Family & Relationships - 27 August 2006

I have recently been receiving anonymous text messsages from someone claiming to be my secret admirer. He stated that he is a coworker and he thinks I'm the most beautiful women he's every met and he knows I have feelings for him. He asked me to leave the father of my children whom I've been with for 6 years. After a series of about 35 messages during my weekend off work, he declared his undying love for me and asked me to prove mine. When I went back to work, I was sure I knew who it was but I was too scared to confront him, so I pretended like I was peachy and acted normal. I hoped he would catch the hint that I wanted to pretend it never happened and move on so I don't have to quit my job. Unfortunately I have continued to receive more. I don't know what to do and I am starting to get scared. I have never mislead the man into thinking I would cheat or that I was even interested. We work in a restaurant so everyone jokes around but I'd never cross the line. I think he's crazy, help!

2006-08-27 04:43:17 · 7 answers · asked by Nina 2 Niña 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am so deliciously wicked. It has been some weeks since my hubby & I separation and I'm already getting his a-- back good in the divorce! Oh, sweet revenge!

Any ideas on how to make her suffer, legally? I heard of a wife running over an other woman twice but I'm not going to jail for my loser hubby. How do I find her address? What if she's married too?

And why shouldn't I make her suffer?! I ought to act on my emotions! Isn't that what my hubby of 5 yrs did when he screwed her? I guess I wasn't good enough for him! Well..it doesn't matter now.

I have thought about sending out flyers with "home-wrecker" and her picture. (I hired a private investigator!) What do you suggest? How can I contact her family?

I told my friends this and they said I need counseling. But I'm not crazy! My hubby just married the wrong person to have an affair on! It'll be the upmost satisfaction clipping some of her hair off. What do you think?

2006-08-27 04:42:33 · 19 answers · asked by Selly 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I say things in my head about people and it's not nice and when someone swears at me it doesn't come out of my mouth.
I swear back in my head and laugh the whole night through.

My angry is in a bottle and keeps filling up, snap i hit the person who hardly said anything 2 me than the person who did.

I never had a happy childhood,and everytime someone puts a happy song on i fall into tears and i have no idea why.
Than i start to think about the people around me and insult them in my head.
My mouth is shut but my mind is what hurts my soul the most.
Is it wrong to say evil things in ur head or is it normal?
If u have something rude to say keep it to urself, coz i don't wanna hear it.

2006-08-27 04:41:53 · 8 answers · asked by *~`h!8@Q 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

my bf hasnt told his parents he has been going out w/me which is weird cuz its been 6yrs. im 14 hes 15.....i plan to go skating w/ him evry friday but his mom wants a reason y he wants to go suddenly and he still refuzes to tell his parents about us what could he tell his mom so that she would let him go skating????????plzz and thanx!

2006-08-27 04:40:55 · 13 answers · asked by cliona 2 in Singles & Dating

What if there are many quarrels and disagreements after marriage? What if you don't love him as much he loves you? Should you wait a few more years before deciding? Or should you just trust and believe that love and marital bliss will grow with time?

2006-08-27 04:40:51 · 11 answers · asked by silver lining 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-27 04:40:35 · 3 answers · asked by Rose 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok um I asked this guy to the dance and he said yes, we email each other and I think that he thinks were gf&bf but I dont, and I kinda stopped liking him as much, also I dont wanna hurt his feelings seriously he is like way sensitive. how do I kinda give him the message I wanna move on?

2006-08-27 04:40:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

"i love you" and they either said "thanx" or went quiet then changed the subject?

2006-08-27 04:39:51 · 33 answers · asked by missy minx 3 in Singles & Dating

someone forgot that god has send in this world for there mother mother will love you and care you but why sons leave them like a animal shouting and beating to your mother but she gives you milk, love,caring and much more but why they do this with there mother ??????????

2006-08-27 04:38:46 · 8 answers · asked by beautiful_cute_kitty 2 in Family

Me and this boy were really really close. People always think were going out or we really like each other. But all of a sudden one day after i spent 6 hours with my guy, i went home and found out his next door neighboors went over to his house and BEGGED him to go out with this other girl at our school. After an hour he said yes, but everytime he is around me now, he acts like he is miserable because he has a girl on his hands and wont even admit that he is going out with her in 1st place, and when people critisise her, he just nodds his head in agreement. Why hasnt he broken up with her yet?????????????????????????????????????????

2006-08-27 04:38:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm looking for white gold. I'm not sure about carats or other stuff? Willing pay up to 5k. Any suggestions?

2006-08-27 04:38:05 · 14 answers · asked by mdh9302 1 in Weddings

im friends with a guy named *rob. hes funny, nice, not very cute. he liked a girl named *kathryn. he really liked her and she had no idea, but EVERYbody else knew. well he called me last night when he was babysitting and we talked for a while. he told me he had just talked to kathryn for and hour and a half. i lauged but then he said he didnt like her anymore. i tried to guess who he did like. he gave me a description of a gril who sounded just like me. when i didnt guess her he asked me out. i thought he was kidding but i found out he wasnt. i didnt know what to say so i just said yes but now i regret that. what should i do!!

2006-08-27 04:37:54 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i respect my parents wishes most of the time,my friends say i am spoilt because they would rather i just ran the Solarium they bought me but i want to do something with my life more worthwhile,i have a nice life on the whole,car ,scooter,care of my parents i must add,its as if they want to keep me a girl and around as long as possible,i am 23 ,my older sister lives off our parents but i want to provide for myself please advise xx

2006-08-27 04:36:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-08-27 04:36:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-08-27 04:35:54 · 10 answers · asked by seaturtle36 6 in Family

Ok, so i have a boyfriend and we have been together only for about a week, but its long distance and we hardly see each other. But i think that something is going on that i dont know about, is he cheating on me? how can i tell?

2006-08-27 04:35:36 · 7 answers · asked by Taisha B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I kinda know him.. ive spoken to him on email(cause i had the courage to give it to him) cause he was staring ..but we havent spoken face to face.. yet he looks at me really intensly everytime i see him?? (in a nice way :) ) even if he is with his friend's.Could he like me but is shy or something?

2006-08-27 04:33:58 · 17 answers · asked by rasta 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-27 04:32:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just bord

2006-08-27 04:32:06 · 12 answers · asked by loveya111 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex husband was support to pay child support, carry insurance and pay for 1/3 of my daughters college. Over all I would say he still owes close to 25,000. He has a very good job and always has. However my daughter is 33 now , married with three kids. Her and her husband are both unemployed due to down sizing and need some help. Is there a law or anyway she can make her father pay her what he owes now that she is legally an adult.

2006-08-27 04:31:29 · 9 answers · asked by grandma becky 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-27 04:31:27 · 12 answers · asked by sue man 2 in Friends

hey, my dad is getting remarried and i dont have a lot of money and i need a good gift for him....any ideas? if u could give me the internet site that would b great! i need sumtin that will blow him and his new wife away...i dont have a lot of money..

thanks

2006-08-27 04:30:49 · 16 answers · asked by bully dawg72 1 in Weddings

ok im 13 and 4'10 in blue eyes and blonde hair do u think that i am dateable?

2006-08-27 04:30:19 · 8 answers · asked by the boy with no name 2 in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine just married her abusive boyfriend. She had the nerve to call the office (we work together) and ask if anyone was going to do anything for her, maybe we could donate some money so they could stay in a hotel that night. 3 out of 8 said no, me included. 4 or 5 times in the past 10 months, he has beat her up. The last time she had him arrested, issued a restraining order and he spent 2 months in jail. When he was released, she asked the judge to drop the charges and the restraining order, the judge said no. It's her business, what she decides to do with the guy, but how can she be pissed that 3 of us don't want to give money for this "blessed union"? She said we just don't give a sh** about anyone but ourselves, in fact, it's probably the opposite. I don't feel like I'm wrong to not give. I didn't go to the wedding either, I just can't pretend to like the guy and be happy for her.

2006-08-27 04:30:08 · 6 answers · asked by msuzyq 4 in Friends

I like hearing peoples family stuff they do together. But we cant go out side because its always hot! i love spending time with my family but we're always on the computer or watching T.V.! My mom is cheep so it can't be expensive!HELP!!

2006-08-27 04:28:41 · 9 answers · asked by azabbyg 2 in Family

my family all like him but hes in the army and i hardly see him can we have a long distance relationship?

2006-08-27 04:28:03 · 5 answers · asked by Molly-Huu-Huu 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I miss him a lot. He not reply my mail... how can i know what he thought about me? Any advise?

2006-08-27 04:27:55 · 14 answers · asked by SA 3 in Singles & Dating

And I break out in a rash and cant stop sneezing what can I do I tried stroking it the other night and it was ok but I dont want to loose her and admit my allergy.what should I do.

2006-08-27 04:27:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-27 04:26:41 · 14 answers · asked by magy 1 in Weddings

2006-08-27 04:26:01 · 6 answers · asked by The Black Man 1 in Singles & Dating