i just endind my friendship with my best friend but i dont know if i'm right for doing that or not. we've been on and off for months. and now im so heartbroken i want to go back and ask for forgiveness but ive been doing that to much and ill just repeat the steps all over again. we have grown mature and changed alot. and that started to make our friendship end. what should i do?
2006-09-02 19:40:16 · 9 answers · asked by lost and confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'll be your new friend. I'm freakin great at being a friend.
2006-09-02 19:41:34 · answer #1 · answered by Tarabeara 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well without knowing more details why you ended your friendship other then that you grew apart due to maturity it is hard to give much advice.However if your heart is telling you to seek forgiveness I think you should not ignore your inner voice.Whether or not the friendship will continue being the same is a mystery.Instead of ending the friendship a more mature route would be to let it evolve into something that it wants to be...Relationships change with time,very rarely do best friendships stay best.Its important for you to talk with your friend,and let her know how you feel...Good luck
2006-09-03 02:43:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Focus on something else. The two of your just need some time apart. This may make your relationship stronger in the long run or you may go your separate ways permanently. Either way you need to leave what happened in the past and move on. Start making new friends or hang out with the ones you neglected.
2006-09-03 02:43:28 · answer #3 · answered by Simmy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all a best friend relationship doesn't "break it off"...that's the high school way of dealing with friendship disagreements....sounds more like a lover instead....regardless...if they are truly your best friend....then disagreements should be settled differently and you should support your best friend....what could you possibly be fighting about any way....if your best friend isn't your lover....then are u 2 fighting over a lover?....still doesn't define best friend. the only reason to discontinue a friendship is if that person refuses to cease an illegal or harmful activity they insist on continuing or asking you to participate is such an activity
2006-09-03 02:56:40 · answer #4 · answered by mystikalmoonwillow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost Lot of friends over fights.I don't even have one high school friend left.I wish my friend's are still with me.My point to this is.You have to keep your head up and start over again.It's going to be hard.Yes!Try not to stop trying because I don't want you to end up like me.I hide behind this computer because I don't want to get hurt again.So keep trying.
2006-09-03 02:56:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sweety it's never hard to be friends again no matter how hard it seems.. if u both were really best friends then i can assure u that if u try to talk to that person everything will be back to normal.. if he/she is not accepting ur appologie now then give them sometime until they forgive u
2006-09-03 02:44:40 · answer #6 · answered by ayooo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forge forward, find new interests and along with that new friends that you may have more in common with. :)
2006-09-03 02:43:54 · answer #7 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never end a friendship... at least don go straight to him and say "i'm ending this friendship"
2006-09-03 02:42:45 · answer #8 · answered by naj690 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
make new friends WANNA BE MY FRIEND
2006-09-03 02:42:22 · answer #9 · answered by TIMEPASS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋