I say things in my head about people and it's not nice and when someone swears at me it doesn't come out of my mouth.
I swear back in my head and laugh the whole night through.
My angry is in a bottle and keeps filling up, snap i hit the person who hardly said anything 2 me than the person who did.
I never had a happy childhood,and everytime someone puts a happy song on i fall into tears and i have no idea why.
Than i start to think about the people around me and insult them in my head.
My mouth is shut but my mind is what hurts my soul the most.
Is it wrong to say evil things in ur head or is it normal?
If u have something rude to say keep it to urself, coz i don't wanna hear it.
2006-08-27 04:41:53 · 8 answers · asked by *~`h!8@Q 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It is good that you keep your mouth shut and practice self control but yes, your mind needs to filter out all the garbage. Even though you're not letting it known to a person how much you hate them, your mind is impure. The only person it is hurting is yourself. When bad thoughts come into your head, cut them short. Don't let it fester and grow. That will only kill your spirit and corrupt you. Right now, you're like a pressure cooker, I know because I have been there. If you don't take care of it, you will blow one day in very bad ways. My husband is a pressure cooker too and he has done some very terrible things to me. It's taken him 27 years to do something about it. You're young from what I can tell. Help yourself before it gets too hard. Take care and good luck!!
2006-08-27 04:47:57 · answer #1 · answered by Emi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I've been in your position more than once, I know that saying stuff like this makes you feel like a horrible person. But when I'm with people to whom I can talk comfortably I have no problem in letting myself out. When some a**hole comes and tells something offensive don't stand there and take what he has to say, do what you can on your part to shut him up, It's better than having to take out your anger on the people you care about. Control your mind, not vice versa. Also do something nice for someone once in a while, this can also be a smile, to make your self feel better. You don't sound like a bad person. So don't think you are one. k.
2006-08-27 11:49:52 · answer #2 · answered by Shahbaaz Ali K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're allowed to think anything you want about anyone. It won't hurt anyone in there but you. It sounds like you're bottling everything up until you can't take it anymore. I would suggest facing the problem head on instead of keeping all your thoughts in your head.
2006-08-27 11:46:01 · answer #3 · answered by cutiedudie2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have no real outlet for your anger as you take it out on people with whom you feel safe rather than the ones who really get you angry. Please seek out a counselor to help you sort out your feelings and learn healthy coping skills. It's ok to think anything you wish, but not ok to act on the harmful, hurtful things. Also look in your area for anger management classes which can be so very helpful. Stuffing anger will only continue to harm you and others. Please get help.
2006-08-27 11:48:23 · answer #4 · answered by sashali 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're worried about your own thoughts you should talk to your doctor or a counselor. You might benefit from professional help.
2006-08-27 11:45:10 · answer #5 · answered by Emily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to change, so find the best method and do it.
2006-08-27 11:45:13 · answer #6 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think so
2006-08-27 11:44:08 · answer #7 · answered by boo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no idea!!
2006-08-27 15:10:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋