How did you deal with the loss of both of your parents. If you have?

Answer 1

I don't think I'd ever be able to do that, I've got both of my parents and yeah If I were to lose them I think I'd die with them, a big part of me would leave this world along with them, I guess that ain't possible, if you wanna talk I'm online write back!

Answer 2

it's not an easy question to answer. Go to a good motel and rent a room for a day off. Then after having anice meal and a shower, lay on bed and recall all the moments you can, hopefully more happy ones than bad ones. And let your tears roll down. Nothing wrong at all with that. But it'll give you your sapce and privacy. A fgood cry is what most of the times is needed. Realize they are gone, if dead, to a better place with no more pain and sufferings and worries. Then smile and have a mental [picture of their faces. They'll like that. If separated, that's their decision.

Answer 3

My dad died 26 years ago when he was the same age I am now and my mother died three years ago. Time does help with healing, but you never forget. Talking about them helps, using things they used and doing things they used to do. Keep something close to you that was special to them. After a while the memories begin to be fond memories rather than always tinged with sadness. You go on and lead your life because that is what they would want you to do.

Your parents will always be with you in some way. Not in the physical way they used to be, but they will be there - in your memories, in your siblings if you have any, in your children when they come along.

Do a search for "coping with loss" and you will find many helpful sites. Take care of yourself.

Answer 4

i only lost my dad....but then i lost my mom on a different level (mentally, emotionally). you lost both parents?! god, you poor thing. i am very sorry.

There are many things people turn to help them deal with such a huge loss....good things and bad things.
don't let your loss ruin you. you are what is left of your parents...you are a product of them combined, the best of both of them. let them live on thru you. In all you do in your life, do it with extra passion knowing that you are representing your parents.
Immortalizing deceased loved ones like this is the best way to deal.

Answer 5

I have lost one of my parents at a young age. I cannot imagine both. I believe that family and friends support are very helpful. Faith that they are in a better place helps a little. I still talk to my mother even though she isn't here. That helps me too. I tell God to tell my mother things that I want to talk to her about sometimes, it just helps me feel better.

Answer 6

there are two things to be considered:
first if they are too old and have some sickness that give them hard time, Iam feel glad if God will take them.
second if they are not that much old it is very sad and pain to me.

But as i onced said separation is the most painfull in life but if it God's will to leave us we have to be thankfull for at that moment they are with the Lord.

Answer 7

It is devastating at first, but after a while, you will learn to move on. Just think, probably they are in a better place now. Most of all........you can do what you want in your own way

Answer 8

as much as it hurts, try to understand that nothing really happens as a coincidence. And as irrational as it may be, accept it. We can not change life and if you fight against it, it'll take longer for you to get over it. I am sorry if this happened to you. Remember there is a God who does care and watches over you.
Big hug.

Answer 9

ive lost my mother and its just hard she is hat held us all togethe and now it seems we are all going in different directions when she passed my father didnt handle it the way i expected he went out on dates with other women it took me a while to get use to that we are just now starting to become close again its hard though

Answer 10

realize and accept that death is part of life.