35 · answer #3 · answered by stitch_fan22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say never involve yourself in a romantic situation immediately upon the end of one. There is a reason for that and it's because you are still in an emotional transition where you need to sort your feelings out.
What you should do then is stop all romantic involvement for a span of time. Just kick back and give yourself time to settle. There is no law that says you must constantly have a boyfirend. If there are strong feelings there they won't end while you give your heart a rest.
2006-09-02 00:33:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK. Here's some real problems.
There's a war on terror all over Europe and America. It's affecting most of the populated world. There's hunger and decease in Africa and India. The world economy is up the spout. There is poverty in our own cities which isn't being addressed by our government. The health system is crap. The retirement fund is bankrupt.
Shall I go on?
2006-09-02 00:35:17 · answer #5 · answered by letem haveit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you all used to run together.. kind of an extended family. NOw it is breaking apart and you don't want that.. understandably you do care about each peron in the group. This can not be maintained... you need to live, grow, educate, experience and what the group, relationships have too offer won't cut it...
It's called growing up, moving up and out and finding out who you are... and it may not include this extended family...... not all of them anyway.
2006-09-02 00:31:34 · answer #6 · answered by Maken trax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
supply Jr different inconsequential conventional jobs on your special occasion. issues that would look significant on your fiance (to this point as Jr is worried) and then have Edwin clarify to him that he'd lots somewhat have Jr manage those conventional jobs than every physique else, yet that it would forfeit Jr's place as perfect guy. Have Edwin make it sparkling to Jr that he hopes Jr will fulfill the different conventional jobs, as there is not any-one else Edwin might somewhat have overlaying those conventional jobs. (accountability examples: making particular the fits/tuxedos are waiting, that the perfect guy has the hoop, that the groomsmen comprehend what are predicted of them on the day, that all and sundry who's doing speeches have their speeches waiting and arranged, that the DJ is desperate up on the reception, etc.). of course you and Edwin might examine those issues as properly devoid of Jr understanding, besides the indisputable fact that it supplies Jr the sensation of value and removes any undesirable emotions. in this way, no-one's ft get trampled on and all and sundry finally ends up feeling greater appropriate approximately it.
2016-09-30 06:38:20 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did someone spread some glue???? Co'z I feel so sticky..... well in your case, you gotta consider some time alone..... you gotta reflect and dig right deep into you and look for the answers..... don't worry co'z there really is no right answer...... but there is always the BEST answer..... the best answer will be whatever makes you really happy..... not what will make others happy..... don't be afraid to make decisions just because you are afraid of hurting someone..... co'z if you do, the only SOMEONE you'll be hurting is YOURSELF.... and thats pretty bad........ people will get over it, don't worry..... just try and find out what you really want and stand up for it........ if you do, things will fall into it's right places on their own...... you'll be surprise of what might happen next......... Don't worry, things doesn't always end up the way we want them to be...... because they are even BETTER...... Trust me......
2006-09-02 00:58:34 · answer #8 · answered by <--tsk--> 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All love situations get a little sticky eventually babe. Damn I'am a bad girl, hahaha!
2006-09-02 00:43:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes back off - don't commit to anyone. Wait till later in life. Enjoy yourself your only young once.
2006-09-02 00:33:06 · answer #10 · answered by Common Cents Genius 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋