Does anyone know some good ideas to make the Other Woman suffer as much as me?

Question

I am so deliciously wicked. It has been some weeks since my hubby & I separation and I'm already getting his a-- back good in the divorce! Oh, sweet revenge!

Any ideas on how to make her suffer, legally? I heard of a wife running over an other woman twice but I'm not going to jail for my loser hubby. How do I find her address? What if she's married too?

And why shouldn't I make her suffer?! I ought to act on my emotions! Isn't that what my hubby of 5 yrs did when he screwed her? I guess I wasn't good enough for him! Well..it doesn't matter now.

I have thought about sending out flyers with "home-wrecker" and her picture. (I hired a private investigator!) What do you suggest? How can I contact her family?

I told my friends this and they said I need counseling. But I'm not crazy! My hubby just married the wrong person to have an affair on! It'll be the upmost satisfaction clipping some of her hair off. What do you think?

Answer 1

Ah yes, hence the old saying "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned!" All true, and probably warranted. You can plot and scheme and devise ways to get even. Sure would feel good, wouldn't it? But look at it from another angle. Look what you're letting him do to you. Yes, you're hurt, angry, mad and a thousand other adjectives. But will putting the screws to him really make any of that better? Will you feel the same about yourself afterwards? Will you be proud of what you've done? Life throws you some crap. You can let it drag you down, or you can move on and try to find something positive in it. That way, it will not have all been for nothing. And no, I am not your husband's attorney, just someone who sees a lot of hating goin on out there. Good luck to you.

Answer 2

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Does anyone know some good ideas to make the Other Woman suffer as much as me?
I am so deliciously wicked. It has been some weeks since my hubby & I separation and I'm already getting his a-- back good in the divorce! Oh, sweet revenge!

Any ideas on how to make her suffer, legally? I heard of a wife running over an other woman twice but I'm not going to jail for my...

Answer 3

Actually all this does is make you look like you're off your rocker and most people will honestly probably think he's better off without you. You're friends are right; you do need counseling as what you're doing is not normal and it's not healthy. Sweetie, I know you're angry and you're hurting, but you're only hurting yourself by doing this stuff. Take your dignity and just walk away; it's the hardest thing you'll ever do but down the road, you'll be thankful you did it. You need to take your anger out in healthier ways. Go buy a punching bad and put it her picture on it. But right now, I hate to tell you this, but you are acting very crazy. Go too far and you'll end up in jail and where's the revenge in that?

It's very true what they say: Doing well is the best revenge. Showing that you can live better without him. That you've moved on.

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Answer 5

Gee you really need help, Why don't you look at the relationship and see what went wrong and repair that. It takes two for a relationship and I bet if you were honest with yourself that the affair is the tip of the iceberg. Instead for making life miserable the best revenge is being happier without him and with any luck you wouldn't dump all your baggage onto a new relationship. Get some help dealing with your pain join a support group or see a therapist.

Answer 6

First of all, the BEST way to get back at your ex is to NOT do what you are doing, to go off on your own, and to LIVE SUCCESSFULLY Separately apart from him and to be HAPPY doing that.

What you are doing now could be considered stalking and YOU could end up jailed and with a criminal record -- do you really want that at this point in your life?

HE Screwed up -- literally. LET it BE and get on with an Independent life and LOOK FORWARD and not backwards (by actively making them miserable -- believe me, they will be miserable enough in the future as you are a Successful Independent person).

Answer 7

I think she'll be punished enough getting involved with a cheating ***hole! Just let her reap what she has sown, sweetie. Karma is Real. And it is so delicious to watch! Why is it better than revenge? Because it's the revenge of the Gods, and you get to watch yourself be validated! hahaha. p.s. - don't be hard on your friend. She is right, you do need counseling. I say this because YOUR HAPPINESS needs to be SEPARATE FROM and MORE IMPORTANT THAN her misery.....and right now you just need a little help untangling the two from each other.

Answer 8

ur obviously hurting,but i dont think ur plan will work...all it will do is give ur ex and his paramour ammunition to joke about how "crazy" the ex wife was,and how gr8 it was that he was able to escape a shrew like that.ever hear the phrase-"the best revenge is living well?" pick urself up with dignity,work on ur career,make ur lifa an enviable one.dont stoop to their level.yes,it hurts,but better revenge would be 5 yrs. from now,sending them a postcard from ur fabulous vacation on the french riviera ,or a photo of ur gr8 new house,or a photo of u,ur devoted new hubby and ur baby !!!!!!!do u c the difference-one kind of revenge makes u seem .....so full of hurt that u would stoop to becoming like a crazy person,the other makes u into a person who is to be envied,the "one who got away",the person who's life is a zillion times richer and better in all ways,after him,than it was with him.then people will say"oh,that jim was such a loser--but jessica really held it together and look how gr8 her life is now!" soooooooo much better than hearing--"poor jessica!she has been so crazy after jim left,she'll never get over it,how pathetic !!!" crazy mad=pathetic !!!! put ur head up high and focus on other things-he's not worth it !!!!!

Answer 9

Selly,

I can totally relate to you wanting to seek revenge. The feeling of "getting even" brings a feeling of satisfaction BUT be careful, Karma IS in deed REAL!! If "the other woman" is partially responsible for the break down of the marriage, Karma WILL get her!!! But, your husband is also at fault.

My boyfriend is in the process of a nasty divorce, I am NOT the cause of the break down, I met him almost 6 month's after she left him. He was court ordered to pay this wench $900.00 a month in temporary spousal support. It was a short marriage, no kid's, no property, she is the one that cheated not him & I had 2 of her "best friends" approach me & tell me she was being unfair to my man & told me details of her extra marital affairs. I want soooooooooooo bad to "get even", I want revenge!! If she is gonna cost my man a ton of cash, for NOTHING, I want some personal satisfaction to make every penny he pays "worth it". I will not act on my desire to "get even" even though I say I will. I trust Karma will do her job!!!

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Answer 10

I understand your anger. Don't let it get the better of you. You have issues that must be addressed. Move on, you're raking him in the divorce already. Piss him off more by acting cool and collected. It will tick him off to think that you are now dealing with it this way. He's a loser anyway. Wish her the best of luck. Who is she with, a guy who cheats on his wife. good riddance